|
|
| Boys are icky |
| yes indeed |
|
19% |
[ 8 ] |
| only most of the time |
|
80% |
[ 33 ] |
|
| Total Votes : 41 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
 Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2005 4:23 pm
Yume_Okami there is a guy whom i care about very much.......but he no longer appears to return such emotions.....and i don't know what to do......this summer has been so horrible, and there seems to be no single person with time and/or paitence to listen to what i have to say..... i have that same problem, except the person i care about is femalish sweatdrop and from the way she sounds, she hasnt ever 'loved' me more than as friends crying I LOVE HER MORE THAN ANYTHING......and its pointless.... gonk gonk gonk
|
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2005 6:24 pm
Nephite Warrior Yume_Okami there is a guy whom i care about very much.......but he no longer appears to return such emotions.....and i don't know what to do......this summer has been so horrible, and there seems to be no single person with time and/or paitence to listen to what i have to say..... i have that same problem, except the person i care about is femalish sweatdrop and from the way she sounds, she hasnt ever 'loved' me more than as friends crying I LOVE HER MORE THAN ANYTHING......and its pointless.... gonk gonk gonk
he was in the same predicament as you are last autumn....or at least that is what he told me later.....i started dating this guy about four months after i started talking to him. i knew that he liked me, but i was really in a bad way at the time.....worries about starting college, being afraid that i'd do something to upset my father, and more than anything else, terrified to get into a relationship that was beyond mere friendship. i've always been afraid that i'd hurt someone if they got too attached to me.....i've moved a few times, so i know what it's like to leave people behind....never to see them again.....some who genuinely liked me even....i finally agreed to officially date him just before christmas, and we continued to keep frequent contact while i was at school. he said that i was different than anyone he's dated before, for he wasn't *in love* or *infatuated* with me; instead, he said that he *loves ME*....on a spirititual level...i also knew that he was different....from any guy i've ever crushed on....i've never crushed on him, but i was (and still am) extatic just to hear the ring tone on my phone that i have programed only for when he calls. also, knowing him has opened a new life in me....one which i shut away many years ago....i am no longer afraid of my father, and i have been terrified of him my entire life. this guy helped strengthen and uplift me when i thought that all was lost. having him in my life also inspired a new motivation, helping me to remember and draw closer to my god. i started to search the scriptures and pray more often than before, and i started attending church again, which i didn't do at all the first three months of school...he even provided a sanctuary for me to escape my father's house during winter break (yes, i stayed at his house instead...his father got annoyed because i slept on his couch...preventing him from watching tv at 4 a.m. whee ) his father is so wonderful, and his sister is now numbered among the closest of my friends.
when his brother got sick, his entire outlook on life seemed to change. he was baptized into the lds church last march (i had no part in this decision, for i remained only a support for his decisions...not an influence over them), but since he left for three days in may, he's attended sacrament meeting all of twice. i contacted the missionaries a few weeks ago, because he'd moved out of his father's house, and they didn't know where to find him. i told them where he went so that he'd have some sort of positive influence in his life, beyond what his friends can provide.
incase anyone is wondering, i love this guy more than i care for my own life. if my being miserable is the only way in which he can be happy, then so be it. i've been miserable for some reason or another my entire life...why not for the rest of it? it's difficult to imagine that i'll ever be truely happy, even though i know that strife and endurance can be keys to obtaining eternal joy. i want so much to spend all of time and eternity with him....he even expressed a desire to marry me the day he left in may.....but the equal desire to break up eventually overcame the first, so that is the path he chose. he is the only person for whom i have EVER felt a genuine love and affection for, exceeding that which i have for my family or even my closest friends....but i've always had a most grievous time expressing such attachments.....and now, when for the first time, i actually feel capable of doing so, it is too late. he can not/will not listen to me now.
and so, my soul shall continue to be riddled with agony and anguish every hour of every day....for that is how often thoughts of this man enter my mind....until such a time that i can either cause myself to forget what i've lost, or perhaps regain it (both seem unlikely at this point in time)
~sorry about how long and drawn out this is.....i'm rarely able to find an audiance that will listen......other than my god and my journal, that is......
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
AmmonSuperCombo Vice Captain
|
Posted: Tue Aug 23, 2005 3:19 am
yay4bunnys thx!! *hugglomp* but there's a problem. at the age we're at, it just seems a big difference. like, im 16 and he's 18, almost 19. my parents would never approve. plus, he's probably got a friend and is most likely planning to go on a mission.........gggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr....... you arent 16!... and it isnt me is it?? eek cuz i'm "semi-kinda" taken blaugh well not really cry to mormonchika: you know you're gonna tell me eventually right? cuz if you dont i have my means... of begging you to tell me!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2005 2:01 pm
she means when she is 16, he'll be 18 almost 19....and im not gonna tell you you're just gonna tease me....
