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| I Hate It! |
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| Some of my best friends are gay |
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| I am Gay |
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 Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2005 10:15 pm
mu uncles cant get married, but they own a house together and everything. when the time came to vote in MO i was still to young to help out. i think the us gov should hold another voteing in five years or so, when ppl might be more open minded.
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 8:25 am
Amber Ocean KuraiBijin Amber Ocean KuraiBijin I understand what you were saying about denial. I first knew in 4th grade that I was bisexual. I actually thought I might be gay since I always was attracted to females more (I still am, but I am attracted to males as well). I kept telling myself "No, it's just a stage, I'm not gay or bi, I'm just curious that's all." That was probably because everyone in my school was so against gays and bis, and I just grew up learning that it was wrong. But by the time I reached high school, I realized that people were not all against that, and it IS okay to be attracted to the same gender. So about halfway through my 9th grade year, I admitted to myself and some of my friends that I was bisexual. It's sad, really, that I had to go through 5 and 1/2 years of denial, just because I thought my friends would hate me for it. I just learned that if they your friends, they won't hate you for something like that. So now almost everyone knows, except my family. My family is very conservation, and they hate any type of homosexual behavior, so I won't tell them what I am until I move out.
And Amber, good luck to you and your girl. Just so you know, even if you get married in Canada, if you come back to the States, a lot of states won't accept it as a legal marriage. This whole controversy ((I think I may have spelled that wrong)) over gay rights is stupid. Why would other people care who you marry? Even if they think it's "wrong" or a "sin" or "you could go to Hell for it", that's not their problem. Society today just.... it irks me sometimes.
My parents are alright (finally) with me being a lesbain. It started out as being 'bisexual' as to not scare them. My mother was a bit weirded out when she found out; she kept asking me what being 'bisexual' meant. I didn't understand why she found this such a hard concept to grasp. >.< I finally came out and told my father and my mother that I'm a lesbian. I'm not attracted to males, and when I am (on the very, very rare occasion) I get scared when I think of doing anything with them.
I'm sorry to hear that your feelings had to be supressed for so long.
Mine did too - my friend who I'd play footsie with and such (when I first realized I was a lesbian) was Catholic, and refused to experiment because it was a 'sin'. I said fine, and waited until a girl came and pulled me into bed. ^.^ One of the greatest nights of my life, needless to say. Heh. T'was lots of fun. *nervous laugh*
Society irks me too...heh. *kicks things* Yup. Definantly irks me.
Good luck to you and your girl. 3nodding
The first girl I experimented with was my best friend, and we fell in love with each other. (Actually, we fell in love before we fooled around, but it was long before we had admitted we were bisexual, so we both ain't say nothing.) That was like a year and some months ago. We still fool around a lot, but we're not really technically "together" >.<
It's so sweet when people fall in love.
If I may ask, why aren't you two together? Well, we went through some rough times. You know how bitchy girls can be. For a long time, we weren't even talking, but now that we're talking again, I'm not sure if we can ever be as close as we used to be. We still love each other, there's just some unresolved tension between us. It's a really extremely long story, and I tried to type it once, but it took me 9 paragraphs and 30 minutes to type, then Gaia ate the entire post. domokun
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 8:29 am
GrayRayn mu uncles cant get married, but they own a house together and everything. when the time came to vote in MO i was still to young to help out. i think the us gov should hold another voteing in five years or so, when ppl might be more open minded. I agree. I think that's a really good idea. Our generation is much mroe open-minded, but they need to give us a couple more years so we can actually be old enough to be able to vote.
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 10:31 am
Tosuto Dark Lore Tosuto I just read about this so yeah : For those who dont know, there are certain jewelry codes you can follow to allow other LGB people to know that you are LGB. This includes wearing exclusivly silver jewelry. Although with earrings, since there are so many earings, wearing silver earings that are either small silver studs or silver hoops shows that you are LGB. These codes may not be useful in large cities, but in rural towns they are very useful for finding other LGB people. Really? i never knew that... although i used to get ripped for having a freckle on my right earlobe, apparantly the gay ear peircing ear... odd Yeah, it used to be that if your left ear was pierced you were straight, both ears was bi, and right ear ws gay, but then piercing both ears for guys became popular and homophobes caught on to it, so now its the whole silver thing. How interesting, i'm gonna have to remember that biggrin
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 5:01 pm
Dark Lore Tosuto Dark Lore Tosuto I just read about this so yeah : For those who dont know, there are certain jewelry codes you can follow to allow other LGB people to know that you are LGB. This includes wearing exclusivly silver jewelry. Although with earrings, since there are so many earings, wearing silver earings that are either small silver studs or silver hoops shows that you are LGB. These codes may not be useful in large cities, but in rural towns they are very useful for finding other LGB people. Really? i never knew that... although i used to get ripped for having a freckle on my right earlobe, apparantly the gay ear peircing ear... odd Yeah, it used to be that if your left ear was pierced you were straight, both ears was bi, and right ear ws gay, but then piercing both ears for guys became popular and homophobes caught on to it, so now its the whole silver thing. How interesting, i'm gonna have to remember that biggrin I know A LOT of straight girls that I know wearing silver hoops. I don't think this is an effective code. I mean, a lot of people wear only silver because they like it better, it doesn't mean they're gay or bi...
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Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2005 6:29 am
I'm straight, thought of doing things with girls before, but i wouldn't date one
I have nothing against gays at all, infact i think gays are helerious and sweet, and lesbians intelligant, and of course nothing wrong with bis
I think it's unfair people judge them, or say it's abnormal. Especially unfair on marriages
And the jewallary thing, i never knew that
A lot of people wear certain things, but i'm not sure it states they are a certain way
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