|
|
| Got secrets? |
|
|
| Total Votes : 263 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
 Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 5:41 pm
Angel of Windz My boyfriend can be protective of me at times.
>.<"
...
You're right, though.
I should tell him soon, but I think I'll wait until he's home from vacation, so that way I can tell him face to face instead of over the phone or on IM.
Knowing his sisters and his mom, telling something like that on IM would be a bad idea, cuz they'd be reading over his shoulder.
Dx
Yeah, face to face would probably be better, but try not to make it sound like a HUGE deal, like sitting him down and being all serious about it. I'd just casually mention it and act like it's no big deal (even though I do understand that it's kind of a big deal and that it can ******** you up psychologically). Or tell him that kicking the guy's a** would just make you feel worse. XP
|
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 5:48 pm
`•.¸¸.••´´¯``•• .¸¸.Just be who you ωαηηα be...
I haven't known Cho for a long time but I knew shortly after I started to hang out with him on zOMG I started to really like him. In Zen where we talked with each other, alone, for 9 hours straight, I knew I really liked him and was really interested in dating.. But at the time I was currently in a relationship and I wouldn't allow myself to go past a cute little crush even though I knew the relationship I was in, had already ended a long time ago. He even told me he was interested in dating by asking me if I would date him when he was ready to start dating again. Naturally, I said yes. After hanging out for who knows how many times and how many hours, we started to date on June 3rd. ^^ Now this leads up to the secrete...
I don't fall in love all the time but when I do meet someone I really like, I fall quickly.. The problem is, staying in love, and it isn't due to my part, it is usually due to the other partner but because of so many times of exs and I falling out of love, I tend to think it is my fault and I am the one to fall first.. even though I know it isn't true. It's like getting told your ugly your whole life, you may know underneath it all, it isn't true.. but it is always in the back of your mind, embedded.
So the secrete is, I am scared that I have a problem with falling in love, and then falling out of love.
Now the thing is, I know damn well I love Cho and wouldn't want to leave him due to the fact I am actually looking forward to certain things with him that I didn't with my other relationships. I'm looking forward to moving in with him, while with my ex I was terrified of it and really didn't want to.. So, I suppose that says something, I just tend to worry or something.. =< I don't like worrying, it makes me seem as if I don't really love him or I'm not committed when I know damn well I am.
...Not what others ωαηηα see.¸¸.••´´¯``•• .¸¸.•´
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 5:54 pm
Little Miss Fortune Angel of Windz My boyfriend can be protective of me at times.
>.<"
...
You're right, though.
I should tell him soon, but I think I'll wait until he's home from vacation, so that way I can tell him face to face instead of over the phone or on IM.
Knowing his sisters and his mom, telling something like that on IM would be a bad idea, cuz they'd be reading over his shoulder.
Dx
Yeah, face to face would probably be better, but try not to make it sound like a HUGE deal, like sitting him down and being all serious about it. I'd just casually mention it and act like it's no big deal (even though I do understand that it's kind of a big deal and that it can ******** you up psychologically). Or tell him that kicking the guy's a** would just make you feel worse. XPI honestly don't think the guy even remembers what he did.
It's been about six years since then.
Heh, I can do casual, though.
Just need to drag his a** out from his parents' clutches.
stare
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 5:57 pm
Angel of Windz I honestly don't think the guy even remembers what he did.
It's been about six years since then.
Heh, I can do casual, though.
Just need to drag his a** out from his parents' clutches.
stare
Good luck! >.<
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 6:42 pm
Real secrets- xD
My happy online self is way different from my irl self.I'm really depressed irl.
I'm 15.
I'm picky about the friends I choose.
I'm emotionally abused irl.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 9:43 pm
Not-so-serious secret
o 3o
I luh yooh guys!
You guys are so awesome and so nice!
8D
Semi-serious secret: I'm afraid to grow up.
I'm afraid of the inevitable is really what it boils down to.