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Aug 31, 2005 5:26 pm
mormonchika07 she means when she is 16, he'll be 18 almost 19....and im not gonna tell you you're just gonna tease me.... i'm shocked you would think that of me! i wont tease you... most likely anyway xd . you know who i like!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Sep 01, 2005 3:56 pm
Ok... questions:
1) How do I get a stalker off my back without being mean...? I have this curse of not being mean to people... stare And then I'm nice to everyone and then everyone likes me!!! gonk
2) How do I get an X off my back, again without being mean? sweatdrop
3) What goes through a guy's mind when he is turned down?
4) What goes through a guy's mind when he gets a yes after asking someone out?
5) Why are most guys perverts? gonk (not a legit question, but I still wanna see what you guys come up with. razz )
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Sep 01, 2005 4:10 pm
Befu Ok... questions: 1) How do I get a stalker off my back without being mean...? I have this curse of not being mean to people... stare And then I'm nice to everyone and then everyone likes me!!! gonk Talk to him and pretend you don't know he likes you, while he's talking to you ask him about guys you like... for example ''See that really hot popular guy over there in the corner of the room? Do you think he'd go out with me caus' I really like him?!'' rolleyes Don't put it like that though, make it seem more serious.2) How do I get an X off my back, again without being mean? sweatdrop Pretend to like the stalker wink Naw, just be nice and let him know you moved on, talk to him like you were just friends.3) What goes through a guy's mind when he is turned down? ''Dang all that time waisted for nothing... hmm... Oh! She's hot, I wonder if I can get her... Oh! So is she, I wonder if their sisters... maybe I can get them both.'' blaugh At least that's my opinion on what most guys would think.4) What goes through a guy's mind when he gets a yes after asking someone out? ''Score!'' xd I dunno.5) Why are most guys perverts? gonk (not a legit question, but I still wanna see what you guys come up with. ) It's a trial, something that like... ''God gave to them,'' so they can overcome it. *shrugs* That's what I've been told... from a guy too. 3nodding
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Sep 01, 2005 4:13 pm
oogie_boogie888 Befu Ok... questions: 1) How do I get a stalker off my back without being mean...? I have this curse of not being mean to people... stare And then I'm nice to everyone and then everyone likes me!!! gonk Talk to him and pretend you don't know he likes you, while he's talking to you ask him about guys you like... for example ''See that really hot popular guy over there in the corner of the room? Do you think he'd go out with me caus' I really like him?!'' rolleyes Don't put it like that though, make it seem more serious.2) How do I get an X off my back, again without being mean? sweatdrop Pretend to like the stalker wink Naw, just be nice and let him know you moved on, talk to him like you were just friends.3) What goes through a guy's mind when he is turned down? ''Dang all that time waisted for nothing... hmm... Oh! She's hot, I wonder if I can get her... Oh! So is she, I wonder if their sisters... maybe I can get them both.'' blaugh At least that's my opinion on what most guys would think.4) What goes through a guy's mind when he gets a yes after asking someone out? ''Score!'' xd I dunno.5) Why are most guys perverts? gonk (not a legit question, but I still wanna see what you guys come up with. ) It's a trial, something that like... ''God gave to them,'' so they can overcome it. *shrugs* That's what I've been told... from a guy too. 3nodding !!! I love those answers! Lol! So guys, how does that compare to how one really thinks? wink
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 4:17 pm
AmmonSuperCombo yay4bunnys thx!! *hugglomp* but there's a problem. at the age we're at, it just seems a big difference. like, im 16 and he's 18, almost 19. my parents would never approve. plus, he's probably got a friend and is most likely planning to go on a mission.........gggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr....... you arent 16!... and it isnt me is it?? eek cuz i'm "semi-kinda" taken blaugh well not really cry to mormonchika: you know you're gonna tell me eventually right? cuz if you dont i have my means... of begging you to tell me! dude, nobody's supposed to know that!!!! you know im not 16, and i know that, but nobody else did until you had to go and tell them!!!!!!!! and don't worry, it's not you. chika's right, when im 16, he'll be 18, almost 19. what should i do!!!???
