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Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 11:35 am
sikh-91 [ Well, doesn't that make them all brainless, since you said they only fangirl over you because of your looks? neutral  Heh... Yah got me there.. but no not all of them.. some actually liked me for my RPing style.. >> but yeah most of them were brainless. YAY L fangirls.. Damn MisaMisa clones. >> (one of my pet peeves)
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Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 11:38 am
streah sikh-91 [ Well, doesn't that make them all brainless, since you said they only fangirl over you because of your looks? neutral  Heh... Yah got me there.. but no not all of them.. some actually liked me for my RPing style.. >> but yeah most of them were brainless. YAY L fangirls.. Damn MisaMisa clones. >> (one of my pet peeves) Lmao, I know I did.
So they liked you liked you because of your RP or just liked you as a friend because of your RP? Because... that's just weird if they liked you liked you because of your RP...
And doesn't that make you just as bad as the girls since you went along with it and lied to them how you felt? Making out they were okay when clearly you had a problem with them?
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Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 11:43 am
sikh-91 streah sikh-91 [ Well, doesn't that make them all brainless, since you said they only fangirl over you because of your looks? neutral  Heh... Yah got me there.. but no not all of them.. some actually liked me for my RPing style.. >> but yeah most of them were brainless. YAY L fangirls.. Damn MisaMisa clones. >> (one of my pet peeves) Lmao, I know I did.
So they liked you liked you because of your RP or just liked you as a friend because of your RP? Because... that's just weird if they liked you liked you because of your RP...
And doesn't that make you just as bad as the girls since you went along with it and lied to them how you felt? Making out they were okay when clearly you had a problem with them?  Didn't really lie.. I liked the attention.. don't get me wrong... just after a while of them fawning and falling over themselves it kinda got to the point where i wanted to disappear from whatever place I met them on or if i met them in real life.. which did happen a few times at Conventions and such.. i'd say hi to them as much as i could but tended to avoid them.. which i know is heartless.. but it was honestly how i felt... the girls that liked my RP.. those girls liked my characters I created.. especially when i was the older one in the RP and i played either an Teacher character or what ever was in authority based on the RP.. It was rather complicated... i know i'm probably digging myself into a deeper whole.. but honestly i felt like i need to get it off my chest >>
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Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 11:45 am
What a psychotic ******** b***h.
I wasn't downstairs for five minutes because she started screaming at me.
I come down stairs.
"We have snakes in the grass," she says. She's referring to a conversation between her and my aunt Kathy who cremated Harry and took care of his apartment. She repeated the conversation to me, word for word, which was basically a repetition of things she has said to me before, word for word. All needless and pointless and she's incapable of cutting to the chase. I rolled my eyes at something and she went ballistic.
"WHAT ARE YOU ROLLING YOUR EYES AT ME FOR?" Say it in your head - no, scream it. Shrilly. Eyes full of hate.
I haven't been downstairs for five minutes. She goes apeshit.
I told her I was rolling my eyes at Kathy, not her. She continues to fume, her blood is already set on boil. She screamed at me and I got upset. She didn't care. I asked her to apologize.
I'll bet 10 dollars you can't apologize in a more condescending, fake, and sarcastic tone than her. She never apologizes to me. Why should she? She's never wrong. Always right. Always.
What it comes down to is that she asked Kathy if there had been a checking account or savings account in his name. And Kathy "hesistated" before saying "No, goodbye," with an attitude. Of course, you go against my mother's opinion or belief at all, prepare for a storm.
So my mother wrote up a letter. She calls it strongly worded. I call it unnecessarily aggressive. It starts out "I did not appreciate you hanging up on me. That was totally uncalled for."
She accused her of theft. "Removal of things by other than next of kin constitutes theft in this state. When someone dies, things need to be done according to the law not by who gets there first."
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I read the letter. I don't like it. I think it's too nasty and aggressive. It will cause more harm than good.
The biggest problem here is that I told her what I thought. Very politely. I told her about something called confirmation bias. She was looking for a reason to attack Kathy and she found it. Of course, I'm wrong.
