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 Posted: Sun Dec 31, 2006 5:06 pm
I have been seperated from my parents for about two months now and we don't know how long I will not be able to live with them for. My mom is in the hospital with a liver sickness and just had surgery. My family is just a mess.
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Posted: Mon Jan 15, 2007 8:04 am
ok, this is kinda my problem, but kinda not. My friend (lets call him...RF) RF is going though some really hard times with him family. they are having some problems. and he likes a girl that is the most flirty girl ive ever known. he's depressed alot and i dont know how to help! I really want to though!! I tell him to not be depressed and that he just need to get over this girl and except that he cant do anything about what's going on and just go on with life. i tell him that me and all my other friends are praying for him, and he needs to prey and just give it all to God...but i just dont think he's hearing me...i dont know what to do....HELP PLEASE!! PM me if you have some advice please (i might not be able to check on this fourm all the time)!! thanx everyone crying
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Posted: Mon Apr 16, 2007 8:15 pm
Please pray for my church. The leaders are messed up and are going in a direction that will split the church. Also pray for our community, we had a crime committed in our community that shocked the whole town and county. THank you!
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Posted: Thu May 10, 2007 5:35 pm
Hey everyone.
I could really use some help and pray right now. I really feel like i'm crashing and falling apart. I tend to bottle things up and let them pile on until I break, and crash.. fall apart until there is nothing left. I have gotten alot better about it over the years but it's still hard. I'm hiting a point like that and I'm fighting to not be broken by it.
Alot of stressing this have just built up one on top of another. Troubles with my sister,stressing over my older brother who is in the Army and set to go to Iraq again, Worry about my mom with health problems, just all over stress about the house, stress with friends, stressing about school and what am I going to do...and a alot more. My bigest problems is I hate to let anyone to see that I'm hurting. Cause I hate to cry infront of people, and when I get stressed or well like this I cry alot. I feel foolish, like a spoiled brat, and weak when I do cry infront of someone.
I hate openly telling anyone I know personal that I'm feeling like this. But deep down I'm screaming for someone to see through this happy face to know how much I'm in pain, how much I want some of them to help me and say it going to be ok.Though half time when someone ask if I'm ok first thing out of my mouth is I'm ok. So all I do is end up runing in circles.
So in short note I could really use some help and pray.
Thanks everyone.
Sallie
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Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 8:37 pm
Bluegender Fan45 xXxcrimson_tearsxXx Heh... I'd like opinions and help on this....
I can't find a church, cause of a few reasons.
1. I'm 16, and almost 23 weeks pregnant. But I often look only 15. I don't wear makeup, I don't wear dresses, and I often wear baggy mens clothes. I dress that way because something happened when I was 4, and although I don't really remember it I'm scared it will happen again so I make myself look like a guy. Anyway, As soon as most people in my area see me, they see I'm pregnant, see the way I dress, and somehow manage to label me a slut. I'm not a slut, I had a jerk of a boyfriend, and couldn't bring myself to abort cause it's too much like throwing gods work back in his face.
2. I have burns, and cuts, on my arms because I was depressed. I used to cut myself and burn myself with cigarettes at school and things like that, because I lost my dad, and was going through a bad time where I needed a dad. Anyway, when I go to a church, they see the marks and scars, and are revolted and disgusted. They turn away and tell me I'm not worth God's love because I'm a slut and a whore.
What am I supposed to do? I want to go to church cause I love God, even though I have only recently returned to my faith. But I keep getting kicked out, and I'm scared that if I don't attend church, I won't get to heaven. ok you go to a screwed up chruch to tell u that. where u live and i could fine a good church for u. as for everything else tell them it is not or man to judge me but for my father god to do so You do NOT have to go to "church" to go to heaven. Going to heaven has to do with your own personal salvation. I hope you find a church, because going to church helps with understsnding the Bible, but it is not a nesessity.
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Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2007 7:43 pm
DecembersDream Hey everyone.
I could really use some help and pray right now. I really feel like i'm crashing and falling apart. I tend to bottle things up and let them pile on until I break, and crash.. fall apart until there is nothing left. I have gotten alot better about it over the years but it's still hard. I'm hiting a point like that and I'm fighting to not be broken by it.