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sat Sep 03, 2005 7:01 am
Befu Ok... questions: 1) How do I get a stalker off my back without being mean...? I have this curse of not being mean to people... stare And then I'm nice to everyone and then everyone likes me!!! gonk 2) How do I get an X off my back, again without being mean? sweatdrop 3) What goes through a guy's mind when he is turned down? 4) What goes through a guy's mind when he gets a yes after asking someone out? 5) Why are most guys perverts? gonk (not a legit question, but I still wanna see what you guys come up with. razz ) 1. without being mean...id say drop the "F" bomb..(freinds) tell him that you arent interested in dating....the most creative shoot down i ever got was "well, i dont want to go out with you cause you marry whom you date, and I cant see myself marring you....." 2. Talk to him about guys you like...kinda mean but short of a restraining order 3. "Why did i even bother, i knew she was outta my league..im such a freakin loser....i need a drink........." 4. WHOOO HOOOO 5. hmmmmm...well if you ask Cindy Sheehan....its President Bush's fault....
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sat Sep 03, 2005 8:16 am
here are answers...
1) How do I get a stalker off my back without being mean...? I have this curse of not being mean to people... And then I'm nice to everyone and then everyone likes me!!! Ummm, without being mean, ill just do what everybody else said!! i would have gotten my older brother to tell them to stop or else (not ammon, a different one)!!!
2) How do I get an X off my back, again without being mean? Umm same thing
3) What goes through a guy's mind when he is turned down? ummm, myabe something like: Urgh!! That was just embarrsing! i wouldn't know cause i have never asked someone out!
4) What goes through a guy's mind when he gets a yes after asking someone out? Ooooooo Right!! I did it!!! We are going to have a blast at 'wherever we are going' (like movies, concert, etc.)
5) Why are most guys perverts? cause the media makes it seem that pre-materal or before marriage, sex is OK! and all that other junk that is out there! which in turns make all guys think perverted things!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sat Sep 03, 2005 10:40 am
fun, fun, fun.................
ok. i have another dilemma. has anybody here gone out w/ sum1, dumped them, and then started to kinda like them again, just when it's too late? cuz i sorta have that problem.....and i have no freakin clue what to do. that on top of my earlier thing........
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sat Sep 03, 2005 12:36 pm
yay4bunnys fun, fun, fun................. ok. i have another dilemma. has anybody here gone out w/ sum1, dumped them, and then started to kinda like them again, just when it's too late? cuz i sorta have that problem.....and i have no freakin clue what to do. that on top of my earlier thing........ ive run into that... if you still like him, try it again, otherwise you'll have regrets
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sat Sep 03, 2005 12:53 pm
jbs2763 yay4bunnys fun, fun, fun................. ok. i have another dilemma. has anybody here gone out w/ sum1, dumped them, and then started to kinda like them again, just when it's too late? cuz i sorta have that problem.....and i have no freakin clue what to do. that on top of my earlier thing........ ive run into that... if you still like him, try it again, otherwise you'll have regrets well, i would try that, but i think he's avoiding me........
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
AmmonSuperCombo Vice Captain
|
Posted: Sat Sep 03, 2005 2:00 pm
Befu Ok... questions: 1) How do I get a stalker off my back without being mean...? I have this curse of not being mean to people... stare And then I'm nice to everyone and then everyone likes me!!! gonk 2) How do I get an X off my back, again without being mean? sweatdrop 3) What goes through a guy's mind when he is turned down? 4) What goes through a guy's mind when he gets a yes after asking someone out? 5) Why are most guys perverts? gonk (not a legit question, but I still wanna see what you guys come up with. razz ) 1) stalk him back 2) *death glare* or cold shoulder, although seriously i would recommend the whole lets be friends comment 3) man i just made myself look like a frickin retard... what was i thinking... this sucks... or if they are an optimist "oh well better luck next time..." 4) HECK YEAH!!!!!5) part of being a guy, or a straight one at least, is noticing women. if you wear something revealing, we will notice even if we try not to. if i can tell what color your underwear is, first of all you arent wearing enough, and secondly, it will be noticed. and for the rest of the day if i see you i will not be able to at least notice it again. if i am having a conversation where i am constantly thinking "don't think about the green bra, dont think about the green bra,..." because she is wearing a semi-translucent shirt, i will think about it. its part of being a guy. i'm not saying it cant be controlled but holy cow it is incredibly easy at church youth group activities to pay attention to the young women as people and not objects because they dress themselves modestly. at school girls feel like if they want the super popularity or the hot guys to notice them ,they should dress "less like a lady." thats my shpeel. thanks for listening. xd
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
