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 Posted: Wed Feb 23, 2005 1:43 pm
CircusOfTheDamned I didn't exactly plan coming out very well. -_-' Dragged my bf from FSAP (Freshmen Summer Academic Program), which is like this mess of classes you can take if you're really bored and crazy over the summer, before your actual Freshman year..... And brought him home before school started up again, to meet my father. At first it seemed okay, my dad was actually really glad I found friends, that the guy was in premed, that he seemed outgoing, etc. But then he walked in when we were kissing and started yelling and freaking out. ~_~' And then he insisted that I "go back to normal" and basically handed me a ultimatum, which boiled down to dump your boyfriend and find a girlfriend, or that's the end of financial assistance. o_o'' Being really stupid at the time, I chose the second. But by December, we'd split up, and now I'm stuck with two part time jobs and work study trying to pay for tuition and housing. >.o' Moral of the story: Dun tell your parents till AFTER you're through college...and if you're bringing your bf back, be careful. Awww sad Thats harsh.
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Posted: Wed Feb 23, 2005 1:48 pm
loginbin3000 sad Awww sad Thats harsh. ^_^' I wouldn't have minded if he and I had stayed together. But I kind of caught him screwing around with some other guy that he claimed before was a lab partner,...And he finally admitted he wasn't..and when I asked why, he said it was because I was never home, never had enough time, etc. ~.~''' So...unless you and your bf are like...cemeted together for sure, don't tell your parents if they might take it badly. o.o Not worth it.
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Posted: Wed Feb 23, 2005 1:51 pm
CircusOfTheDamned loginbin3000 sad Awww sad Thats harsh. ^_^' I wouldn't have minded if he and I had stayed together. But I kind of caught him screwing around with some other guy that he claimed before was a lab partner,...And he finally admitted he wasn't..and when I asked why, he said it was because I was never home, never had enough time, etc. ~.~''' So...unless you and your bf are like...cemeted together for sure, don't tell your parents if they might take it badly. o.o Not worth it. thx for the advice sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Feb 23, 2005 1:58 pm
Well, it's a touch pessimistic...
But, if you are thinking about it, college costs a lot...and unless you wanna be bustin' your butt trying to pay rent, utilities, internet, phone, tuition, books, supplies, food, clothes, gas, insurance, and about a dozen other misc. things...As lovely as standing up and making your point may sound, it's not the best of ideas. Not until you're out of school and don't have to juggle academics with work so much.
When you're in highschool and have a job, people treat you nicely, cause you're the "baby" of the staff, you're a kid just getting the basics down. You also work similarly to a puppy in the window of a shop; the customers are like "Aww, that's cute" and think it's wonderful that the place you're working at hires and supports higschoolers saving up for college...But as soon as you're in college, they treat you like dirt, because you're just another broke college kid, and there are TONS of broke college kids-you're very easy to replace.
Lastly...when you come out to your parents, and say they're like mine, a touch homophobic,...you drive a wedge between the two of you, for a very long time. Friends come and go, but parents are forever. >.o'
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Posted: Wed Feb 23, 2005 2:07 pm
CircusOfTheDamned Well, it's a touch pessimistic... But, if you are thinking about it, college costs a lot...and unless you wanna be bustin' your butt trying to pay rent, utilities, internet, phone, tuition, books, supplies, food, clothes, gas, insurance, and about a dozen other misc. things...As lovely as standing up and making your point may sound, it's not the best of ideas. Not until you're out of school and don't have to juggle academics with work so much. When you're in highschool and have a job, people treat you nicely, cause you're the "baby" of the staff, you're a kid just getting the basics down. You also work similarly to a puppy in the window of a shop; the customers are like "Aww, that's cute" and think it's wonderful that the place you're working at hires and supports higschoolers saving up for college...But as soon as you're in college, they treat you like dirt, because you're just another broke college kid, and there are TONS of broke college kids-you're very easy to replace. Lastly...when you come out to your parents, and say they're like mine, a touch homophobic,...you drive a wedge between the two of you, for a very long time. Friends come and go, but parents are forever. >.o' So you're saying if ur broke... you get treat like dirt.... but its okay if you're coping with everything.