Alot of stressing this have just built up one on top of another. Troubles with my sister,stressing over my older brother who is in the Army and set to go to Iraq again, Worry about my mom with health problems, just all over stress about the house, stress with friends, stressing about school and what am I going to do...and a alot more. My bigest problems is I hate to let anyone to see that I'm hurting. Cause I hate to cry infront of people, and when I get stressed or well like this I cry alot. I feel foolish, like a spoiled brat, and weak when I do cry infront of someone.
I hate openly telling anyone I know personal that I'm feeling like this. But deep down I'm screaming for someone to see through this happy face to know how much I'm in pain, how much I want some of them to help me and say it going to be ok.Though half time when someone ask if I'm ok first thing out of my mouth is I'm ok. So all I do is end up runing in circles.
So in short note I could really use some help and pray.
Thanks everyone.
Sallie You will diffenatly be in my prayers. It's had dealing with stress. Pray to Jesus and ask him to help you carry the burden of life. I'm the same way. When I'm depressed or stressed and soemthing causes me to feel anger i want to lash out and be violent but knowing the consequences i tend to break down and cry in front of people. I know that's it's embarrassing and that you don't want people to pity you but at the same time you want some comfort. I find that the more open you are with people the more open they are with you...it's how you develope friendships. Right now i think what you need is fellowship....people who will raise you up in a loving Christian environment. Anywasy you shall be in my prayers....pm if you need anything.
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Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2007 9:05 pm
xBiblexHuggerx DecembersDream Hey everyone.
I could really use some help and pray right now. I really feel like i'm crashing and falling apart. I tend to bottle things up and let them pile on until I break, and crash.. fall apart until there is nothing left. I have gotten alot better about it over the years but it's still hard. I'm hiting a point like that and I'm fighting to not be broken by it.
Alot of stressing this have just built up one on top of another. Troubles with my sister,stressing over my older brother who is in the Army and set to go to Iraq again, Worry about my mom with health problems, just all over stress about the house, stress with friends, stressing about school and what am I going to do...and a alot more. My bigest problems is I hate to let anyone to see that I'm hurting. Cause I hate to cry infront of people, and when I get stressed or well like this I cry alot. I feel foolish, like a spoiled brat, and weak when I do cry infront of someone.
I hate openly telling anyone I know personal that I'm feeling like this. But deep down I'm screaming for someone to see through this happy face to know how much I'm in pain, how much I want some of them to help me and say it going to be ok.Though half time when someone ask if I'm ok first thing out of my mouth is I'm ok. So all I do is end up runing in circles.
So in short note I could really use some help and pray.
Thanks everyone.
Sallie You will diffenatly be in my prayers. It's had dealing with stress. Pray to Jesus and ask him to help you carry the burden of life. I'm the same way. When I'm depressed or stressed and soemthing causes me to feel anger i want to lash out and be violent but knowing the consequences i tend to break down and cry in front of people. I know that's it's embarrassing and that you don't want people to pity you but at the same time you want some comfort. I find that the more open you are with people the more open they are with you...it's how you develope friendships. Right now i think what you need is fellowship....people who will raise you up in a loving Christian environment. Anywasy you shall be in my prayers....pm if you need anything.
Thanks I'll keep that in mind, and thank you for this.
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Posted: Thu Jun 07, 2007 11:20 am
DecembersDream xBiblexHuggerx DecembersDream Hey everyone.
I could really use some help and pray right now. I really feel like i'm crashing and falling apart. I tend to bottle things up and let them pile on until I break, and crash.. fall apart until there is nothing left. I have gotten alot better about it over the years but it's still hard. I'm hiting a point like that and I'm fighting to not be broken by it.
Alot of stressing this have just built up one on top of another. Troubles with my sister,stressing over my older brother who is in the Army and set to go to Iraq again, Worry about my mom with health problems, just all over stress about the house, stress with friends, stressing about school and what am I going to do...and a alot more. My bigest problems is I hate to let anyone to see that I'm hurting. Cause I hate to cry infront of people, and when I get stressed or well like this I cry alot. I feel foolish, like a spoiled brat, and weak when I do cry infront of someone.
