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Intellectual Conversationalist
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 Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 10:48 pm
*grins, lowering his eyelids a bit*
Mzilst bronretla
*giggles and takes a sip of his brandy before returning to his seat*
He decided to sleep in for a bit this isto whee How have things been with you? Quite well, I hope.
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 10:54 pm
-refrains from chuckling and grins at Ryzan- That good, eh? -gives him a knowing look-
I've been pretty good. School is going along swimmingly. 3nodding Flame must be out in the field, he hasn't returned my texts for a coupla days now. 3nodding ^_^
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 11:06 pm
Perhaps whee wink
I am glad your schooling is going well. It must be difficult to be separated from Flame for extended periods of time especially just after "making up", as you say... rilu'oh that is something about him that cannot so easily be changed. It seems the time that the two of you do happen to get together you tend to both enjoy greatly at least.
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 11:14 pm
Thank you. I'm glad I like all my classes. ^_^
^_^ heart I do, I really do. whee And...it's much easier now when he's gone because I'm not worrying about our relationship falling apart. 3nodding And, like any person, I have my down moments where I despair over him not being by my side, but I get over them. Overall it is much easier. 3nodding I am...at peace, as it were. -nods then takes a sip of cocoa-
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 11:19 pm
That is bwael to hear~ It certainly will make it mzilt easier to better pace yourself in the relationship as well.
It was rather difficult for me to handle being separated from m'ranndii when he left our world and also when he went through that ordeal a few months ago when he "kidnapped" you sweatdrop Hopefully such a thing will not be happening again.
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 11:28 pm
^_^ Thank you. I'm still getting a feel for what "taking it slow" really means, but I am most certainly willing to learn. heart Especially if that is what Flame wants and if it is what will lengthen and strengthen our relationship. 3nodding
sweatdrop Oh yes, especially since you both feel like truly married peoples...that would not be fun to endure, especially if the reasonings or parameters of it were not wholly up to both of you. I imagine it is and could be quite jarring. sweatdrop It is most difficult to have someone that is a constant in your life suddenly become not a constant. sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 11:57 pm
Ves mizlt ji sweatdrop When he left our world, I had thought I would never see him again and that made it rather unbearable at first even though we were not in an intimate relationship. He was just always there since we were children. We may have been separated on a number of occasions, jhal I always knew we would see each other again.
After becoming lovers, the separation caused a certain lonely feeling unlike before. To fall asleep and wake up next to someone everyday for some time and becoming accustomed to their scent and their warmth always being near you... and then to not have it anymore makes it feel like there is a part of you missing.
*takes a drink of his brandy*
"Taking it slow" will mean something different for every relationship. To some, it would mean not engaging in sexual activities, though I am sure it is mzilt too late for that option for you. *giggles* Rilu'oh, it could also mean having more moderation in that aspect of the relationship. There is also keeping to your separate abodes rather than living together. When you spend more time at each other's homes than you spend alone at your own, then you are practically living together.
In a sense, it almost universally means to have lower expectations. To some, that may sound rather unfavorable, jhal having high expectations for your partner puts a lot of responsibility on their shoulders to try to fulfill what you are asking of them. Gradually as your relationship builds, the both of you will become more ready and willing to handle these responsibilities. Expecting too mzilt from the beginning can cause many unpleasant feelings between both partners: one for being asked to do more than they are ready for and the other for not receiving what they feel they deserved.
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Posted: Fri Jan 14, 2011 12:33 am
-dame sips her cocoa while listening to Ryzan's sage words. Once he is finished, she stares forward, past her cup and speaks softly- Aye, that is how one-sided relationships form, where one person is in love, and the other one isn't. -she looks down into her cup and sighs, shoulders slumping slightly- Some people don't know how to pace themselves or moderation.
-looks back up, straightens shoulders and takes a sip of cocoa- That only causes someone constantly waiting on the other one to catch up. Rarely do they ever meet at the same place at the same time. -gives a curt nod and drinks some more cocoa-
-looks over at Ryzan- Flame and I have been "going out" or "together" for about six months now or so. Maybe a little longer. :/ -stares down at the frothy recesses of the cocoa- But we have spent as little as about two months of that time together. neutral
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Posted: Fri Jan 14, 2011 1:38 am
I certainly have quite a bit of experience in one-sided love sweatdrop In my case, it happened to eventually "work out", as they say.... rilu'oh, it took about nine centuries for m'ranndii to "catch up", as you say...
Because of the separation between the two of you, while on one hand it makes it easier to "take it slow", it also makes it mzild important to do so. You must remember not to lose sight of the reality of your relationship during times when you are together and keep in mind that you are not quite as "close" as a couple that spent six months seeing each other almost daily. Nor must you overextend and exaggerate your emotion when you do see each other. Try to think of your relationship mzild on terms of actual closeness rather than how close you believe you should be or you want to be.
There is nothing wrong with not having opportunity to see each other if that is how his lifestyle makes things and if you are willing and believe it is worth it to try to adapt to these periods of separation, then it will work just fine. He certainly cannot just change his lifestyle every time he wishes to get involved with someone, especially if it is something he has done for quite some time.
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Posted: Fri Jan 14, 2011 1:44 am
-stares back down at her cocoa- Aye. And I wouldn't want him to change it just for me.
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Posted: Fri Jan 14, 2011 1:53 am
I am certain the relationship between the both of you will be just fine if you are both able to think of how mzilt you mean to each other in realistic terms rather than idealistic. When one starts thinking of their relationship idealistically, then it can create complications.
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Posted: Fri Jan 14, 2011 1:56 am
-dame sighs and sips her cocoa-
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Posted: Fri Jan 14, 2011 2:18 am
*makes his way upstairs and into the main bar area. He gives dame and slight wave.*
um... morning? *checks his watch* ... yeah... morning.
*walks up to Ryzan for a moment and kisses the back of his head, staying there a bit to smell his hair ninja , then goes behind the counter to start making a steamer*
Got some early morning business or something, dame?
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Posted: Fri Jan 14, 2011 2:26 am
No...I just don't have any classes until the afternoon...and I'm off from B.A.R.C... neutral Why? confused -notices Tes kiss Ryzan on the back of the head and then go to the espresso machine- neutral
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Posted: Fri Jan 14, 2011 2:31 am
whee heart
Fair dame has actually been here the entire isto.
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