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Posted: Wed Feb 23, 2005 3:29 pm
shadow shake your head and say you understand lol xd
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Posted: Wed Feb 23, 2005 8:35 pm
loginbin3000 CircusOfTheDamned I didn't exactly plan coming out very well. -_-' Dragged my bf from FSAP (Freshmen Summer Academic Program), which is like this mess of classes you can take if you're really bored and crazy over the summer, before your actual Freshman year..... And brought him home before school started up again, to meet my father. At first it seemed okay, my dad was actually really glad I found friends, that the guy was in premed, that he seemed outgoing, etc. But then he walked in when we were kissing and started yelling and freaking out. ~_~' And then he insisted that I "go back to normal" and basically handed me a ultimatum, which boiled down to dump your boyfriend and find a girlfriend, or that's the end of financial assistance. o_o'' Being really stupid at the time, I chose the second. But by December, we'd split up, and now I'm stuck with two part time jobs and work study trying to pay for tuition and housing. >.o' Yeah, that's not right...how are things between you and your parents now? Moral of the story: Dun tell your parents till AFTER you're through college...and if you're bringing your bf back, be careful. Awww sad Thats harsh.
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Posted: Thu Feb 24, 2005 7:37 am
Homie The Clown I've known for a while that I was gay. I was just denying it for a long time. About two months ago I finally began to accept it. I really want to come out and begin to tell people, but I'm nervous about it. My school isn't exactly what you'd call gay friendly and my parents are homophobes. So, I was just wondering, how did YOU come out and tell everyone? Maybe your stories can help me. I wouldn't except the fact that I am bi. My I can't realy trust my parents with that, cuz I am a little attractive, so they wouldn't even let me out of the house with a guy. But if they found out, they wouldn't let me out of the house with ANYONE unless I was with them. NO fun there!
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Posted: Thu Feb 24, 2005 5:18 pm
Kiara_Neko loginbin3000 CircusOfTheDamned I didn't exactly plan coming out very well. -_-' Dragged my bf from FSAP (Freshmen Summer Academic Program), which is like this mess of classes you can take if you're really bored and crazy over the summer, before your actual Freshman year..... And brought him home before school started up again, to meet my father. At first it seemed okay, my dad was actually really glad I found friends, that the guy was in premed, that he seemed outgoing, etc. But then he walked in when we were kissing and started yelling and freaking out. ~_~' And then he insisted that I "go back to normal" and basically handed me a ultimatum, which boiled down to dump your boyfriend and find a girlfriend, or that's the end of financial assistance. o_o'' Being really stupid at the time, I chose the second. But by December, we'd split up, and now I'm stuck with two part time jobs and work study trying to pay for tuition and housing. >.o' Yeah, that's not right...how are things between you and your parents now? Moral of the story: Dun tell your parents till AFTER you're through college...and if you're bringing your bf back, be careful. Awww sad Thats harsh. Wait...I was gonna say something in that...now what was it...? stressed OH well! I hope you get through everything okay! 3nodding
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Posted: Fri Feb 25, 2005 10:50 am
I told my friends after me and my girlfriend got together,and she encoraged me to tll my mother.... big mistake. my mum now h8s my girlfriend and makes snide comments bout our relationship..... you can all imagine how chufed i am...... not very.......
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Posted: Fri Feb 25, 2005 12:16 pm
Newra I told my friends after me and my girlfriend got together,and she encoraged me to tll my mother.... big mistake. my mum now h8s my girlfriend and makes snide comments bout our relationship..... you can all imagine how chufed i am...... not very....... Yay im in a REALLY happy mood today ^_^ AWWW D= crying
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Posted: Fri Feb 25, 2005 8:10 pm
My parents don't know, and I'm not inclined to tell them. Both of them see any form of homosexuality as a defect, and it openly makes them ill, even if I'm only Bi I'm not risking it. I've mentioned it to a few friends who have asked, but overall I'm not running around shouting about being Bi.
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Posted: Sat Feb 26, 2005 2:45 pm
Ive only told my older sister and some of my friends. Because here if you are gay/bi they will really kill you. I only tole the people who would understand such as, My boyfriend, My friend whos a boy, My best friend Phurry, and 2 of my other best friends...
The guys said it was hott.. And Phurry doesnt mind but.. she keeps a little bit of space between us. My other friend Lauren Was like WHY?! lol but she respects me C:
My sister became Bi when i told her eek
I Dident tell my mom or dad, Im to shy to tell them, and i dont want another "The Talk" gonk People here will tease you , spit on you , beat you up, or throw bibles at you....
Its sick. sad
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Posted: Sat Feb 26, 2005 3:15 pm
i want to come out... but i really dont want to deal with the stuff people will do.... so I'm gonna wait until college (or later) 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Feb 26, 2005 5:50 pm
i came out at *english* college *different from american*
my girlfriend pretty much got it out of me, i was homophobic before
which was kinda icky since i liked what i saw in the changing rooms...
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