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 Posted: Tue Apr 13, 2010 11:00 pm
Dystopian Lover I am 100% comfortable flirting with girls and less than 10% comfortable flirting with guys. I feel like the girls I know understand that I'm straight, and won't misconstrue my flirtation as actual romantic interest, while the second I flirt with a guy friend, no matter how lighthearted or vague, all of a sudden I lose the 'friend' status and gain the 'potential sexual conquest' status. Maybe it's all in my imagination, but it makes keeping IRL guy friends terribly awkward these days. I almost feel like it's not possible to have guy friends unless they're married, and depending on their faithfulness to their wives, even that is questionable. o.o You can flirt with me any day. wink Not that it'd do much. Wouldn't know flirtation if the girl stripped naked D: Stupid aspergers
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Posted: Tue Apr 13, 2010 11:04 pm
Valheita Dystopian Lover I am 100% comfortable flirting with girls and less than 10% comfortable flirting with guys. I feel like the girls I know understand that I'm straight, and won't misconstrue my flirtation as actual romantic interest, while the second I flirt with a guy friend, no matter how lighthearted or vague, all of a sudden I lose the 'friend' status and gain the 'potential sexual conquest' status. Maybe it's all in my imagination, but it makes keeping IRL guy friends terribly awkward these days. I almost feel like it's not possible to have guy friends unless they're married, and depending on their faithfulness to their wives, even that is questionable. o.o You can flirt with me any day. wink Not that it'd do much. Wouldn't know flirtation if the girl stripped naked D: Stupid aspergers Obby. rofl I can never tell either. I'll just be having a conversation with some guy and he'll, out of the blue, whip out some comment like, "So, do you want to come back to my place?" or, if I'm talking to him at work, "So, do you want to come up to my room with me?" ...Awkward. D:
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Nespin Fernagon Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Apr 13, 2010 11:07 pm
Dystopian Lover Valheita Dystopian Lover I am 100% comfortable flirting with girls and less than 10% comfortable flirting with guys. I feel like the girls I know understand that I'm straight, and won't misconstrue my flirtation as actual romantic interest, while the second I flirt with a guy friend, no matter how lighthearted or vague, all of a sudden I lose the 'friend' status and gain the 'potential sexual conquest' status. Maybe it's all in my imagination, but it makes keeping IRL guy friends terribly awkward these days. I almost feel like it's not possible to have guy friends unless they're married, and depending on their faithfulness to their wives, even that is questionable. o.o You can flirt with me any day. wink Not that it'd do much. Wouldn't know flirtation if the girl stripped naked D: Stupid aspergers Obby. rofl I can never tell either. I'll just be having a conversation with some guy and he'll, out of the blue, whip out some comment like, "So, do you want to come back to my place?" or, if I'm talking to him at work, "So, do you want to come up to my room with me?" ...Awkward. D: Arrrgh. ~swats the guys that do that~ Idiots, th' lot of them. Just 'cause a girl is being flirty does NOT mean they actually want to be jumped. Playful is just playful. x.x
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Posted: Tue Apr 13, 2010 11:08 pm
Nespin Fernagon Dystopian Lover Valheita Dystopian Lover I am 100% comfortable flirting with girls and less than 10% comfortable flirting with guys. I feel like the girls I know understand that I'm straight, and won't misconstrue my flirtation as actual romantic interest, while the second I flirt with a guy friend, no matter how lighthearted or vague, all of a sudden I lose the 'friend' status and gain the 'potential sexual conquest' status. Maybe it's all in my imagination, but it makes keeping IRL guy friends terribly awkward these days. I almost feel like it's not possible to have guy friends unless they're married, and depending on their faithfulness to their wives, even that is questionable. o.o You can flirt with me any day. wink Not that it'd do much. Wouldn't know flirtation if the girl stripped naked D: Stupid aspergers Obby. rofl I can never tell either. I'll just be having a conversation with some guy and he'll, out of the blue, whip out some comment like, "So, do you want to come back to my place?" or, if I'm talking to him at work, "So, do you want to come up to my room with me?" ...Awkward. D: Arrrgh. ~swats the guys that do that~ Idiots, th' lot of them. Just 'cause a girl is being flirty does NOT mean they actually want to be jumped. Playful is just playful. x.x I wish more people were as smart as you. That would make my life so much easier. xD
