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 Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 5:31 pm
The Dread Pirate Ghosty I almost got me some today, but the foreplay dragged out too long sweatdrop but the foreplays awesome! granted it can be tedious, but when it does, just tug them up by the ears (haha =) ) and have some fun XP
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Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 7:28 pm
He calls it "teasing", I call it "amusing". Albeit, every other time I've turned him down, but this time he was like "WE JUST SPENT TWO HOURS ON FOREPLAY, I'M TOO TIRED!"
I was all "Noes D:"
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Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 8:31 pm
then it would just depend what kind of foreplay you guys did that lasted 2 hours. ive never (thankfully haha) been tired after a session that long.
maybe hes just lazy haha. (we are talking about your boyfriend right? not the one ex guy thats trying to get in your pants.....cause then thats a nono)
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Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 9:39 pm
I don't think his past girlfriends were as cool as I was, they had sex, but they were either psycho and slutty or else just not the type I imagine being that good in bed. I'm all about the enjoyment, he's about the result... he says I'm very frustrating sweatdrop But I didn't think it would but for him it was a bit too much.
And erm, we're talkin' about my ex. I do have permission from my boyfriend to do this stuff with him, at least 'til we can get a visit in and then we'll re-think the situation. But he definitely knows everything that goes on and such.
Although I'm starting to want out of the situation, before it gets too complicated.
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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 10:33 am
Why is the topic lack of sex but everyone is talking about actually having sex neutral
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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 10:41 am
If you read the topic it starts off with everybody pretty much saying they haven't had it in ___ long and whatnot. I'd gone 6 months without. Then the topic maker got some, and I have almost gotten some, and some various others might get some in the future.
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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 6:07 pm
el cabong XXX Zombie Porn Quote: if_life: oh yea i am probably going up to glasgow either this weekend or next to stay with my mate paul and his slave who i have been dying to ******** - so see if you can invent some windup for your folks that you are going on a maths revision course if you want to come From lack of sex to lots of sex. People must be reading this thinking I'm a slut/freak/weirdo. not everyone. i consider you enviable haha. crap... my classes start today.... maybe this means something good will happen (because everyone knows that college is 1/4 studying and 3/4 trying to attract the opposite sex. pirate ) yeah well i got a french maid uniform bought for me and a new ball gag :]
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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 6:28 pm
I want a french maid outift...
Meh, I'd look retarded in that.
Now a bar wench outfit, bwa ha ha.
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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 7:21 pm
dA fUnKy mOnKeY Why is the topic lack of sex but everyone is talking about actually having sex neutral they go hand in hand. one those evolving topics (that will eventually go back to those of us getting some griping about not getting some while those of us *cough* myself included) sharpen our pointy sticks each time we hear someone griping about sex after theyve just recently got some haha. mrgreen
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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 7:25 pm
Thank goodness I don't gripe about getting sex... much.
*whew*
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 2:35 pm
The Dread Pirate Ghosty I want a french maid outift...
Meh, I'd look retarded in that.
Now a bar wench outfit, bwa ha ha. I has this one  I love it
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 9:31 pm
lol, I guess in this aspect I'm lucky I'm still a virgin? sweatdrop I hang out with a pretty straight crowd(and the ones who aren't are lesbians oddly enough =P ), so it'll be a while before I get my chance. sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 2:04 am
el cabong dA fUnKy mOnKeY Why is the topic lack of sex but everyone is talking about actually having sex neutral they go hand in hand. one those evolving topics (that will eventually go back to those of us getting some griping about not getting some while those of us *cough* myself included) sharpen our pointy sticks each time we hear someone griping about sex after theyve just recently got some haha. mrgreen Lol yeah i was actually very sexually frustrated when i wrote that. My guy friend keeps trying to get with me but i dont like him like that. So far the no sex has been by choice. I don't want the drama that generally comes with sex. So i'm waiting for "mr. right " but after almost 2 years im giving "mr. right NOW" some serious consideration. Lmao.
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Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 6:34 am
heres a thought: what if mr. right doesnt think youre ms. right when you find him? (not just sexually)
i think relationships (even the purely carnal ones) are worth having at least once. sure it may suck when/if its over and maybe it might have been a bad idea in hindsight. but without those experiences and those lessons you learn while in the relationship, how do you know if mr. right truely is mr. right?
you might be surprised about what you might learn about yourself or other people when you do take mr. rightnow.
3nodding
everythings worth the shot.
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Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 8:01 am
I've always tried to go by only having sex with Mr. Right. I mean, up until a day before I did anything with my boyfriend I told him I was going to wait 'til marriage, however... I was weak, and positive we were going to get married.
I'm sure I could've found somebody else to do before him, but I'm glad I waited for him... I'm glad I waited to do it with somebody I love deeply and can fully enjoy and express myself and my sexuality with.
When he and I broke up I was in such a funk, and I had an internet friend who happened to come visit me for Halloween... And while I'd like to say it was that I'd been drinking, I hadn't drank that much, it was mostly that I was so depressed about my boyfriend that I did anything with him, let alone have sex. And while I won't tell him flat out that I don't like him like that and regret doing it with him... I do. It wasn't very good, at all. I was his first, he was nervous 'cause he liked me so much apparently, and mostly I have no attraction for him like that... I still don't, and he gets mad and jealous over me when he doesn't get he has no right to tell me what to do. I would never suggest meaningless sex, but that's because it was so unfulfilling for me, and it's just something to look back and be ashamed about, or causes needless drama. My friend fooled around with a guy during her breakup who she was going on dates with... when she went back to her ex she was like "Neither of us really liked the other, this was just for fun" and he was like "Uhm, I really like you." she felt horrible. Really, that only satisfies the itch for the moment, but so does masturbation.... Admittedly, I'm more old fashioned about sleeping only with people you feel something for, even if I am a dirty, dirty pervert. Hell, I can't even kiss people unless I really feel something for them... people laugh at me for having a kiss phobia, but people who kiss or make-out with people they don't really like amaze me, as I can't fathom being able to do that and how anybody couldn't be uncomfortable with it.
Now my ex who I'm going on dates with and fooling around is different as I really like him and would like to date him, and can see him becoming a "Mr. Right" but I'm still learning to get comfortable with him like I am with my boyfriend... I'm still learning things about him and he is about me... so while I don't regret the fooling around we've done, it has yet to be as wonderful as when done with my "Mr. Right" Albeit, I have yet to actually have sex with him. My ex is more experienced, but I enjoy it much more with my boyfriend for whom I'm the only girl he's ever been with...
Although it is funny, as my ex calls me difficult sweatdrop And so he's trying to figure out new techniques and the last time he came over I got "Hey, let me try something I saw on the internet." Most beautiful greeting line ever.
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