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Do you think about having sex with your friends?
Never!
10%
 10%  [ 16 ]
Rarely
24%
 24%  [ 37 ]
Sometimes
40%
 40%  [ 61 ]
Often...
24%
 24%  [ 37 ]
Total Votes : 151


toboetsukasa

PostPosted: Thu Apr 28, 2005 4:06 pm


Just because you think about them under the sheets dosn't mean you can't be friends.
PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2005 4:30 pm


Sometimes I think of my friends yeah but... not with me... I think of my friends with another one of my friends.... For some reason, I can't picture myself with anyone... xp

puchamon


KittyAngelofDarkness

PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2005 10:50 pm


well i'm not bi well not yet at least xp umm well sometimes i find it kinda hard being around my friends just knowing that even if i did start to like them or did already i could never be with them.
PostPosted: Sun May 01, 2005 8:20 pm


I am not bi, i am gay, but I thought I would put this just to either confuse everyone or to have you be more comfortable. I have mainly friends that are girls and there is one that I hang out with alot, and a couple of weeks ago I would have flashes of me and her doing stuff. redface But I wouldn't act on the feelings just because 1) we are friends and 2) girls just gross me out in general, I don't even think I could make out with a girl. But anyway, I think depending on how horny you are(couldn't think of a better way to put it) you may or may not have something like this. Besides I like my friendships how they are. You can be sexually attracted to a friend and still be their friend. I am sexually attracted to my guy friend and even though if I did have the chance I don't know if I would take it. But don't worry about that sort of stuff. I don't. When I hang out with him, I usually have so much fun that I could care less about stuff like that. Thats my take on it anyway.

WoodPegasus


First we take Manhattan

PostPosted: Mon May 02, 2005 1:24 am


Answer to original post:
Yeah, bis can, but it's a fickle thing for some.
For me, it's just a choice thing. If I love them, I love them. If I heart love them, I heart love them.
It's a chance thing, often.
Although.... sometimes I DO get the honour of choosing if I love someone. smile
PostPosted: Mon May 09, 2005 2:45 pm


I was bi for a while and i only had friendships, so i think they can, or i'm just the odd one O.o

Sukunai


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PostPosted: Thu May 12, 2005 5:11 pm


Somtimes it is hard to be friends with people, but not all the time. For one thing your not going to be attracted to every single person, and you can controll how you handle an attraction to a friend.
PostPosted: Fri May 13, 2005 1:23 am


I think everyone can just have a friendship with anyone.. Male/female, male/male, female/female

Doesn't really matter if you've thought about having sex with him/her once, as long as it doesn't rule your mind and you don't get butterflies in your stomach..

Dark Eagle Babe


essenceofthedark

PostPosted: Fri May 13, 2005 1:34 am


I don't think there should be any difficulties being only friends with someone even though you're bi, if anything it's not the one that's bi's fault... (well sometimes perhaps...^^) but it's like I'm not attracted to everyone of my opposite gender and I'm not attracted to everyone of my own... I've got lots of people that I'm just friends with (not everyone knows that I'm bi though) but I'm not attracted to them...

I think it might be that the straight people feel uncomfortable being around those that's not...
PostPosted: Fri May 13, 2005 1:48 am


Sometimes I imagine doing it with a friend, but I realize that they are my friends and try to avoid this kind of thoughts...^^U I'm bi, and it's hard not to imagine, but rarely times I was thinking seriously about that sweatdrop

SirCrow


Legto

PostPosted: Mon May 16, 2005 10:38 am


random turn ons are always going to happen with friends. being bi you have girls that see you as "one of them." which lets you get close then you ask your self "are we dating?" so many questons. then the guys you just have a crush on.
PostPosted: Thu May 26, 2005 4:36 am


I think they can ... Im bi and I have a friend whos gay and Im a good friend with him ... I used to fantasy about him whee ... but not anymore ... Now Im in love with str8 guy which makes my life suck but I wont talk about that now ...

The12ThApril


JSE

PostPosted: Thu May 26, 2005 10:21 am


Personally. I have alot ot friends that I'm sooo unattracted to it's gross to even think about them doing anything.
Though, alot of the time, with some of my friends, I think about them having sex, but just in general. Not with me.
PostPosted: Thu May 26, 2005 1:19 pm


Really it all depends. I have some friends I'm attracted to. Unfortunately, They are all straight. crying Then again, I have some friends I'm not attracted to. I guess it all depends on the person... ninja

~As LoNg As It TaKeS~


The12ThApril

PostPosted: Fri May 27, 2005 6:53 am


Insaneslayeralchemist002
Really it all depends. I have some friends I'm attracted to. Unfortunately, They are all straight. crying Then again, I have some friends I'm not attracted to. I guess it all depends on the person... ninja

I totally agree with you
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