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 Posted: Sun Sep 05, 2004 11:34 pm
It took my awhile to come to the fact with myself. Even after that it still took well over a year before I could tell my friends or family. But now I am very happy and everyone and their dog knows and I don't seem to mind. When I finally did tell my close friends they were like: "Yah, we kinda already knew that... But we are very happy with you..." I'm not saying that there wasn't any downer moments but I don't want to think about the sad times...
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Posted: Mon Sep 06, 2004 9:12 am
Eh, I didn't choose to come out, I was forced to. Apparently my friends were all waiting for me to admit it and are ok with it(most of them anyway), but my parents.... eh, that didn't go over well. I'll be putting my games on pause just to look at teh sexy girls on animes or video games and yet the still think I am straight. I'm bi, putting leaning more on to the lesbian side of it. But just because I was interested in guys a few times there it is impossible to be anything but straight in ther eyes ¬¬; Gah... damn unaccepting parents! xp
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Posted: Mon Sep 06, 2004 12:45 pm
I've only told a few close friends. I can't bring myself to tell my parents because I'm afraid that they'll be disgusted and/or mad that I've lied to them about a few things. If I told them though, I wouldn't be allowed to have sleep overs anymore (I'm 16, so that's still important to me) and possibly other things. I think the best thing for me to do is wait until school is over, disapear for a while, and then tell them when they can't do much about it and appologize for lying to them.
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Posted: Mon Sep 06, 2004 6:56 pm
I was I guess... forced.
On night when sleeping over with my two closed friends (both girls) they were a bit hyper and spacy.....thinking saying were both Bisexual was funny.
They were only horny.... rolleyes
This is how it went:
(friend 1):"Im so horny, lets go on a chat and do some horny things! It will be fun!"
(Friend 2)"Okay!"
They were only saying the were doing the things...I was in the back room drawing.
Later when I was on the computer one was on the others backand she said (friend2)"I think were Bi tonight!" As if you can be on thing one day and another the next rolleyes they other one said to me (friend 1)"Hey kitty(-Cat) are you Bi?"
Me"Yeah I'v been Bi, I'v told you both but you dont take it, you think Im l'm kidding."I say paying no atteion of what there doing.
Friend1"whatever" she said and she rolled over on the couch with my other friend.
The next time I was with one, she wanted to see these cartoon girlies topless and was trying to break the code, I knowing the breasts on the computer screen will compare nothing to Amine or Real life breast and not at all happy with what she is saying,everyone wants to see a girlie topless! It doesnt make her bi! 1 because she is always making fun of me whenever I say Im Bi and 2 because she uses it at the wronge times and whenver she is a little bit turned on or horny she has to say shes bi! gonk scream scream
But I do Have one friend who is a guy that they blabed it too, he likes me as a crush so he doesnt care I dont think be sides he goes around kissing pictures of guys....witch I would join him but I have my girlie pitures in my closet. 3nodding
My parents dont know I dont want to tell them My brother may know because my friend cant keep her mouth shut and ketp on asking me, "Cat,are you Bi?" in front of him, he wouldnt leave me alone afterwards All I said to both of them was, "Lets drop it." And I had to say it many times. crying I hate it when your only friends will poke fun of your sexuality.
(I am so sorry If I misspelled any of this please do not yell at me I am typing as fast as my little fingers can razz uppydog face: xd )
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Posted: Mon Sep 06, 2004 7:43 pm
well i havent told anyone but you guys that im bi..my parents are very religios and would hate me and my sister whi is 2 years older than me would say im to young to guesse my sexuality.Tomarrow i might tell my friends becuase i love acting les around them adn stuff so i think they kinda have an idea. heart And i could never tell my grandparents.They love to death but hate gays/les/bi people and my gram is deing and i realy dont want to kill her by telling her im bi... so there you have it!! 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Sep 07, 2004 6:16 pm
my parents found out about me and my ex fiancee
they gave me the silent treatment and almost send me to an all girl private school. but i told them i will change. so yeah
im straight ******** yeah. whatever
everyone knows in my school, they dont care <3 they still love me so its all good. jsut the family part isnt doing so well.
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Posted: Tue Sep 07, 2004 7:07 pm
ChibiKawaiiTenshi I haven't told any of my friends or family. I havent told my family because The ones I can actually talk to are against same sex couples or interest in both sex's. The reason I havent told my friends is because I'm afraid that they'll think I'm disgusting or a freak and try to avoid me at all costs. I'm pathetic. crying
:pats you on your back:
Well my friends 'tricked' me into saying I was one night...it hurt and they make fun of me now.
But it all depends on what yout friends are like!
As for Family... o_o I can never come out....so I see what you mean.
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Posted: Tue Sep 07, 2004 9:55 pm
Only my boyfriend and my best friend know, I'm still too young to run out of home.
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2004 11:17 am
I feel ~REALLY~ fortunate to have had such univerally positive reactions to my gay-ness. Could be that my friends and family kinda had time to adjust to the idea since i was pretty flaming evne whtn i was still "straight".
The story of me coming out to my friends was pretty damned funny tho:
I told my best girl-friend (like the Grace to my Will) before i told anyone else. She was totally cool with it. the exchane went something like this:
Me- Ashley, i have to tell you something.
Ashley- Oh?
Me- Yeah, Ash, I'm gay.
Ashley- Yeah, kinda figured that's what it was.
Me- WHAT?!?!
Ashley- Well you accessorize better than I do for God's sake!
So a few weeks alter Ash and I are haning out with a bunch of our other friends and I ask her if i should come out to them right then.