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Nespin Fernagon Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Apr 13, 2010 11:11 pm
Dystopian Lover Nespin Fernagon Dystopian Lover Valheita Dystopian Lover I am 100% comfortable flirting with girls and less than 10% comfortable flirting with guys. I feel like the girls I know understand that I'm straight, and won't misconstrue my flirtation as actual romantic interest, while the second I flirt with a guy friend, no matter how lighthearted or vague, all of a sudden I lose the 'friend' status and gain the 'potential sexual conquest' status. Maybe it's all in my imagination, but it makes keeping IRL guy friends terribly awkward these days. I almost feel like it's not possible to have guy friends unless they're married, and depending on their faithfulness to their wives, even that is questionable. o.o You can flirt with me any day. wink Not that it'd do much. Wouldn't know flirtation if the girl stripped naked D: Stupid aspergers Obby. rofl I can never tell either. I'll just be having a conversation with some guy and he'll, out of the blue, whip out some comment like, "So, do you want to come back to my place?" or, if I'm talking to him at work, "So, do you want to come up to my room with me?" ...Awkward. D: Arrrgh. ~swats the guys that do that~ Idiots, th' lot of them. Just 'cause a girl is being flirty does NOT mean they actually want to be jumped. Playful is just playful. x.x I wish more people were as smart as you. That would make my life so much easier. xD Yay. ... So, wanna come up to my - ~SHOT, TRAMPLED, AND STABBED~
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Posted: Tue Apr 13, 2010 11:14 pm
Nespin Fernagon Dystopian Lover Nespin Fernagon Dystopian Lover Valheita Dystopian Lover I am 100% comfortable flirting with girls and less than 10% comfortable flirting with guys. I feel like the girls I know understand that I'm straight, and won't misconstrue my flirtation as actual romantic interest, while the second I flirt with a guy friend, no matter how lighthearted or vague, all of a sudden I lose the 'friend' status and gain the 'potential sexual conquest' status. Maybe it's all in my imagination, but it makes keeping IRL guy friends terribly awkward these days. I almost feel like it's not possible to have guy friends unless they're married, and depending on their faithfulness to their wives, even that is questionable. o.o You can flirt with me any day. wink Not that it'd do much. Wouldn't know flirtation if the girl stripped naked D: Stupid aspergers Obby. rofl I can never tell either. I'll just be having a conversation with some guy and he'll, out of the blue, whip out some comment like, "So, do you want to come back to my place?" or, if I'm talking to him at work, "So, do you want to come up to my room with me?" ...Awkward. D: Arrrgh. ~swats the guys that do that~ Idiots, th' lot of them. Just 'cause a girl is being flirty does NOT mean they actually want to be jumped. Playful is just playful. x.x I wish more people were as smart as you. That would make my life so much easier. xD Yay. ... So, wanna come up to my - ~SHOT, TRAMPLED, AND STABBED~My hero! <3 *swoons dramatically*
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Posted: Tue Apr 13, 2010 11:20 pm
Dystopian Lover I am 100% comfortable flirting with girls and less than 10% comfortable flirting with guys. I feel like the girls I know understand that I'm straight, and won't misconstrue my flirtation as actual romantic interest, while the second I flirt with a guy friend, no matter how lighthearted or vague, all of a sudden I lose the 'friend' status and gain the 'potential sexual conquest' status. Maybe it's all in my imagination, but it makes keeping IRL guy friends terribly awkward these days. I almost feel like it's not possible to have guy friends unless they're married, and depending on their faithfulness to their wives, even that is questionable. o.o
And yes, for some reason, it's a lot easier to flirt with girls even if I'm a straight. xd I wish I were gay sometimes, I'd probably find it easier than crushing on gay guys.
