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 Posted: Mon May 15, 2006 7:27 pm
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Posted: Mon May 15, 2006 7:28 pm
Well, did you something unforgivable?
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Posted: Mon May 15, 2006 7:28 pm
umm how do you get past the bat quest in KoL?
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Posted: Mon May 15, 2006 7:29 pm
Hopefully she'll tell you what's really wrong, so you can work it out, instead of transfering her anger to something that's in the past.
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ananda082001 Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon May 15, 2006 7:30 pm
I dumped her because I didn't feel like she was mature enough. Now, understand, it wasn't because I wasn't getting any action or anything like that. I don't care about that stuff (and I'm not just saying that, I couldn't care less).
I just didn't feel like she was mature enough at the time and because of that I felt like I was having to act less mature, and I didn't like that. So I dumped her.
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Posted: Mon May 15, 2006 7:31 pm
Bestmom umm how do you get past the bat quest in KoL? What part are you stuck in?
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ananda082001 Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon May 15, 2006 7:31 pm
ananda082001 Hopefully she'll tell you what's really wrong, so you can work it out, instead of transfering her anger to something that's in the past. I don't even know... she's saying it's because she's thinking too much and it's not me but then she'll go and list a few things she's thinking about and half of them (at least) deal with me or things I've done.
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Posted: Mon May 15, 2006 7:33 pm
ananda082001 Bestmom umm how do you get past the bat quest in KoL? What part are you stuck in? The begining I can't go down any corroidors
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Posted: Mon May 15, 2006 7:34 pm
Bestmom ananda082001 Bestmom umm how do you get past the bat quest in KoL? What part are you stuck in? The begining I can't go down any corroidors Ah. Keep fighting the bats, and they'll eventually drop a sonic biscuit. Use it and see what happens. biggrin
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Posted: Mon May 15, 2006 7:40 pm
Sryne ananda082001 Hopefully she'll tell you what's really wrong, so you can work it out, instead of transfering her anger to something that's in the past. I don't even know... she's saying it's because she's thinking too much and it's not me but then she'll go and list a few things she's thinking about and half of them (at least) deal with me or things I've done. Sounds like she'll working herself up. I've caught myself doing that a few times with my hubby. I've had to step back and change my train of thought. Then I've realized that what I thought was anger, was really worry or fear. I wasn't rally mad at him. I was worried, stressed and scared about the future. I just used him as an excuse to get all worked up.
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ananda082001 Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon May 15, 2006 7:43 pm
ananda082001 Bestmom ananda082001 Bestmom umm how do you get past the bat quest in KoL? What part are you stuck in? The begining I can't go down any corroidors Ah. Keep fighting the bats, and they'll eventually drop a sonic biscuit. Use it and see what happens. biggrin ok
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Posted: Mon May 15, 2006 7:46 pm
ananda082001 Sounds like she'll working herself up. I've caught myself doing that a few times with my hubby. I've had to step back and change my train of thought. Then I've realized that what I thought was anger, was really worry or fear. I wasn't rally mad at him. I was worried, stressed and scared about the future. I just used him as an excuse to get all worked up. Well, I wish she'd quit it. It's getting me worked up, and I'm not exactly a good person to get worked up. confused
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Posted: Mon May 15, 2006 7:54 pm
Sryne ananda082001 Sounds like she'll working herself up. I've caught myself doing that a few times with my hubby. I've had to step back and change my train of thought. Then I've realized that what I thought was anger, was really worry or fear. I wasn't rally mad at him. I was worried, stressed and scared about the future. I just used him as an excuse to get all worked up. Well, I wish she'd quit it. It's getting me worked up, and I'm not exactly a good person to get worked up. confused I know hun. I don't know if it helps any, but if she is just working herself up, then it really isn't about you. It's about her. About whatever it is she's scared of. She's taking it out on you (which isn't right) but a lot of the time, its easier (and less scary) to have target (even one you've created) than to deal with the s**t going on in your head. Wish I could be more help. *hugs*
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Posted: Mon May 15, 2006 8:05 pm
ananda082001 I know hun. I don't know if it helps any, but if she is just working herself up, then it really isn't about you. It's about her. About whatever it is she's scared of. She's taking it out on you (which isn't right) but a lot of the time, its easier (and less scary) to have target (even one you've created) than to deal with the s**t going on in your head. Wish I could be more help. *hugs* I think it's me joining the National Guard.
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Posted: Mon May 15, 2006 8:09 pm
Sryne ananda082001 I know hun. I don't know if it helps any, but if she is just working herself up, then it really isn't about you. It's about her. About whatever it is she's scared of. She's taking it out on you (which isn't right) but a lot of the time, its easier (and less scary) to have target (even one you've created) than to deal with the s**t going on in your head. Wish I could be more help. *hugs* I think it's me joining the National Guard. That's very possible. I know the National Guard isn't as likely to put you in harm's way than other branches of the military, but its still a possibility. If she loves you anywhere near as much as I know you love her, then that thought is very scary for her. And anger is a lot easier to deal with than fear. When you're scared, you feel helpless. When you're angry, at least you feel like you're in control of something.
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