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 Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:25 am
Wait till they are BOTH there. Sure, if you didn't wait you'd have one half of the worry down. But then your mother would also worry about his reaction. Better to have them both there at once.
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:32 am
Lovely. My dad gets back on the seventh... things to tell them when he gets here:
1) I'm neither christian,
2) nor straight.
3) I'm not a guy, either, i'm actually
4) a girl, and pursuing a gender correction surgery.
5) and this has all been the case for years now.((well. I have known i liked guys for years. I've never had a time when i didn't dream as a girl, and wish to be one))
6) and everyone knows but you...
>.>
Can someone save me from this conversation...i'm scared.... I've always been scared though... that's why i've waited this long.
they were in tears when my sis told them she was agnostic...and they yelled at her...and said mean things.
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:35 am
well I could give you the solace of know that if I had my license I'd drive down there and sit right next to you through the whole thing -huggles- and possibly deck your father and just go verbally ape s**t on them >.>
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:37 am
aww. *hugs back*
but this conversation... and my parents are conservative christian, and think that I am too... and... and ... whaaa. *pouts*
as for your edit... i still love dad, so be nice okay?
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:38 am
-kisses- once again I would defend you tooth and nail love ^^ even if I had to go to prison for assault charges because someones parents were blind fools....sorry I just don't like it when people act like there better when there really not ^^" and not to worry I wouldn't hurt him too much just a more of a 'knock some sense into you punch'
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:41 am
I wouldn't hit anyone, but if I could, and if Moni could, we'd both be there for you. As it is, I know this: it's human nature to deny reality when reality isn't what we like or believe. Your parents will be mad. Your parents might well rant and scream and be rude. But remember this: They will accept you. It will take time, it will take a lot of tears. But you are their child, and they will accept you eventually. I'm sorry I can't give you better advice or words of care than that >.<<********, man, I'm tired. Words are blurring on my screen. I just finished several things, and I've got to say, I am BEAT. Anyway, I set up some rosters, primarily the Shinigami this time. Tomorrow I'll work on a roster for the Residents of Hueco Mundo.
With that all said, remember this. At the very least, Aria, you have Moni, Tenchi, and I who support you. Hon, I'm sure, does. And we'll all defend you to the death
of the assholes attacking you should it come to that. So feel safe here, and know you have supporting friends.
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:42 am
my dad is pretty well built though.... he was less than my age when i was born, too... so he's not that old either... My dad also has a high level black belt....and has demonstrated said skills before.
*kisses back*
thank you guys. You are all amazing.
Oh! thank you lan, have a great night, sleep well, dream well, wake rested. Talk to you tomorrow dearest!
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:47 am
You'd be surprised how strong people can get when there defending someone they care about love -hugs tight but not painfully so- That and I'm a pretty big guy myself but I will only resort to hitting if he goes to far otherwise it'll just be verbal beatings coming from me -kisses cheek-
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:47 am
Aria. I gotta tell you. The first time I met you, I called you "her" thinking you were a woman. Then you told me you're male, so I switched to "him". Now its back to "her." Please accept that I might slip now and then for the next week. After 7 days, it'll never happen again.
Anyway, all ya'll get ready for tomorrow. Work on your characters, your forums, etc. I'll write up our story for everyone to see tomorrow, as well as do rosters.
Now, I fricken love you all, but I need to sleep. Goodnight @.@ Sleep well and dream sweet, guys and girl!
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:50 am
Black belts don't bode
well against machetes.
XD I kid. I kid. No
seriously. It will be fine.
And even if they don't understand.
They are parents, they aren't
suppose too. But they love you.
Just remember that. Even if they
say things, they don't mean them,
okay? They are just, confused, scared,
misinformed. And I am apologizing
ahead of time for anything they might
say. Just breath and know THEY LOVE
YOU TO NO END. Parents are stubborn,
and they take a long time to get it. They
will.
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:53 am
Thank you... I'm sorry for confusing you lan. I was at an awkward phase back then... i know that's dumb. It's a terrible excuse, but I used to live in the bible belt, and i usually go for the option that's less likely to get me sworn at... I didn't really know you as well back then, and i wasn't all that aware of other things too. I've had people hurl bricks at me from pick up trucks... so please forgive me.
I also was not aware of transgenderism at all, since it's not something a lot of people in texas talk about. I just thought that i was really girly. I mean, everyone called me girly, even then... but i didn't know.
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I knew Monica~sama was still here. I thought it as soon as i saw the phraise guys, and girl. lol. *hugs*
you all are amazing people. When you get your license, ten, you should totally drive down here.
(the offer is there for the rest of you, too... but i know he's in the state right above me. And i'm 20 minutes from the Washington border.)
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:57 am
*Sneaks on* No apologies necessary. At all. Apologize again and I'll flick your nose >=( I accept you for who you are, as I would have had back then. It isn't your fault you didn't know me.
Oh. Spoiler alert. Aiden MacLeod from the Harry Potter guild is in this guild, and he's how Vizards are being created.
*sneaks back off after casually groping Moni*
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:59 am
[deep rant from tenshi] I think lan stated this earlier but humans naturally fear and reject what they don't understand but if given enough time and incentive they will come to accept it. Since your parents have no idea what your going through there going to naturally fear it and reject it but will eventually come to accept it and since they are, in fact, your parents they have something genetically hardwired in there mind that tells them to accept it and love you for who you are[/deep rant from tenshi]
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 3:02 am
thank you. *hugs*
They just scare me sometimes. There the kind of people who don't let you defend yourself when you're in trouble...and then they'll give you like a 20 second window to speak...and if you use it, they reject your words as excuses, and tell you what they think is REALLY going on in your head... So this conversation seems really scary to me.
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