I hate openly telling anyone I know personal that I'm feeling like this. But deep down I'm screaming for someone to see through this happy face to know how much I'm in pain, how much I want some of them to help me and say it going to be ok.Though half time when someone ask if I'm ok first thing out of my mouth is I'm ok. So all I do is end up runing in circles.
So in short note I could really use some help and pray.
Thanks everyone.
Sallie You will diffenatly be in my prayers. It's had dealing with stress. Pray to Jesus and ask him to help you carry the burden of life. I'm the same way. When I'm depressed or stressed and soemthing causes me to feel anger i want to lash out and be violent but knowing the consequences i tend to break down and cry in front of people. I know that's it's embarrassing and that you don't want people to pity you but at the same time you want some comfort. I find that the more open you are with people the more open they are with you...it's how you develope friendships. Right now i think what you need is fellowship....people who will raise you up in a loving Christian environment. Anywasy you shall be in my prayers....pm if you need anything.
Thanks I'll keep that in mind, and thank you for this. Not at all a problem. Glad i could help. I'll continue to pray for you....i need to remind myself to create a prayer list when i get home. I know how hard it is to find good Christian friends in today's society. Until you find some strong Christians, hang out with people who are at least moral and kind. Keep posting on here for support too :]
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Posted: Thu Jun 07, 2007 12:36 pm
xBiblexHuggerx DecembersDream xBiblexHuggerx DecembersDream Hey everyone.
I could really use some help and pray right now. I really feel like i'm crashing and falling apart. I tend to bottle things up and let them pile on until I break, and crash.. fall apart until there is nothing left. I have gotten alot better about it over the years but it's still hard. I'm hiting a point like that and I'm fighting to not be broken by it.
Alot of stressing this have just built up one on top of another. Troubles with my sister,stressing over my older brother who is in the Army and set to go to Iraq again, Worry about my mom with health problems, just all over stress about the house, stress with friends, stressing about school and what am I going to do...and a alot more. My bigest problems is I hate to let anyone to see that I'm hurting. Cause I hate to cry infront of people, and when I get stressed or well like this I cry alot. I feel foolish, like a spoiled brat, and weak when I do cry infront of someone.
I hate openly telling anyone I know personal that I'm feeling like this. But deep down I'm screaming for someone to see through this happy face to know how much I'm in pain, how much I want some of them to help me and say it going to be ok.Though half time when someone ask if I'm ok first thing out of my mouth is I'm ok. So all I do is end up runing in circles.
So in short note I could really use some help and pray.
Thanks everyone.
Sallie You will diffenatly be in my prayers. It's had dealing with stress. Pray to Jesus and ask him to help you carry the burden of life. I'm the same way. When I'm depressed or stressed and soemthing causes me to feel anger i want to lash out and be violent but knowing the consequences i tend to break down and cry in front of people. I know that's it's embarrassing and that you don't want people to pity you but at the same time you want some comfort. I find that the more open you are with people the more open they are with you...it's how you develope friendships. Right now i think what you need is fellowship....people who will raise you up in a loving Christian environment. Anywasy you shall be in my prayers....pm if you need anything.
Thanks I'll keep that in mind, and thank you for this. Not at all a problem. Glad i could help. I'll continue to pray for you....i need to remind myself to create a prayer list when i get home. I know how hard it is to find good Christian friends in today's society. Until you find some strong Christians, hang out with people who are at least moral and kind. Keep posting on here for support too :]
Yeah it is, being home schooled as well it make it alittle harder. I enjoy home schooling but it still makes it harder to find Christian friends. Well I take that back I have one friend who is sorta of but she lives on the other side of the country right now. But sadly she really dos not live the life, and I love her to death and don't know how to help her. Don't worry I will be up here posting, I love this guilding.
Oh speaking of home school a praise report. At the age of 16 I only have two short classes before I am done with high school.
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 2:21 pm
DecembersDream xBiblexHuggerx DecembersDream xBiblexHuggerx DecembersDream Hey everyone.