Me- Ash, while I've got everyone here, think i should tell them?
Ash- Of course you should dumbass!
Me- I dunno...
Ash- EVERYONE! ANDREW HAS SOMETHING TO TELL YOU!!!
Me- I'll get you for this Ashley, i swear it. Everyone, I'm gay.
Everyone- No s**t sherlock.
So yeah, that's my story. The fam didn't take it quiote as well, but they've gotten used to me. My mom's in PFLAG and everything. SHe's beginning to remind me strongly of Debbie from QaF...
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2004 7:10 pm
Well... I told a select few of my close friends... My best friend got really angry with me... This is how the convo went.
Me: Jen... I have something I need to tell you...
Jen: I'm listening go ahead.
Me: I'm bisexual, I like both sexes.
Jen: How long have you felt like this?
Me: I was born this way... I didn't really notice until now.
Jen: EWWWW! That is soooo sick! I can't believe you Brittany... I'm so mad right now. Don't tell me you look at me like that... do you?
Me: Sometimes...
Jen: What the hell Brittany go away and burn in hell.
My mom found out by reading my journal.... SHE READ MY JOURNAL! I was so pissed. This was the convo after she read it...
Mom: Brittany you're bisexual that disgusts me...
Me: What!? HOW THE HELL DO YOU KNOW?!
Mom: I have my ways...
(Later that day)
Me: Mom you moved my journal...
Mom: What?
Me: Don't say what you read it!
Mom: I was looking for an empty notebook.
Me: It obviously had words on it so it wasn't empty. HOW DARE YOU!
I told my brother and this is how the convo went...
Me: Nick... I think I'm bisexual.
Nick: You're ******** kidding me right?
Me: No... I like girls... I also like guys.
Nick: You're a ******** moron and get the hell away from me.
That's how people found out.
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2004 7:13 pm
addrgal Well... I told a select few of my close friends... My best friend got really angry with me... This is how the convo went. Me: Jen... I have something I need to tell you... Jen: I'm listening go ahead. Me: I'm bisexual, I like both sexes. Jen: How long have you felt like this? Me: I was born this way... I didn't really notice until now. Jen: EWWWW! That is soooo sick! I can't believe you Brittany... I'm so mad right now. Don't tell me you look at me like that... do you? Me: Sometimes... Jen: What the hell Brittany go away and burn in hell. My mom found out by reading my journal.... SHE READ MY JOURNAL! I was so pissed. This was the convo after she read it... Mom: Brittany you're bisexual that disgusts me... Me: What!? HOW THE HELL DO YOU KNOW?! Mom: I have my ways... (Later that day) Me: Mom you moved my journal... Mom: What? Me: Don't say what you read it! Mom: I was looking for an empty notebook. Me: It obviously had words on it so it wasn't empty. HOW DARE YOU! I told my brother and this is how the convo went... Me: Nick... I think I'm bisexual. Nick: You're ******** kidding me right? Me: No... I like girls... I also like guys. Nick: You're a ******** moron and get the hell away from me. That's how people found out. What a kind loving family and friends you have........Kill them I say. Hell. Just to piss them off, kiss your best friend scream whee
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 6:26 am
I came out to my Dad last night..We where in my roomm we've been arguing about why I'm so bitchy and why I stay up and why I bit my brother...There was a break in the convo...and...
This is how it went
Me-Wanna know something
Dad-What?
Me-I'm bi
Dad-No your not.
Me-Yes I am.
Dad-No your not. Your just going through a phaze
Me-You just dont get it.*Storms out of her room and out of the house and goes and sits in a corver of the yard where her dad wont find her*
Yeah..so he knows..I hope he thinks about it all day. The only good thing that come out of this was I got some recovered memory..I have more sexual expairience then I thought. eek sweatdrop Even though I never had sex, I've kissed my old(From like Toddler-1st grade)best friend Mallisa at lest twiche. Made out with a girl a few years back..like 4th or 5th grade. And thats about all I think I've done.. sweatdrop So...I think I've been bi/les all my life
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 9:50 am
Hn.. When I first came out, I told people I was bi. I think I told a friend online in the begining, then I told my gay friend and they were both cool with it. After a while, I wanted to tell the girl I liked and it took a while, but I eventually ended up writing to her that I thought I was bi. ^^;; And she was cool with it, though she doesnt really care for girl and girl stuff. After a while, though, I became unsure if I really liked guys that way, and even if I dated some of them, I really couldnt imagine going that far with them. X_x; So I thought of myself as a lesbian. Heck, when I was really little I wrote a letter to my mom saying "I think I'm going to be gay when I grow up" and, nyaa, it came true. I always would look at girls more than guys and I feel a lot more comfortable with them.
I told my mother I was gay through a letter. I went to a party with my grandma and left the letter for her to read. She didnt take it hard, but I'm quite sure she thinks it's just a phase. But, ha, she should be talking. I seriously think she's a lesbian in denail herself. O_O; Or.. Just a woman.. A lot of women are hunting for.
I plan to be more open about my sexuality this school year. My school is rather gay friendly, so I think I'm safe being me. ^^;;;
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 10:00 am
RevanStar What a kind loving family and friends you have........Kill them I say. Hell. Just to piss them off, kiss your best friend scream whee I agree, Your family aren't worth it, your Mum is....hmm... a nosey bat? sweatdrop 3nodding Wow, I really feel for you girl. Looking at it, it makes me want to get my sexuality out in the open. As I said i think it's better to have no friends, than to keep it in just to keep your mates. sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 10:05 am
I've only came out as Bi to a certian few. One friends was shocked but the rest were all fine with it.
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