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But you can call her names?

You can call her names? She's worthy?


No. I'm more worthy of names than her.

Give it to me. Not her.

Then let me die.

Better by her hand than anyone else's.

What in the hell? I'm sorry, I know I haven't been part of this conversation, but you really need to stop. You may see her as a good person, or maybe you're just blinded by her beauty-I really don't know. But the fact of the matter is, if she's making you harm yourself, she simply cannot be a good person. If she's making you forget your own value, and if she's making you feel that you deserve the insults...than there's really something wrong. Honestly. You may not be able to see it, and I know I won't be able to convince you to let her go, but i'll say it anyway...

This has to stop. You need to let her go and move on.

I apologize again for getting in the middle of this argument. -_-;;

Moo. If you are still with her, fine is not the way to describe the situation. We're all worried for your health.

But this girl is telling her to burn in hell until there is nothing left. She keeps dumping her and dragging her back, telling her she is in love with other girls, insulting her, and do I need to go on?

I went through similar crap... and I don't want Moo hurt the way I was.

I think for one, we all need to settle down a bit. All the cursing and name calling needs to stop. Even if the name calling is going to a girl that is potentially harming my little sister.

The name calling, in general, is childish and isn't going to help anyone.

Moocat, you need to realize something. There are two major types of abuse. One is physical abuse, and one is mental abuse. Mental abuse is the same thing as physical abuse, except it's done with words. They are equally harmful and the victims of both then to go through a type of denial where they try to convince themself that the person doing the abuse just has a funny way of showing their love. Whether that be the case or not, in the long run, it can cause harm. Lots of harm. My mother was a domestic abuse victim. My real father was awesome... till they got married. Then he figured that he owned her and he beat the s**t out of her. He used to make her feel like she was nothing.. and after he'd beat her he would come back and tell her he loved her so she would lose the nerve she got to actually leave him. He almost choked her to death. Mental abuse works that way except instead of the physical abuse coming from someone else, it comes from yourself after so many times your partner has done or said something so many times it causes you to pop. You think that you didn't have a selfesteem before you met Lana? Just wait till after you've been with her so many years. If she doesn't cause you to pop first. You should at least hear us out. We're not trying to hurt you. We just want to see you the happiest you can be. Especially BT and I.

Twack, I know you mean well and I know you have a point but.. the age and actual maturity of their relationship doesnt give a good excuse for the abuse. My mother was 17 when she got married to my real father. Their immaturity doesnt excuse him almost killing the woman that raised me.

I agree. I'm getting really worried.

And what worries me more is that none of us know you IRL. We can't help you if anything serious (G-d forbid) were to happen to you.

We all mean well, you have to understand that. And even though I barely know you, I just want you to know that i'm always here for you. If you need to talk. If you're ever feeling particularly low. Please, just remember that. <3