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 Posted: Tue Nov 10, 2009 5:19 pm
____________♥нσlч ✖ Jєωєl♦____________
Yeah, hun. It sucks, but you know what? For us, it's like a test. So much hurt in our lives, we are afraid of the ones who love us. We tend to hurt the ones we love the most, but, we don't mean to. We're trying to make sure that we aren't going to get hurt. Even if we've been with our partner for the longest time, but, we still have that nagging pessimistication in the back of our minds. 3nodding And yes: I just made up a word. cool
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Posted: Tue Nov 10, 2009 5:24 pm
Yeah..
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Too bad I'll probably fail this test haha.
Thanks though, it makes me feel better. c:
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Posted: Tue Nov 10, 2009 5:27 pm
____________♥нσlч ✖ Jєωєl♦____________
Lol. Your making the test. She's the one taking it. wink
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Posted: Tue Nov 10, 2009 6:05 pm
@Tsukiyomi & Queenie: You two are about to make me cry over here. That's so beautiful and touching...
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Posted: Tue Nov 10, 2009 6:14 pm
____________♥нσlч ✖ Jєωєl♦____________
Takari or TK. And, what do are you talking about, Inu? *blinks*
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Posted: Tue Nov 10, 2009 7:06 pm
I don't know, I guess it's because I went through something similar with my ex. I wasn't ever possessive, I just liked being around him. Of course, when my depression hit, it was just...yeah, bad. When I'm upset I cling to the sturdiest thing I have, which was him. But that's all in the past.
I just...you two talking made me feel so much better I wanted to cry.
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Posted: Tue Nov 10, 2009 8:16 pm
awwws....you guys make me sad. sad
I'm having problems with my boyfriend. He's being a selfish possesive p***k XD That's the quickest, simplest way to explain it.
But we are trying TRYING hard to work through this.
Other than that, I kicked my my brother out of my house for smoking pot in his room while I had club going on. Keep in mind, my club members are mostly around 14/15. Lost a member b/c her parents found out too.
My mom always does everything she can for him. Buys him food, buys him transportation, offers to pay rent for two months b/c he got fired for not coming to work (this was before he moved in with me) buys hime clothes....in general she babies the child that is a failure at life....and b/c she babies him, he will continue to fail at life b/c he knows shes gonna be there to bail him out.
I work my butt off to pay my bills....barely managing it and can't afford to eat. ( I've ate...twice in the past 2 days cause there's no food in the house and I can't afford to buy any) I do all I can for her when she ends up in the hospital or goes on a trip somewhere for work. I watch my two younger sisters and/or dog/house sit for her ALL the freaking time! And she calls me rude and hateful and says I never have any time for her...really? I don't? rolleyes So basically I told her I didn't wanna see her till she stops treating my failure of a brother like hes a god.
ya...family problems.
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Posted: Wed Nov 11, 2009 9:31 am
@Brieka: OMIGOD, I'm so sorry!!!
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Posted: Wed Nov 11, 2009 9:56 am
Inu: It's ok really....I'm dealing with it at least. I actually feel relieved.
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Posted: Wed Nov 11, 2009 11:47 am
____________♥нσlч ✖ Jєωєl♦____________
How long have you been in that relationship, brie? eek I just got out of a possessive relationship. 3nodding My ex was possessive to the point where I couldn't go hang out far places with my friends. Constant fighting was our downfall. I was going to be his girlfriend again, until we got into another fight and I ended it again. Now, we can't even speak to each other because he won't speak to me.
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Posted: Wed Nov 11, 2009 1:01 pm
@Brie: Yeah, that's good. You guys all worry the heck outta me.
@TK: Went through the same thing with my ex. well, kinda. The third time we dated, he decided to break up with me by not talking to me for a month because he didn't like the "on-again, off-again" relationship. So I didn't hear from him for a very very long time. And then he went off to college and we didn't speak, despite my attempts, until he broke down one day and finally realized what he had done. The he apologized profusely and we're best friends again.
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Posted: Thu Nov 12, 2009 7:28 am
____________♥тαкαяi ♥♦ тѕυкiчσмi♦____________
Best friends? No relationship? Well, you're lucky. My ex has 2 classes with me and my new bf. sweatdrop And, he won't accept friendship from me. 
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Posted: Thu Nov 12, 2009 12:19 pm
Well, I wouldn't necessarily say "no relationship" because we flirt profusely. But I flirt profusely with everyone...
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Posted: Thu Nov 12, 2009 12:47 pm
____________♥тαкαяi ♥♦ тѕυкiчσмi♦____________
Can we say: "DaNgErOuS!" question rofl And, no. I mean, today was the first day I called out to my ex. That was painful. AND, on top of that, my boyfriend has the flu. xp
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Posted: Thu Nov 12, 2009 12:55 pm
>@TK: That sucks D:
Does he have the swine? O:
Better make him lots of soup to make him feel better!
Also more complaining today +_+
My ex doesn't understand that I don't want to be with him, even though we've been broken up for a year.
No matter how many times, how gently or strongly I tell him that I'm not attracted to him (Personality-wise or physically), he still acts like nothing's changed.
When we talk, which is rare now, he'll slip "I love you" in to the conversations (usually at the end) and gets ultra butthurt when I don't say it back.
Sure, I love him like a brother because I've known him for nine years and we dated for a solid seven out of them, but it's getting ridiculous.
I avoid him and talking to him whenever I can, and if he tries to contact me I change to a hostile b***h just to make him not-want to talk to me.
I feel like I'm being forced to throw away my best friend,
but I also feel like there's nothing I can do to make him understand.
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