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 Posted: Sat Jul 16, 2005 10:57 pm
Mmm, I agree, labels are...annoying.
I think that's part of why bing bi is such a trend now. A girl is able to appriciate the beauty in another girl and suddenly thinks she's attracted to girls. Another reason is people think that being straight means you're homophobic, whenreally they may just be "open minded." It's a very confusing thing, sexuality. Because it's so easy for people to let their sexual orientation define them, rather then them defining it. *shrugs* Labels shouldn't be taken too seriously.
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Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2005 8:01 am
OMG! rolleyes My mom's all like, "Well you don't have to act so gay. I mean if your just but, why do you always act so gay?" , "Why do how want to have Gay Pride if your only Bi?"
crying why is my mom being like this. I can't have anything rainbow, no Gay-pride stuff. It sux
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Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2005 11:30 am
Tenaku Go Spartan ^_^ good for you for coming out ^_^ And to Shmoo Chan... BURN STEREOTYPE LABELS, ALL OF THEM MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. ((Maybe just a little overboard? rolleyes )) *laugh* No its fine. twisted Just let me get my blow tourch & chain saw. twisted twisted Down with them.
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Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2005 12:28 pm
glib OMG! rolleyes My mom's all like, "Well you don't have to act so gay. I mean if your just but, why do you always act so gay?" , "Why do how want to have Gay Pride if your only Bi?" crying why is my mom being like this. I can't have anything rainbow, no Gay-pride stuff. It sux
*Cough* Anyway, you should tell her that since you're bi that means you're half gay aswell as half straight, therefor, you should be able to have rainbow stuff. She'd be denying half of yourself. Also, if you lean more towards guys, then why wouldn't you act gay? (I know, I'm rambling.)
Or get the stuff without asking her. *Shrugs.*
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Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2005 7:07 pm
rurica Mmm, I agree, labels are...annoying. I think that's part of why bing bi is such a trend now. A girl is able to appriciate the beauty in another girl and suddenly thinks she's attracted to girls. Another reason is people think that being straight means you're homophobic, whenreally they may just be "open minded." It's a very confusing thing, sexuality. Because it's so easy for people to let their sexual orientation define them, rather then them defining it. *shrugs* Labels shouldn't be taken too seriously. I totally agree ^_^
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Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2005 7:09 pm
jibberish glib OMG! rolleyes My mom's all like, "Well you don't have to act so gay. I mean if your just but, why do you always act so gay?" , "Why do how want to have Gay Pride if your only Bi?" crying why is my mom being like this. I can't have anything rainbow, no Gay-pride stuff. It sux
*Cough* Anyway, you should tell her that since you're bi that means you're half gay aswell as half straight, therefor, you should be able to have rainbow stuff. She'd be denying half of yourself. Also, if you lean more towards guys, then why wouldn't you act gay? (I know, I'm rambling.)
Or get the stuff without asking her. *Shrugs.*Good points. And that last part could work *shifty eyes*
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 10:23 pm
Hey it's me again ^_^. Yeah my thing now is that I wanna come out to my familty about being Bi but I'm not quite sure how to. Anyone have any suggestions?
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Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 2:23 am
Tenaku Hey it's me again ^_^. Yeah my thing now is that I wanna come out to my familty about being Bi but I'm not quite sure how to. Anyone have any suggestions? OOO! OOO! You could do it like the brother did in the book Tithe! One day when you're all sitting down for dinner, you look over and say "Hey mom, y'know that secret forbidden love that Spock has for Captain Kirk? Well me too." ...........I thought that it was funny anyways! sweatdrop But seriously, everyones different in the ways that they choose, and there is no one way that guarntees sucess in no tears or bawling, and no saying that everyone will accept it right away! You know your family better than any of us (hopefully..because THAT would mean you have a stalker! ninja ) so while we can offer suggestions, it is up to you to decide the best way to break the news.
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 8:29 am
I see. Well my family is generally pretty accepting so I don't think that they would have any major recourse other than an initial shock that can be accepted. So I think that some time soon I'm just gonna call my family together and just tell them, end of story. It should work.
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 2:19 pm
Tenaku I see. Well my family is generally pretty accepting so I don't think that they would have any major recourse other than an initial shock that can be accepted. So I think that some time soon I'm just gonna call my family together and just tell them, end of story. It should work. Well I wish you the best of luck on your quest! *salutes* (PS Nice glasses.)
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:26 pm
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 6:20 pm
Let us know how it turns out when you do! 3nodding
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Posted: Fri Jul 22, 2005 6:44 pm
rurica Mmm, I agree, labels are...annoying. I think that's part of why bing bi is such a trend now. A girl is able to appriciate the beauty in another girl and suddenly thinks she's attracted to girls. Another reason is people think that being straight means you're homophobic, whenreally they may just be "open minded." It's a very confusing thing, sexuality. Because it's so easy for people to let their sexual orientation define them, rather then them defining it. *shrugs* Labels shouldn't be taken too seriously. i agree completely, acaully its basically the whole label factor that is making me so afriad to tell my best friend about me being bi, she is an in the closet homophob if you know what i mean> Like she doesnt even know shes being homophobic but she is
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Posted: Fri Jul 22, 2005 11:07 pm
DetermindGopher rurica Mmm, I agree, labels are...annoying. I think that's part of why bing bi is such a trend now. A girl is able to appriciate the beauty in another girl and suddenly thinks she's attracted to girls. Another reason is people think that being straight means you're homophobic, whenreally they may just be "open minded." It's a very confusing thing, sexuality. Because it's so easy for people to let their sexual orientation define them, rather then them defining it. *shrugs* Labels shouldn't be taken too seriously. i agree completely, acaully its basically the whole label factor that is making me so afriad to tell my best friend about me being bi, she is an in the closet homophob if you know what i mean> Like she doesnt even know shes being homophobic but she is I have friends like that! It drives me nuts when I have to tell them they said something hurtful and they look at me with the "What?" look! scream
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Posted: Sat Jul 23, 2005 11:01 am
Tenaku Hey it's me again ^_^. Yeah my thing now is that I wanna come out to my familty about being Bi but I'm not quite sure how to. Anyone have any suggestions? Don't do it in the middle of an argument. sweatdrop trust me, i learned the hard way.
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