And I've been having more and more panic attacks because of it since I'm getting steadily closer to my graduation.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 9:44 pm
Secret: I get easily depressed. ><;;
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 9:45 pm
Kuroonningen Secret: I get easily depressed. ><;;Secret: I do too. D:
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 11:11 pm
Kuroonningen Secret: I get easily depressed. ><;;Secret: I AM depressed and I'm secretly sad for deleting my ex from my friends list. *sigh* She's just too cold. If she just showed a little more love it might have worked out =(
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 11:11 pm
Icemist Dawn Kuroonningen Secret: I get easily depressed. ><;;Secret: I do too. D:Secret: Same here! Sometimes it gets really bad that I pray for death to come just to let the pain go away
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 11:16 pm
Secret: I get mad very easily. I'm really good at hiding it though.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 11:21 pm
I bottle up my emotions and give off a ruse of an expressionless face, thus concealing my emotions on the inside... I don't want others to waste their time worrying about me.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 11:26 pm
Secret: I feel like an attention whore, even though I know that I tend to sit on the sidelines. Have you noticed the bandwagons I've jumped on lately? I also feel like I never have any opinions of my own.
I'm upset at myself for being content to allow life to pass me by. I am upset at both myself and the guys I've known for my lack of romance. Myself because I don't interact with people, and the guys I've known because none (And I mean none) of them has ever asked me out. The one guy who asked me to be his girlfriend was a complete stranger who struck up a conversation with me in downtown Minneapolis. He asked me where the light rail was (even though he knew perfectly well where it was), and we met up for coffee a few weeks later. On said coffee date, he asked me out, and I said yes, only to freak out after we parted ways and shut off all communication with him. I mean, really, what is wrong with me?
Oh, and funny story about being asked out, I was picking my parents up from a bar when a veeery inebriated guy asked if he could buy me a drink because he thought I was a boy because of my short hair.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 11:33 pm
NoiseInTheShadows Secret: I feel like an attention whore, even though I know that I tend to sit on the sidelines. Have you noticed the bandwagons I've jumped on lately? I also feel like I never have any opinions of my own.
I'm upset at myself for being content to allow life to pass me by. I am upset at both myself and the guys I've known for my lack of romance. Myself because I don't interact with people, and the guys I've known because none (And I mean none) of them has ever asked me out. The one guy who asked me to be his girlfriend was a complete stranger who struck up a conversation with me in downtown Minneapolis. He asked me where the light rail was (even though he knew perfectly well where it was), and we met up for coffee a few weeks later. On said coffee date, he asked me out, and I said yes, only to freak out after we parted ways and shut off all communication with him. I mean, really, what is wrong with me?
Oh, and funny story about being asked out, I was picking my parents up from a bar when a veeery inebriated guy asked if he could buy me a drink because he thought I was a boy because of my short hair. Same here (except the dating, Idk if I would be celibate for the rest of my life). Every time there's an event, I just want to join in to prove that I do belong in the group and not be treated as an outcast. In all truth, I didn't feel better just jumping on the wagon. I felt better actually joining and present myself the way I am! Everyone has opinions, I solve this issue by asking myself, which side am I on? On issues like "Unsoulbound rings pl0x!" (dear G-D no! Devs game = their decision and players must respect it under reasonable circumstances)
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 11:42 pm
So kiss me softly... deadly...
I'll give you everything you ever wanted, baby...
When I was single, I'd imagine doing very kinky things to any hot guy that crossed my path. Yes, I was THAT shallow.
Now-a-days... I see a hot guy, appraise him, then compare him to my boyfriend. Usually, the boyfriend wins, though I do get plenty of ideas on what I would like to see from my boyfriend. Right now, I want to see his feeeeeeet. D: I've seen the rest of him, now how about those FEEEEET?!
So kiss me softly, it could be deadly
And give me everything I've always wanted, baby...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