So she flips out. And, like she always does, she takes it to the extreme "Fine then, we won't send the letter!"
Never did I say that. Nothing at all. I tell her she should edit it and she takes it was "Forget about all of it." I'm upset and hurt. I ask her to apologize.
"I'm sorry for what they did,"
Blaming others. No, I tell her. I want her to apologize for hurting me.
"I'm sorry if I hurt you."
I hate that. I hate that so much. You don't say "if" in an apology. That takes all the responsibility out of it. The means it was only a maybe.
I have never heard her apologize for something she did wrong in a way that meant it. Everytime she has ever said she was sorry, I had to ask her to and she never meant it (when you say it screamingly, not looking directly at the other person, that's not a sincere apology in the slightest).
See the asterisk above?
As I was writing this, the story continued. At that point in time, she saddled up beside me and said she wanted to get me a lawyer. "Legal aid."
All because someone ******** hung up on her.
I don't think we need a lawyer.
Once again, I am wrong.
As always.
Also, I'm niave for trying not to assume the worst in people and trying to smooth things out without a lawyer because someone hung on her.
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Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 11:47 am
streah Didn't really lie.. I liked the attention.. don't get me wrong... just after a while of them fawning and falling over themselves it kinda got to the point where i wanted to disappear from whatever place I met them on or if i met them in real life.. which did happen a few times at Conventions and such.. i'd say hi to them as much as i could but tended to avoid them.. which i know is heartless.. but it was honestly how i felt... the girls that liked my RP.. those girls liked my characters I created.. especially when i was the older one in the RP and i played either an Teacher character or what ever was in authority based on the RP.. It was rather complicated... i know i'm probably digging myself into a deeper whole.. but honestly i felt like i need to get it off my chest >> At least you admitted it, I guess...
One question - how old were these girls? xp
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Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 11:51 am
sikh-91 streah Didn't really lie.. I liked the attention.. don't get me wrong... just after a while of them fawning and falling over themselves it kinda got to the point where i wanted to disappear from whatever place I met them on or if i met them in real life.. which did happen a few times at Conventions and such.. i'd say hi to them as much as i could but tended to avoid them.. which i know is heartless.. but it was honestly how i felt... the girls that liked my RP.. those girls liked my characters I created.. especially when i was the older one in the RP and i played either an Teacher character or what ever was in authority based on the RP.. It was rather complicated... i know i'm probably digging myself into a deeper whole.. but honestly i felt like i need to get it off my chest >> At least you admitted it, I guess...
One question - how old were these girls? xp  Heh... Honestly... the youngest one was 18... She dragged me into the new RP because she had RP'd with me before and the subject of what people looked like in real life came up.. posted a picture.. got about 20 friend requests from people in like 5 mins.. Damn Public forums.. >> Me thinks it was a trap rofl
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Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 11:55 am
streah sikh-91 streah Didn't really lie.. I liked the attention.. don't get me wrong... just after a while of them fawning and falling over themselves it kinda got to the point where i wanted to disappear from whatever place I met them on or if i met them in real life.. which did happen a few times at Conventions and such.. i'd say hi to them as much as i could but tended to avoid them.. which i know is heartless.. but it was honestly how i felt... the girls that liked my RP.. those girls liked my characters I created.. especially when i was the older one in the RP and i played either an Teacher character or what ever was in authority based on the RP.. It was rather complicated... i know i'm probably digging myself into a deeper whole.. but honestly i felt like i need to get it off my chest >> At least you admitted it, I guess...
