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 Posted: Mon Apr 03, 2006 9:01 pm
Well, I had no idea how to respond to that, so I figured, "Why not be random?" Hence the 'Dun-dun-dun...' message.
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Posted: Mon Apr 03, 2006 9:31 pm
Kohki Well, I had no idea how to respond to that, so I figured, "Why not be random?" Hence the 'Dun-dun-dun...' message. Oh ok. (hugs cause she needs a hug right now)
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Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 3:00 pm
AkureiKnight Kohki Well, I had no idea how to respond to that, so I figured, "Why not be random?" Hence the 'Dun-dun-dun...' message. Oh ok. (hugs cause she needs a hug right now) *hugs Akurei because she needs a hug.* <3
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Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 11:50 am
AkureiKnight Kohki Well, I had no idea how to respond to that, so I figured, "Why not be random?" Hence the 'Dun-dun-dun...' message. Oh ok. (hugs cause she needs a hug right now) *Hugs Akurei* BTW is it gunna be a boy or girl and what you gonna name it >.>
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Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 2:28 pm
Tenaku AkureiKnight Kohki Well, I had no idea how to respond to that, so I figured, "Why not be random?" Hence the 'Dun-dun-dun...' message. Oh ok. (hugs cause she needs a hug right now) *Hugs Akurei* BTW is it gunna be a boy or girl and what you gonna name it >.> Why not make it both a boy and a girl at the same time! =)
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Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 9:09 pm
neoncode Tenaku AkureiKnight Kohki Well, I had no idea how to respond to that, so I figured, "Why not be random?" Hence the 'Dun-dun-dun...' message. Oh ok. (hugs cause she needs a hug right now) *Hugs Akurei* BTW is it gunna be a boy or girl and what you gonna name it >.> Why not make it both a boy and a girl at the same time! =) (hugs Pride and Tenaku back) Weeeelll... We decided it's gonna be a girl cause the first one was a boy. And Im not sure what we're gonna name it yet.
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Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 9:22 pm
AkureiKnight neoncode Tenaku AkureiKnight Kohki Well, I had no idea how to respond to that, so I figured, "Why not be random?" Hence the 'Dun-dun-dun...' message. Oh ok. (hugs cause she needs a hug right now) *Hugs Akurei* BTW is it gunna be a boy or girl and what you gonna name it >.> Why not make it both a boy and a girl at the same time! =) (hugs Pride and Tenaku back) Weeeelll... We decided it's gonna be a girl cause the first one was a boy. And Im not sure what we're gonna name it yet. Bow-chicka-wow-wow!
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Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2006 9:46 am
Yeah, one of the things somebody said reminded me of something I did once...I once drew a rainbow on the croch of my pants and wrote down the leg from my croch "Taste the rainbow, b***h!" That was fun! blaugh
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Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2006 3:14 pm
TheUltimateConditioner Yeah, one of the things somebody said reminded me of something I did once...I once drew a rainbow on the croch of my pants and wrote down the leg from my croch "Taste the rainbow, b***h!" That was fun! blaugh
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Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2006 6:24 pm
Hey...I have a bit of a dilema maybe you all could help me with. I'm 14, and have had feelings for both sexes ever since I can remember. I recently told my mom I was bi, and she said I "didn't understand the complexities of child development" and that it was "just a stage". When I told her that it's always been like this, she just repeated that it was just a stage. She then said she'd been doing some reading and it all said that it was normal to be curious, but that curiosity meant nothing. Then I said I'd done some reading too and it said nothing like that, and that there's a difference between curiosity and knowing. She said all my readings had been biased.
Then I told her that I liked a girl at my school, and her only reply was "I know". She said that at 14 nothing is forever and I wouldn't be with her forever. I said that I knew that, but that just because I was single or dating a guy didn't mean that I wasn't bi.
Then she changed the subject, and said she'd be fine if I "really did turn out to be bi, or even gay" that she would have no problem with it, but right now it was all just hormones.
I asked if it was hormones when I was 7. She said I was attracted to girls only when I was stressed out. That was completely ridiculous, and I told her so. She just repeated that I didn't know anything for sure and walked out.
So, what do you all think? I've always felt I was bi; I never look at a person's gender when thinking about whether or not I'd date them.
Do you think my mom really believes what she's saying, or just doesn't want to believe me?
Sorry if I sound like a whiny brat, this has really been bothering me.
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Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2006 7:49 pm
_jewelled_shoe_ Hey...I have a bit of a dilema maybe you all could help me with. I'm 14, and have had feelings for both sexes ever since I can remember. I recently told my mom I was bi, and she said I "didn't understand the complexities of child development" and that it was "just a stage". When I told her that it's always been like this, she just repeated that it was just a stage. She then said she'd been doing some reading and it all said that it was normal to be curious, but that curiosity meant nothing. Then I said I'd done some reading too and it said nothing like that, and that there's a difference between curiosity and knowing. She said all my readings had been biased.
