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Ok, just wondering what you guys though of long hair on guys. Like, long enough to put in a ponytail. Would you wear it? Do you already have it? Does it drive you nuts. Do you hate it on guys? Does it "work" or does it just look really bad?

I have a friend with long hair and I think he looks hot. My other friend, his other best friend, thinks he needs a hair cut. Badly. Honestly, its kinda funny. Our hair colors are the same, we both wear a lot of blue, and my hair is about a half inch longer than his. Honestly, we've been mistaken for each other before. I woulda thought the lack of facial hair on me woulda given it away.... stressed

Hey ******** wanted to tell you guys that there is a workaround the dreaded friend zone (that some of us have been stuck there for a while now, so witness what the all mighty That one night has been up to the last couple of months!), but I completely forgot about posting it xD

It's all about the damn sexual tension.
It an be a hard one to pull off because you never built sexual tension and she has already placed you in the friend zone for months or even years now. You have to show her your good side and your wild side.

She knows you are a good person already, thats why she is your friend so you dont need to continue to remind her how nice and sweet you are. Instead show her your wild/exciting side! Make her believe she is missing out on all the fun with you while other women at the clubs/bar/parties are having fun with you.

Do not give this woman friend too much attention at clubs/bars/parties like you prolly normally do. No, make her earn your attention. You know you two are only friends, so why try and impress her? You move onto others while she see's you in action. This will catch her interest, then start building sexual tension! Now is the time to do it! Flirt with her, joke with her, play with her. You must show her you are far better then just another friend.

Of course don't do anything stupid with someone else in front of her.

Now on how to move pass it.
Ok let's say you have begun working on transitioning from the friend zone to the sexual zone. Now she will start to have doubts, thinking you two are better off as friends. It is YOUR job to remind her that you two are better off with sexual chemistry.

When she shows interest and yet resist, this is the perfect time to kiss her! Trust me, it wont feel weird. She'll accept the kiss to simply figure out if this is the right thing to do or not. Make it count! And then tell her you would like to take her some place.

Take her some place like the beach, a national park, the mountains, something that isnt a club/bar/party. This shows her you are serious and gives her a chance to talk with you and figure it out without a bunch of people around.

So yeah, any questions you have or doubts, or what ever feel free to pm me. cool

Honestly, the only reason guys hit the friend zone is because they're not aggressive enough. Women like to acknowledge men who demand their attention. By being overly nice, you're devaluing your self worth and already admitting to the fact that the girl is better than you. Obviously chicks read into this (subliminally) and respond accordingly with a swift friend zone red flag.

Honestly, the only reason guys hit the friend zone is because they're not aggressive enough. Women like to acknowledge men who demand their attention. By being overly nice, you're devaluing your self worth and already admitting to the fact that the girl is better than you. Obviously chicks read into this (subliminally) and respond accordingly with a swift friend zone red flag.