One question - how old were these girls? xp  Heh... Honestly... the youngest one was 18... She dragged me into the new RP because she had RP'd with me before and the subject of what people looked like in real life came up.. posted a picture.. got about 20 friend requests from people in like 5 mins.. Damn Public forums.. >> Me thinks it was a trap rofl Lmao, you made them seem like young teenagers who don't know any better - no offense. D:
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Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 12:01 pm
sikh-91 Lmao, you made them seem like young teenagers who don't know any better - no offense. D:  Nope estrogen filled girls of age.. every shape, style and color.. >> I'm not a teenager and i know what jailbait is so i tend to avoid it lol
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Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 12:03 pm
streah sikh-91 Lmao, you made them seem like young teenagers who don't know any better - no offense. D:  Nope estrogen filled girls of age.. every shape, style and color.. >> I'm not a teenager and i know what jailbait is so i tend to avoid it lol Yeah, blame it on estrogen. And I pretty much EVERY girl - shape, style and colour. Lmao, so what are you? Some creepy 50 year old guy? Good gracious. gonk
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Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 12:08 pm
sikh-91 streah sikh-91 Lmao, you made them seem like young teenagers who don't know any better - no offense. D:  Nope estrogen filled girls of age.. every shape, style and color.. >> I'm not a teenager and i know what jailbait is so i tend to avoid it lol Yeah, blame it on estrogen. And I pretty much EVERY girl - shape, style and colour. Lmao, so what are you? Some creepy 50 year old guy? Good gracious. gonk  heh.. Nah.. i'm in my 20's .. just got out of my teens.. but most teens are Jailbait to me due to the statutes of the law.. *grins*
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Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 12:25 pm
streah sikh-91 streah sikh-91 Lmao, you made them seem like young teenagers who don't know any better - no offense. D:  Nope estrogen filled girls of age.. every shape, style and color.. >> I'm not a teenager and i know what jailbait is so i tend to avoid it lol Yeah, blame it on estrogen. And I pretty much EVERY girl - shape, style and colour. Lmao, so what are you? Some creepy 50 year old guy? Good gracious. gonk  heh.. Nah.. i'm in my 20's .. just got out of my teens.. but most teens are Jailbait to me due to the statutes of the law.. *grins* Why are you grinning at that? D:
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Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 12:30 pm
sikh-91 streah heh.. Nah.. i'm in my 20's .. just got out of my teens.. but most teens are Jailbait to me due to the statutes of the law.. *grins* Why are you grinning at that? D:  Ignore that.. i grin at alot of things i really shouldn't grin at.. its more of finishing the phrase thing.. seeing as i type as what i think.. i apparently grinned when i hit submit. I'm a little odd >> So yeah.. that's my secret.. i have fangirls.. kind of an odd secret..
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Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 12:35 pm
streah sikh-91 streah heh.. Nah.. i'm in my 20's .. just got out of my teens.. but most teens are Jailbait to me due to the statutes of the law.. *grins* Why are you grinning at that? D:  Ignore that.. i grin at alot of things i really shouldn't grin at.. its more of finishing the phrase thing.. seeing as i type as what i think.. i apparently grinned when i hit submit. I'm a little odd >> So yeah.. that's my secret.. i have fangirls.. kind of an odd secret.. I pretty much doubt you're as odd as most of us here :'D
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Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 12:40 pm
sikh-91 streah sikh-91 streah heh.. Nah.. i'm in my 20's .. just got out of my teens.. but most teens are Jailbait to me due to the statutes of the law.. *grins* Why are you grinning at that? D:  Ignore that.. i grin at alot of things i really shouldn't grin at.. its more of finishing the phrase thing.. seeing as i type as what i think.. i apparently grinned when i hit submit. I'm a little odd >> So yeah.. that's my secret.. i have fangirls.. kind of an odd secret.. I pretty much doubt you're as odd as most of us here :'D  heh.. we'll see in time lol.. i should fit in rather well if they are odder than me..
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Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 12:41 pm
streah sikh-91 streah sikh-91 streah heh.. Nah.. i'm in my 20's .. just got out of my teens.. but most teens are Jailbait to me due to the statutes of the law.. *grins* Why are you grinning at that? D:  Ignore that.. i grin at alot of things i really shouldn't grin at.. its more of finishing the phrase thing.. seeing as i type as what i think.. i apparently grinned when i hit submit. I'm a little odd >> So yeah.. that's my secret.. i have fangirls.. kind of an odd secret.. I pretty much doubt you're as odd as most of us here :'D  heh.. we'll see in time lol.. i should fit in rather well if they are odder than me.. rofl Just check the Night Patrol thread XD
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