Then I told her that I liked a girl at my school, and her only reply was "I know". She said that at 14 nothing is forever and I wouldn't be with her forever. I said that I knew that, but that just because I was single or dating a guy didn't mean that I wasn't bi.
Then she changed the subject, and said she'd be fine if I "really did turn out to be bi, or even gay" that she would have no problem with it, but right now it was all just hormones.
I asked if it was hormones when I was 7. She said I was attracted to girls only when I was stressed out. That was completely ridiculous, and I told her so. She just repeated that I didn't know anything for sure and walked out.
So, what do you all think? I've always felt I was bi; I never look at a person's gender when thinking about whether or not I'd date them.
Do you think my mom really believes what she's saying, or just doesn't want to believe me?
Sorry if I sound like a whiny brat, this has really been bothering me. I think it's a parental thing to assume that it's just a phase. I mean, I think parents don't believe you're really serious about things until you're passed the age of sixteen... maybe even later. To be honest, I think you're at the age where you can determine your sexuality and really be sure of things. But I guess it just depends on your maturity and such, but I think it's typical for people to come out or feel a certain sexuality in the teens. (Correct me if I'm wrong, but that's in my experience.) I think your mom just might need a bit of time to think about it. She probably said the things she said because she wasn't sure of what to say at that very moment, you know? Maybe approach her about it a little later when she's had some time to go over it and everything.
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Posted: Sun Apr 09, 2006 9:00 am
_jewelled_shoe_ Hey...I have a bit of a dilema maybe you all could help me with. I'm 14, and have had feelings for both sexes ever since I can remember. I recently told my mom I was bi, and she said I "didn't understand the complexities of child development" and that it was "just a stage". When I told her that it's always been like this, she just repeated that it was just a stage. She then said she'd been doing some reading and it all said that it was normal to be curious, but that curiosity meant nothing. Then I said I'd done some reading too and it said nothing like that, and that there's a difference between curiosity and knowing. She said all my readings had been biased.
Then I told her that I liked a girl at my school, and her only reply was "I know". She said that at 14 nothing is forever and I wouldn't be with her forever. I said that I knew that, but that just because I was single or dating a guy didn't mean that I wasn't bi.
Then she changed the subject, and said she'd be fine if I "really did turn out to be bi, or even gay" that she would have no problem with it, but right now it was all just hormones.
I asked if it was hormones when I was 7. She said I was attracted to girls only when I was stressed out. That was completely ridiculous, and I told her so. She just repeated that I didn't know anything for sure and walked out.
So, what do you all think? I've always felt I was bi; I never look at a person's gender when thinking about whether or not I'd date them.
Do you think my mom really believes what she's saying, or just doesn't want to believe me?
Sorry if I sound like a whiny brat, this has really been bothering me. Aww your not whiney *ruffles hair*. Oh BTW this should realy belong in the Life issues sub-forum. But I carn't split threads with my modly-powers. gonk No biggie though. =) Hey can I ask are you a girl or a boy?... I carn't tell. gonk If you don't mind telling us that is...
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Posted: Sun Apr 09, 2006 10:08 am
I'm a girl. 3nodding
I'm sorry this is in the wrong place, but I figured in Life Issues I'd get all the "OMG gawd sez its rong!!!111!!!!" instead of actual help.
And to GirlxPride, thanks! But I told her almost two months ago, and this conversation was when I just brought it up again. Sorry, I should have been clearer.
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Posted: Sun Apr 09, 2006 10:16 am
_jewelled_shoe_ I'm a girl. 3nodding
I'm sorry this is in the wrong place, but I figured in Life Issues I'd get all the "OMG gawd sez its rong!!!111!!!!" instead of actual help.
And to GirlxPride, thanks! But I told her almost two months ago, and this conversation was when I just brought it up again. Sorry, I should have been clearer.
Like I said, it's ok. ^^. and I ment the subform in the GGSA for life issues. not eh GD one. did you think I ment the GD one? gonk
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Posted: Mon Apr 10, 2006 10:20 pm
yeah... i figured this would happen. my mom does not get the idea of bisexuality.
i guess... no... maybe... nope. i haven't come out to her yet... but we've had conversations about it. i refuse to tell her at all.
after everything i've found out about her and what she knows and how she finds out about my life... i'm not telling anyone i know anything anymore.
my mom keeps all her problems about me bottled up inside until like 5 months after they happen... then she blows up and we fight over stuff that doesn't even apply to me anymore...
like my self mutilation that i've not participated in for 5 months... she gets on a drunk rampage and freaks out about it...
um... mom? i haven't cut for 5 months.
and about how awful it'd be if i were gay... no grandchildren from me... no marriage.
and today she tells me that she loves that i'm so creative and eccentric and that it'd be ok with her no matter what path i'd take in my sexuality.
god she confuses me...
i'm sorry... i think this ought to be in life issues.
whatever.
hey, whatsup?
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