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 Posted: Wed Jan 31, 2007 7:54 am
VanillaCreamCoveredOreo Oh my, it seems that this is turning into a little high school like predicament. I personally thinkthat it was out of line to post pictures on an elitist group, simply to teach whoever a lesson.The fact that Viictoria-san has been loli for sometime now does not give her the right to completely destroy a beginner lolita, despite her effort to try and pull off the fashion. This completely betrays the whole manners idea of lolitas, who are classy, good mannered ladies. Would the posting of those pictures to have them picked apart be considered any of these? Absolutely not.
I know this might sound some what hard to do, but please try to tolerate us newer lolita, we really do try, it just doesn't always work out. We need all the positive support and constructive critisim we can get. Not just a simple and total rejection. Quite personally I do think that Navy-san has a point, and I agree totally with the lolita lifestyle idea she stated. Sorry for bringing this up so late, but I felt I needed to add my two cents. I completely agree with you
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Posted: Wed Jan 31, 2007 5:42 pm
THANK YOU. I totally and completely agree with everything you just said, Drywater. Personally, "********" disgusts me. I hate each and every person I see on there. I'll admit that some of them are justified in their posting, but most of the time, I just think: "Man....what a bunch of snobby BITCHES". Because really, who HASN'T botched Lolita at least ONCE when they were first starting out?! I know I still crap it up sometimes, and I've been studying it for nearly five years now. In fact, I still crap it up alot because of lack of five million dollars to buy every single gorgeous BtSSB and Meta dress, sock, petticoat, shirt, ect. IN FACT, I see people on ******** posting pictures of official merchandise, like a flipping Baby dress!!! That in itself makes me sick and proves that these girls don't have a CLUE what they're talking about. Drywater Novala Takemoto has mentioned in places, not just that one essay, that a Lolita must stand up for her fashion. However, his meaning is that if someone wants to make fun of you for what you're wearing, you need to stand strong. Honestly, though the context is rather different, aren't you and your community being the bullies here? We have a lot of girls here who haven't quite found themselves as a Lolita yet, are making the transition, or who simply don't have the money. If your family was poor to the point at which it was a strain to put something decent on the table every night, would you go out, get a job, then blow all the money overseas to buy fancy dresses and frilly outfits? I should hope not. Some of us have to make do with what we have, using what we can get. I feel so lucky because I know that there are such girls here, and they're still trying. And maybe we all can't afford a sewing machine, either. You have numerous brand name pieces, you're not overweight or have skin problems, bad hair, or anything wrong with you, really, except maybe you have the wrong attitude. I am QUITE sure Novala Takemoto did NOT mean that, when you find a Lolita that looks like a cosplayer or who has gotten the fashion wrong, you should gather up all their pictures in your sweet and innocent 16,000 yen Baby, The Stars Shine Bright basket and slap them down for a crowd of unkind, snobbish, elitist pigs disguised in sweet ruffles to desecrate. If you feel so strongly about your love for this fashion, you won't do this because it won't help your cause at all. Maybe you can change... and do something that WILL help repair the problems that you and your community are seeing here... which is staying and helping others out kindly by giving constructive criticism and suggestions. I know for a fact that Hotaru-chan wants to learn about how to become a good Lolita, and she's interested in Punk Lolita style. Perhaps you could help her learn.
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Posted: Wed Jan 31, 2007 7:14 pm
I agree with Nezumi and Drywater-san, and I thank them for posting that. I was very suprised to see a Baby dress up on the site, it really does prove that they do not know much about loli.
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Posted: Wed Jan 31, 2007 8:21 pm
♥ I hope everyone is over this little controversy now. ^-^
I would like to post a new picture of myself. I am in casual clothing though. I was going to Disneyland so it was best for modern clothing.
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Posted: Wed Jan 31, 2007 10:58 pm
You're so cute, Sixthstellestial! heart
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Posted: Thu Feb 01, 2007 5:51 am
Seraphynthetic You're so cute, Sixthstellestial! heart Ill just quote this becouse i agree with it ^__^
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Posted: Thu Feb 01, 2007 12:01 pm
Raining_blood_tears Seraphynthetic You're so cute, Sixthstellestial! heart Ill just quote this becouse i agree with it ^__^ *hops on the bandwagon* ^_^
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Posted: Thu Feb 01, 2007 12:26 pm
♥ Thank you everyone! ^-^
I look like I am 10 years old. LOL.
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Posted: Thu Feb 01, 2007 1:46 pm
Ahhh! You're so cute!!! <3
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Posted: Thu Feb 01, 2007 6:22 pm
VanillaCreamCoveredOreo Ahhh! You're so cute!!! <3
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 9:15 am
Sixthstellestial ♥ I hope everyone is over this little controversy now. ^-^
I would like to post a new picture of myself. I am in casual clothing though. I was going to Disneyland so it was best for modern clothing.
You look exactly like this girl I used to know. O_O You're so cute~! whee
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 9:47 am
omg i love those glasses! i know a model who has similar ones. she got them from ebay heart
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 11:26 am
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 2:00 pm
 And this pic is kinda big so i rather put it up as a link (this is the best one for cheking out my hair) PRESS HEREWatashi wa kawaii desu nee XDDD
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 4:18 pm
Raining_blood_tears [Images removed, gomen nasai!] And this pic is kinda big so i rather put it up as a link (this is the best one for cheking out my hair) PRESS HEREWatashi wa kawaii desu nee XDDD O.M.F.G.
I LOVE YOUR HAIR!! Tonight I'm dying mine blue with black ends. >w<
Are those extentions or falls somehow clipped in? o.o; Your hair is just...awesome!
I wish I knew what that said in Japanese.. ^^; I forget most of that. I should keep up on my studying..
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(taken a year ago)
(last week)