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Bread..

Bread, Makes me mad.

You SAYING that my logic is flawed is not the same as my logic actually BEING flawed. People date and have boyfriends and girlfriends all the time. Now, I don't purposely go at and pursue girls that have boyfriends, but if I make a connection with a girl, the fact that she's dating some random guy I don't know has NOTHING TO DO WITH ME. Like I said, if their relationship isn't strong enough where she'll just turn me down, then that's a problem for her and the guy. It falls under the heading of NOT MY PROBLEM.

See, I was very polite, but you had to go calling names. I love how you disagreeing with me automatically implies a lack of ethics on my part. I find it particularly laughable when I match it up with your INTERNET TUFF GUY persona ("Now if I can sabotage his psyche"). LOLOLOLOL at SABOTAGE HIS PSYCHE! I'm sure he's unable to sleep at night! OH s**t IF I ARGUE WITH YOU ON THE PYP GUILD ARE YOU GOING TO SABOTAGE MY PSYCHE? That's it, my psyche and I are calling bodyguard (and psycheguard) service TODAY. I've put it off for too long.

Also, don't you think that the girls you meet being ******** in the head says more about YOU than about ME?

You get the Lollercoaster, as I find you hilarious. I usually just give this out to chatterbox dopes, but you DESERVE it. Please don't take this opportunity to sabotage my psyche. I just had it steam-cleaned.

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i was just trying to be funny by picking the most randome thing in my house

My saying that your logic is flawed is my opinion. My mentality happens to be very logic stable.

Your logic is flawed for multiple reasons. Unfortunately you seem rather stubborn and unable to expand your thoughts on the topic.

I never said that people don't do the things you were advocating. All I said was that it's still wrong to do.

If you make a connection with a girl who is in a relationship then the ethical thing is to express interest and give her the option to leave the other person for you. Going behind the other persons back is completely unethical and flawed in logic. Primarily because there is a huge statisticle probability that if she is willing to go out with you behind her boyfriends back because of a connection then sooner or later you will find yourself as the oblivious boyfriend being cheated on.

Secondarily is the fact that most "connections" felt for a person while the feeler is in a relationship feeling the "connection" for a third party the connection is contrived and non existant. Usually this connection is only functional in contrast to the currently existing dynamic. Without the primary relationship the connection with the third party fizzles and dies making your type (meaning the type who has no problem being the third party) nothing more than a symbiotic parasite.

Your logic also fails because you think that her dynamic with the person in the relationship has nothing to do with the third party and as such no effect on the third party. You are completely wrong about this.

Besides the symbotic parasite association made above, people are creatures of habit and pattern. Her dating the third party is directly influenced by her original relationship and once that other relationship finally does end then the third parties relationship with her will change drastically.

Impy's situation has shown proof of this with her now having second thoughts about the third party now that the primary relationship has ended.

The problem with your logic here is that you are looking at the short sighted gain of dating the girl and not considering the possible strands of course that develop around the fundamentals of her dualistic position.

Now about you being polite, that is up for debate. As for my calling you names... when did that happen? At worst I made a few comments about your mindset and about the cause and effect people with your mindset create.

Furthermore your lack of ethics wasn't implied by me, it was pointed out by me. Your statements are revolved around personal short term benefit and inconsiderate of others feelings and personal progress. I don't know what your definition of ethics are but the dictionary says that ethics as "A set of principles of right conduct" now since the golden rule of rightousness in all ethical religions and philosophies has always been rooted in something similiar to "do unto others as you would have them do unto you" then your perspective of having no regard for a persons relationship of feelings for that relationship or the people in it makes your opinion on such proceedures unethical. There really isn't much room for interpretation on this.

Your finding my statement of sabotaging ones psyche as laughable really has no effect on me. I know what I am and am not capable of through past experience. Whether or not you believe or disbeieve is inconsequential.

And to answer your last question. "Also, don't you think that the girls you meet being ******** in the head says more about YOU than about ME?"

If they are messed up when I MEET them then they were like that when I got there which bares no reflection on me at all it bares reflection on those who treated them poorly and put them in questionable situations before my arrival and in doing so caused thier psyche to warp in effort to guard itself.

I hope I have addressed all of your misconceptions. Do me a favor and if you respond again think about what you're saying and for god's sake think of what I'm saying cause if you keep coming at me like you are you're just making yourself look foolish and loosing respect from the observers.

Smooches?

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hey sexy, what's cookin?

I don't recall if we parted as friends or not either but if we didn't I can't recall.
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I'm with you on this one domokun pirate ninja