I could really use some help and pray right now. I really feel like i'm crashing and falling apart. I tend to bottle things up and let them pile on until I break, and crash.. fall apart until there is nothing left. I have gotten alot better about it over the years but it's still hard. I'm hiting a point like that and I'm fighting to not be broken by it.
Alot of stressing this have just built up one on top of another. Troubles with my sister,stressing over my older brother who is in the Army and set to go to Iraq again, Worry about my mom with health problems, just all over stress about the house, stress with friends, stressing about school and what am I going to do...and a alot more. My bigest problems is I hate to let anyone to see that I'm hurting. Cause I hate to cry infront of people, and when I get stressed or well like this I cry alot. I feel foolish, like a spoiled brat, and weak when I do cry infront of someone.
I hate openly telling anyone I know personal that I'm feeling like this. But deep down I'm screaming for someone to see through this happy face to know how much I'm in pain, how much I want some of them to help me and say it going to be ok.Though half time when someone ask if I'm ok first thing out of my mouth is I'm ok. So all I do is end up runing in circles.
So in short note I could really use some help and pray.
Thanks everyone.
Sallie You will diffenatly be in my prayers. It's had dealing with stress. Pray to Jesus and ask him to help you carry the burden of life. I'm the same way. When I'm depressed or stressed and soemthing causes me to feel anger i want to lash out and be violent but knowing the consequences i tend to break down and cry in front of people. I know that's it's embarrassing and that you don't want people to pity you but at the same time you want some comfort. I find that the more open you are with people the more open they are with you...it's how you develope friendships. Right now i think what you need is fellowship....people who will raise you up in a loving Christian environment. Anywasy you shall be in my prayers....pm if you need anything.
Thanks I'll keep that in mind, and thank you for this. Not at all a problem. Glad i could help. I'll continue to pray for you....i need to remind myself to create a prayer list when i get home. I know how hard it is to find good Christian friends in today's society. Until you find some strong Christians, hang out with people who are at least moral and kind. Keep posting on here for support too :]
Yeah it is, being home schooled as well it make it alittle harder. I enjoy home schooling but it still makes it harder to find Christian friends. Well I take that back I have one friend who is sorta of but she lives on the other side of the country right now. But sadly she really dos not live the life, and I love her to death and don't know how to help her. Don't worry I will be up here posting, I love this guilding.
Oh speaking of home school a praise report. At the age of 16 I only have two short classes before I am done with high school. Oh that is awesome! Good for you. Are you invovled with a youth group at your church?
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 3:11 pm
xBiblexHuggerx DecembersDream xBiblexHuggerx DecembersDream xBiblexHuggerx DecembersDream Hey everyone.
I could really use some help and pray right now. I really feel like i'm crashing and falling apart. I tend to bottle things up and let them pile on until I break, and crash.. fall apart until there is nothing left. I have gotten alot better about it over the years but it's still hard. I'm hiting a point like that and I'm fighting to not be broken by it.
Alot of stressing this have just built up one on top of another. Troubles with my sister,stressing over my older brother who is in the Army and set to go to Iraq again, Worry about my mom with health problems, just all over stress about the house, stress with friends, stressing about school and what am I going to do...and a alot more. My bigest problems is I hate to let anyone to see that I'm hurting. Cause I hate to cry infront of people, and when I get stressed or well like this I cry alot. I feel foolish, like a spoiled brat, and weak when I do cry infront of someone.
I hate openly telling anyone I know personal that I'm feeling like this. But deep down I'm screaming for someone to see through this happy face to know how much I'm in pain, how much I want some of them to help me and say it going to be ok.Though half time when someone ask if I'm ok first thing out of my mouth is I'm ok. So all I do is end up runing in circles.
So in short note I could really use some help and pray.
Thanks everyone.
Sallie You will diffenatly be in my prayers. It's had dealing with stress. Pray to Jesus and ask him to help you carry the burden of life. I'm the same way. When I'm depressed or stressed and soemthing causes me to feel anger i want to lash out and be violent but knowing the consequences i tend to break down and cry in front of people. I know that's it's embarrassing and that you don't want people to pity you but at the same time you want some comfort. I find that the more open you are with people the more open they are with you...it's how you develope friendships. Right now i think what you need is fellowship....people who will raise you up in a loving Christian environment. Anywasy you shall be in my prayers....pm if you need anything.
