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The Committee Staff Gaian
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 Posted: Tue Nov 21, 2006 10:17 pm
BakaTulip *whimper* Dammit. I'm all confused. I'm really scared as to where my I-don't-even-know-if-it's-a-relationship relationship with Eleanor is going because... I kinda keep initiating things... I was the one who said I liked her... I usually invite her to stuff, though she did invite me to a party... and it's thanksgiving break and I miss her already and I wanna talk to her but I don't want to come across as freakishly overbearing... she said she'd be on AIM but... I never see her on AIM. *rips hair out* If you feel you're coming across as overbearing, then give it a few days and see what happens. If she's not on AIM by Thursday, then consider calling her. Other than that, just daydream. It's the best I can offer you BT.
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Posted: Tue Nov 21, 2006 10:59 pm
Okay, I know like all of you are going to disagree with me on this, but I'm genuinely curious...Can it really be "just a phase" as so many people have said?
Because all those feelings I once had, all those feelings of all this being right and not liking guys, and all that...are just...gone.
I mean, I still think girls are beautiful. <33 But my major crush, as of late, has been on a guy (he's really hot :3), I could really see myself with him, you know? Which seems strange considering I haven't had a crush on a guy since like...forever. And so I'm completely confused, because up until like...September or October, I was certain I was a lesbian, so now I'm just confused beyond reason. o.O;;;
So guys, what do you think? Just a phase? Or something else?
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Posted: Wed Nov 22, 2006 4:09 am
There are eople for whom it IS just a phase.
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Posted: Wed Nov 22, 2006 9:00 am
it may all be a phase or you could be bi ^.^. try thinking back to how long you've been attracted to girls. have you liked girls for a long time? i wuz pretty sure i wuz a lesbian b/c i liked girl since elementarey, so i KNOW it's been hard-wired into my brain since forever XD. do you remember WHY you 1st started liking girls? did you find them pretty? or were you curious about liking them, and started to? were you ever attratced to any guys before that? have you alwayz been attracted to girls and guys? (srry, you may have answered these questions in an earlier post but i've just stopped in 'n i'm too lazy to check XDD). remember, it's okay to bi, 'n even if it turns out you're straight- that's okay too xd . Who knows. Maybe even liking guys is a phase for you lol! Just follow wut your heart tells you 'n don't worry about it ^_^.
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Posted: Wed Nov 22, 2006 8:28 pm
Dream - I agree with Ebie.
BT - I agree with Saknika and Red 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Nov 22, 2006 10:52 pm
Eebie it may all be a phase or you could be bi ^.^. try thinking back to how long you've been attracted to girls. have you liked girls for a long time? i wuz pretty sure i wuz a lesbian b/c i liked girl since elementarey, so i KNOW it's been hard-wired into my brain since forever XD. do you remember WHY you 1st started liking girls? did you find them pretty? or were you curious about liking them, and started to? were you ever attratced to any guys before that? have you alwayz been attracted to girls and guys? (srry, you may have answered these questions in an earlier post but i've just stopped in 'n i'm too lazy to check XDD). remember, it's okay to bi, 'n even if it turns out you're straight- that's okay too xd . Who knows. Maybe even liking guys is a phase for you lol! Just follow wut your heart tells you 'n don't worry about it ^_^. Yeah, I had a mini-crush on my [female] kindergarten teacher. My real "crushing" phase started in middle school and it's... always been girls... neutral And I'm currently madly in love with my girlfriend ^__^. *nods* hardwired over here xd
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Posted: Thu Nov 23, 2006 7:40 am
Happies. I talked to Eleanor on AIM last night but now the prodding has begun. A girl in my dorm a few weeks ago asked me what was going on between her and me and I gave her a definitive, "None-of-your-business." Now my mom asked if we are friends or an item and I told her "Uh...somewhere in between? I don't know?" We've shared a few kisses but that doesn't define anything.
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Posted: Thu Nov 23, 2006 8:32 am
Sounds like you're taking things slow to me BT, and that's always a good thing. biggrin
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The Committee Staff Gaian
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Posted: Thu Nov 23, 2006 9:49 am
Saknika Sounds like you're taking things slow to me BT, and that's always a good thing. biggrin True but it would be nice to know what's between us.
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Posted: Thu Nov 23, 2006 10:54 am
BakaTulip Saknika Sounds like you're taking things slow to me BT, and that's always a good thing. biggrin True but it would be nice to know what's between us.
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Posted: Thu Nov 23, 2006 11:17 am
A.Dream.Within.A.Dream. BakaTulip Saknika Sounds like you're taking things slow to me BT, and that's always a good thing. biggrin True but it would be nice to know what's between us. I will... but... I dunno I'm worried I might be pushing it. Also new random issue: My friend told me yesterday, this ismy best friend ever, she's like my sister even, but she told me she wants to be a dominatrix... the thing is I can oddly see her as one and it's just... odd. I kinda got quiet and I didn't know how to reply and she kinda spelled out the job description and she seems really into it... it's kinda odd.
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Posted: Thu Nov 23, 2006 2:03 pm
Well, my girlfriend left today. She said she needed space for a while... And that she may come back, though she may not... She said that it's most likely she'll come back...
-sigh- Personally, I'm dying from this. And now I'll contantly be waiting for her to return... Atleast I wish I knew for certain if she was staying or going...
It's even worse not knowing...
So, before dinner I was crying, and I'll probably resume crying quite soon.
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Posted: Thu Nov 23, 2006 2:27 pm
Moocat Well, my girlfriend left today. She said she needed space for a while... And that she may come back, though she may not... She said that it's most likely she'll come back... -sigh- Personally, I'm dying from this. And now I'll contantly be waiting for her to return... Atleast I wish I knew for certain if she was staying or going... It's even worse not knowing... So, before dinner I was crying, and I'll probably resume crying quite soon. Dude.. you're letting her use you again. Dont wait around for someone you dont know will come back. You'll just be wasting your time and your emotions. =_=
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Posted: Thu Nov 23, 2006 6:50 pm
AkureiKnight Moocat Well, my girlfriend left today. She said she needed space for a while... And that she may come back, though she may not... She said that it's most likely she'll come back... -sigh- Personally, I'm dying from this. And now I'll contantly be waiting for her to return... Atleast I wish I knew for certain if she was staying or going... It's even worse not knowing... So, before dinner I was crying, and I'll probably resume crying quite soon. Dude.. you're letting her use you again. Dont wait around for someone you dont know will come back. You'll just be wasting your time and your emotions. =_= ;_; She came back and apologized.
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Posted: Thu Nov 23, 2006 7:06 pm
Moocat AkureiKnight Moocat Well, my girlfriend left today. She said she needed space for a while... And that she may come back, though she may not... She said that it's most likely she'll come back... -sigh- Personally, I'm dying from this. And now I'll contantly be waiting for her to return... Atleast I wish I knew for certain if she was staying or going... It's even worse not knowing... So, before dinner I was crying, and I'll probably resume crying quite soon. Dude.. you're letting her use you again. Dont wait around for someone you dont know will come back. You'll just be wasting your time and your emotions. =_= ;_; She came back and apologized. Moo, you gotta break it off. She's just jerking you around and ******** up your emotions. You deserve better than this.
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