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Posted: Tue Apr 13, 2010 11:27 pm
Jer0nim0 Dystopian Lover I am 100% comfortable flirting with girls and less than 10% comfortable flirting with guys. I feel like the girls I know understand that I'm straight, and won't misconstrue my flirtation as actual romantic interest, while the second I flirt with a guy friend, no matter how lighthearted or vague, all of a sudden I lose the 'friend' status and gain the 'potential sexual conquest' status. Maybe it's all in my imagination, but it makes keeping IRL guy friends terribly awkward these days. I almost feel like it's not possible to have guy friends unless they're married, and depending on their faithfulness to their wives, even that is questionable. o.o
And yes, for some reason, it's a lot easier to flirt with girls even if I'm a straight. xd I wish I were gay sometimes, I'd probably find it easier than crushing on gay guys.
*foists the yard-boys onto Nim* Take them, I don't want 'em. D: I've definitely wished I was gay, more than once. I feel like that would solve a lot of my problems. My best friend and I have said many, many times that if we ever get tired of men, we could always get together. The sad thing is that I really feel like she and I would be more compatible than myself and any guy I've ever dated or had a crush on. It's a shame we're not attracted to each other. xD
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Posted: Tue Apr 13, 2010 11:32 pm
Dystopian Lover Jer0nim0 Dystopian Lover I am 100% comfortable flirting with girls and less than 10% comfortable flirting with guys. I feel like the girls I know understand that I'm straight, and won't misconstrue my flirtation as actual romantic interest, while the second I flirt with a guy friend, no matter how lighthearted or vague, all of a sudden I lose the 'friend' status and gain the 'potential sexual conquest' status. Maybe it's all in my imagination, but it makes keeping IRL guy friends terribly awkward these days. I almost feel like it's not possible to have guy friends unless they're married, and depending on their faithfulness to their wives, even that is questionable. o.o
And yes, for some reason, it's a lot easier to flirt with girls even if I'm a straight. xd I wish I were gay sometimes, I'd probably find it easier than crushing on gay guys.
*foists the yard-boys onto Nim* Take them, I don't want 'em. D: I've definitely wished I was gay, more than once. I feel like that would solve a lot of my problems. My best friend and I have said many, many times that if we ever get tired of men, we could always get together. The sad thing is that I really feel like she and I would be more compatible than myself and any guy I've ever dated or had a crush on. It's a shame we're not attracted to each other. xD
I take the lonely road of the crazy zookeeper. (I haven't decided what animal I'd take care of, okies? >0>)
Rofl. XD Well. My last best friend that's a girl was back a few years ago when I didn't need to feel that way and crushed on jerks, and my last best friend was a guy who crushed on me somehow and we were asshats to each other about that, so I don't think I've ever had that kind of convo. Sounds true for almost any girl friendship though. D:
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Posted: Tue Apr 13, 2010 11:37 pm
Jer0nim0 Dystopian Lover Jer0nim0 Dystopian Lover I am 100% comfortable flirting with girls and less than 10% comfortable flirting with guys. I feel like the girls I know understand that I'm straight, and won't misconstrue my flirtation as actual romantic interest, while the second I flirt with a guy friend, no matter how lighthearted or vague, all of a sudden I lose the 'friend' status and gain the 'potential sexual conquest' status. Maybe it's all in my imagination, but it makes keeping IRL guy friends terribly awkward these days. I almost feel like it's not possible to have guy friends unless they're married, and depending on their faithfulness to their wives, even that is questionable. o.o
And yes, for some reason, it's a lot easier to flirt with girls even if I'm a straight. xd I wish I were gay sometimes, I'd probably find it easier than crushing on gay guys.
