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 Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 8:33 am
pwned by Jenannen  I submitted this avatar for the arena next week. whee make sure to give the link in here so that i can give you a 10! XDDD
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 9:21 am
As far as the parents treatment of you goes, I don't think there's much you can do or say that will bring it to their attention. I know that whenever I try to take my father's focus off of himself, he gets very irrational and retorts that I'm selfish. .___.;
But I do hope that things start working out for you to move on and out. It's nice to get the positive feedback from family, but sometimes you have to turn to those who really care about you for it.
I don't know if I like the 30x30 or the 20x20.
 
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 9:54 am
Damn Miri....*Hangs her head some* I have no idea what to say to that...but damn them for doing that to you...
Children, despite any differences, should be loved and supported by their parents...sadly, not all people think the way I do...
It wasn't the game data you were upset at, thats for sure. From what I've seen in some of your posts the the past month or so have been related to this kind of neglect and it was only a matter of time before you broke down over it...
It seems your mother has little to no understanding about your life, and it almost seems like she doesn't even wish to try learning about it...and in that respect I can sympathize with you. My mother use to get angry at me for showing any sign of depression and would even hound me about what was wrong, because my life "was fantastic" and I "didn't have a reason to cry" regardless of what it was that I was upset over. I don't think I'll ever forget the time I brought home one of my paintings from school...I was so proud of it and asked her if she wanted to keep it since she had gotten upset that I gave my father most of my art more than once. Heh...her response? "I don't have room for that s**t!" I think thats when I actually started shutting down and spent as little time as I could at my home. I stayed out at all hours, stayed with my friends most weekends and alot of school nights, I ate in my room with the door shut and the music up, ignored the computer till I needed to use it for school...etc. etc.
I knew what that felt like...but I was lucky enough to have another parent that cared...I can't stand to think of someone else having to feel the way I did towards my mother...and for you to have to endure that stress...*Sighs and hugs tight*
Didn't you say you and your boyfriend were getting an apartment together at some time?
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 10:11 am
*hugs for Miri*
I agree with everyone else. I do think they should start taking toys away as punishment for things and not give him a gift everyday. It seems like your parents are wrapped around his finger and spoiling him. Even if he is mentally retarded he should not get every thing he wants. That might be why he throws the tantrums that they allow him to stay home from school, but I could be wrong. I'm glad you at least have your boyfriend and probably others irl who cares a lot and are proud of you. Because you need real life caring people too.
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 10:13 am
BridgeChan bp56 Meriko would I be able to get a wigged base (shown below) I already bought moved to an edited base the one below to buy a limited from their shop with it? Since the wig is slightly past the waist and its to go on an edited base I thought it would be best to ask if the an editor here to put the wig on I will pay to get the wig moved and patched (I think thats the word). But also I need permission from you to use the base. I got the blank base from them with their permission to use it for this purpose. The following is the wigged base and the blank edited base (with the artist permission) I want it moved to.  Tasheren :"> Here's the blank base. I think it's the right skin tone. I tried to make one with a transparent background, and one with a white background, since I don't know what they want. rofl That is, assuming the transparent background actually saved the way it was supposed to. You and them have my permission to edit this base so you can get hair/whatever on it. :"> If it's ok with Meri, I can tackle that project if need be :3 Thanks in advance if Meri agrees. Also if she does would it cost the cost of the wig and the cost of recoloring plus a little extra for patching?
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 10:18 am
*offers tentative hugs and chocolate to Miri*
I can't really offer practical advice, but sweet Jesus does that suck. @_@
If ever there's a way I can be helpful, unlikely though that may be, you can always ask.
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 11:11 am
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 11:12 am
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 11:15 am
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 12:14 pm
You guys are great. Thanks...
My mom has a tendency to ignore everyone else's problems and act like she's the only one who has them or that hers are worse. If I say I've had a bad day, she talks about how her day was worse, if I feel sick or have a headache, she tells me how she always feels sick or has a headache, just to negate any of my problems.
My dad just ignores everything that doesn't revolve around himself or my brother.
Me and my boyfriend have been trying to move into our own apartment for a while, but we both don't have jobs. My boyfriend's been unemployed since December because Western New York has hardly any job openings. We can't afford to do anything and are forced to stay in my mom's house.
After what happened last night, me and my boyfriend started getting all of our stuff that's been scattered throughout the house and putting it in my room. This includes my PC, which my mom uses to play Maple Story because she broke her own computer. I'm hoping this will help protect our stuff from getting destroyed, and will also show mom just how much she hurt me. I don't want to have to leave my room when she's home...
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 2:55 pm
Care_e pwned by Jenannen I submitted this avatar for the arena next week. whee make sure to give the link in here so that i can give you a 10! XDDD Thanks Kari.
Bridgey:
I hear ya there. It was my dad that I had issues with though. I'd stay out late just to not have to see him, and once I started working I always took the late shifts so that out work schedules meant that I wouldn't have to be home when he was. Dad and I get along better now that I'm out of the house, but...
I had my mom. I've always had my mom. She's an amazing person.
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 3:49 pm
Oh, Miri, I forgot I mentioned that I wanted to redo your OC edit, and well, I also forgot to post it X'D I guess now is a good time as any :'D 
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 3:52 pm
bp56 BridgeChan bp56 Meriko would I be able to get a wigged base (shown below) I already bought moved to an edited base the one below to buy a limited from their shop with it? Since the wig is slightly past the waist and its to go on an edited base I thought it would be best to ask if the an editor here to put the wig on I will pay to get the wig moved and patched (I think thats the word). But also I need permission from you to use the base. I got the blank base from them with their permission to use it for this purpose. The following is the wigged base and the blank edited base (with the artist permission) I want it moved to. Tasheren :"> Here's the blank base. I think it's the right skin tone. I tried to make one with a transparent background, and one with a white background, since I don't know what they want. rofl That is, assuming the transparent background actually saved the way it was supposed to. You and them have my permission to edit this base so you can get hair/whatever on it. :"> If it's ok with Meri, I can tackle that project if need be :3 Thanks in advance if Meri agrees. Also if she does would it cost the cost of the wig and the cost of recoloring plus a little extra for patching? What ever you think the effort is worth is fine with me :3
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 3:54 pm
Awwwwww!
I want to hug it to death, but it'd probably bite me. ;0;
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 4:15 pm
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