Thanks I'll keep that in mind, and thank you for this. Not at all a problem. Glad i could help. I'll continue to pray for you....i need to remind myself to create a prayer list when i get home. I know how hard it is to find good Christian friends in today's society. Until you find some strong Christians, hang out with people who are at least moral and kind. Keep posting on here for support too :]
Yeah it is, being home schooled as well it make it alittle harder. I enjoy home schooling but it still makes it harder to find Christian friends. Well I take that back I have one friend who is sorta of but she lives on the other side of the country right now. But sadly she really dos not live the life, and I love her to death and don't know how to help her. Don't worry I will be up here posting, I love this guilding.
Oh speaking of home school a praise report. At the age of 16 I only have two short classes before I am done with high school. Oh that is awesome! Good for you. Are you invovled with a youth group at your church?
Yeah I am, and have been for a couple years off and on. But I have never been able to make friends with kids there. Trust me I have tried, but haven't been able too.
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Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 9:14 pm
Please pray for me. I have been struggling with depression for many months now and I am beginning to lose faith in God. It seems that every time I pray to him, the prayer backfires. I'm tired of being unhappy. I don't really want to post the details of my depression, but if someone thinks they have advice for me, then PM me and I will explain my depression further. Thank you.
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Posted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 6:22 pm
xXxcrimson_tearsxXx Heh... I'd like opinions and help on this....
I can't find a church, cause of a few reasons.
1. I'm 16, and almost 23 weeks pregnant. But I often look only 15. I don't wear makeup, I don't wear dresses, and I often wear baggy mens clothes. I dress that way because something happened when I was 4, and although I don't really remember it I'm scared it will happen again so I make myself look like a guy. Anyway, As soon as most people in my area see me, they see I'm pregnant, see the way I dress, and somehow manage to label me a slut. I'm not a slut, I had a jerk of a boyfriend, and couldn't bring myself to abort cause it's too much like throwing gods work back in his face.
2. I have burns, and cuts, on my arms because I was depressed. I used to cut myself and burn myself with cigarettes at school and things like that, because I lost my dad, and was going through a bad time where I needed a dad. Anyway, when I go to a church, they see the marks and scars, and are revolted and disgusted. They turn away and tell me I'm not worth God's love because I'm a slut and a whore.
What am I supposed to do? I want to go to church cause I love God, even though I have only recently returned to my faith. But I keep getting kicked out, and I'm scared that if I don't attend church, I won't get to heaven. First of all, you are not a slut so when people tell you you are, ignore them. For your second question, those people at your church should know better than to call you a slut and a whore because they should know that EVERYONE is worth God's love. biggrin
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Posted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 6:27 pm
Depphead_2005 guys, i'm going through an extremely stressful time at the moment. my parents are getting a divorce, my grandma is really sick and could be dying (she's my last grandparent), i'm majorly falling behind in school, me and my brother can't get along whatsoever, me and my dad are getting that way, i feel like a complete failure, and i've done something i've sworn myself not to do. i became one of the people i used to make fun of. i did something i'm completely against. i gave up on myself and let my depression take over. i really don't feel like going into detail with it, but you guys know what i'm talking about. i can't believe that i did what i did. i consider myself a loser, failure, and complete idiot for not being able to control myself. what i did was stupid and it didn't solve anything. it just made me feel even more down on myself. i need some comfort, guys. i'll just come out and say it. i feel like i'm slipping away from God. i need some help, you guys. thank you so much smile First of all im really sorry about what you are going through! I suggest that you talk to a pastor at your church and maybe go to a therapist to help with your depression. I hope you get through this time!
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Posted: Tue Jun 26, 2007 12:54 pm
My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer today and probably has bone cancer as well. I'm worried and afraid of what might happen. I don't want things to change. I know what this is going to be a stressful time. My mind keeps running away with worst case. I want things to be normal. My dad is going to have a really hard time. He's probably depressed. I just want things to be better. I want things to be normal.
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