*foists the yard-boys onto Nim* Take them, I don't want 'em. D: I've definitely wished I was gay, more than once. I feel like that would solve a lot of my problems. My best friend and I have said many, many times that if we ever get tired of men, we could always get together. The sad thing is that I really feel like she and I would be more compatible than myself and any guy I've ever dated or had a crush on. It's a shame we're not attracted to each other. xD
I take the lonely road of the crazy zookeeper. (I haven't decided what animal I'd take care of, okies? >0>)
Rofl. XD Well. My last best friend that's a girl was back a few years ago when I didn't need to feel that way and crushed on jerks, and my last best friend was a guy who crushed on me somehow and we were asshats to each other about that, so I don't think I've ever had that kind of convo. Sounds true for almost any girl friendship though. D:
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Posted: Tue Apr 13, 2010 11:44 pm
Dystopian Lover The sad thing is that I really feel like she and I would be more compatible than myself and any guy I've ever dated or had a crush on. It's a shame we're not attracted to each other. xD Doesn't Dys have a boyfriend? o.O *imagines his heart breaking*
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Posted: Tue Apr 13, 2010 11:50 pm
Valheita Dystopian Lover The sad thing is that I really feel like she and I would be more compatible than myself and any guy I've ever dated or had a crush on. It's a shame we're not attracted to each other. xD Doesn't Dys have a boyfriend? o.O *imagines his heart breaking* He'd probably agree with me. He and I get along very very well, but sometimes he just makes me want to pull his hair out, make a rope out of it, and use it to hang him. Can't say I've had that particular brand of homicidal rage when it comes to my best friend. xD
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Posted: Wed Apr 14, 2010 12:08 am
I just realized why they call this Post Secrets. rofl
Man, do I feel like a dumbass right now. xP
I just read those the other day too.
It wasn't a good day for my status. sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Apr 14, 2010 12:46 am
Creas keito melfina Kamdage Dystopian Lover Kamdage I wish my family would just be happy with the fact im alive and not dead instead of wanting me to press charges ,i know they care but i wish they could place themselves in my shoes for a second and know how i feel I feel like I've missed something major here, but I'm sorry for whatever happened. :/ *hugs* *hugs back* Just an accident i got into on saturday morning@Sikh- i know but i just want to have some peace for atleast a week in my lifeCar accident? *hugs* I don't like the rants my dad does when I'm doing hw late at night. Just be damn glad I'm doing it in the first place... I'm kinda hurt when he says" Idk what to do w/ you". If he wants to get rid of me, I'll do it myself and berid myself from this earth. Don't commit suicide. We'd miss you. That^ Always think about friends and people who care about you 3nodding *hugs* @Mickey- does he drink rum?nah i get you our old IT teacher only knew basic stuff in school[How to use MS word and excel]when it came images,gifs,editing or working on big projects it was fail gonk i think its spreading gonk
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Posted: Wed Apr 14, 2010 3:40 am
Creas keito melfina Creas keito melfina Lol ok. After telling so many friends at school I liked guys... I'm more loved because I had the courage to admit it o_o A few shocked responses at first, then the still accepted me as a friend. If I don't tell, then that signals I'm still scared to DX The only people I've been telling are girls (well most if not all are). Well, aren't you a tad nervous at least? Got advice from Ungoliath not to do it in Profile comment... since I never thought of the high risks on friendship (I know he is totally straight) but I"m too stupid not to consider that Josh could get pretty hurt by it... damnit now I'm in mental turmoil again crying Well if he's the only one that sees/hears/youknowwhatthehellimean the confession how could it hurt him? I thought about telling him during class (but totally forgot I had Facebook and PMIng). But after all those dreams I had on possible consequences... it made me think twice o_o I just rememberd, I did it to one guy before (told him I liked him while I was in CA), and he was pretty cool w/ it (but didn't like me back so it's all good)... maybe it was the fact I was 3000 miles away from him that he was so calm... oh well I'll never know now. @Kam: thanks ^_^ Everyone is needing hugs, all my friends are getting depressed from betrayals and such crying
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