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 Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 12:06 pm
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 12:27 pm
- bites into Alex's leg -
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 12:42 pm
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 12:44 pm
Highlight for rant:
Okay so there's this guy from the FFVII guild that I kinda had a crush on. A crush. Eventually it got to where he wanted to come out here to see me so that we could get together.
A few things bugged me though. He's like...20 and I'm only 16...I'd rather have someone closer to my age. Then, I don't think I could trust anyone with my address to come out here to see me...you never know...I just wouldn't feel safe doing that. My cousin and brother agreed with me.
But then there's this guy that I like, who I actually know (he lives really close too). I haven't seen him in a few years, but we've talked through email and such, and through my best friend. So I mentioned to the guy online who liked me that there was this other guy...and this is after I told him that it would never be possible for me to see him due to myself and my parents.
Apparently he didn't get what I was trying to tell him. crying
So last night he PMs me saying that he's got his sights on a female friend of his. I said that it was cool, and that I was getting my sights on the other guy too.
But then I find out he was just saying that to see how I would react. stare
So everything blew up last night, and he said I was like all the other women he had been with, where they'd use him and then move on to the next person. He figured that I had only started thinking that way because I was either bored with him or found the other guy hotter or whatever.
And apparently, my friend was telling this guy some of this stuff...she's the reason he asked me anyway...although she really didn't mean it...I wish she wouldn't talk about stuff like that to him. It was also her idea for me and the online guy to meet up here, and I really didn't like it when she said that, because it was like, without my consent, y'know? neutral
I eventually apologized, though I feel I shouldn't have. Because now he thinks I'm just confused with life...and I'm really not. I found that I get a fluttery feeling when I think of the guy who I know IRL, and not with the guy online...and my friend said that the fluttery feeling means I really, really like the IRL guy...
So now I'm lost and confused and don't know how to say this to the guy online... gonk The way I worded that probably made no sense...but oh well... gonk
(just don't tell anyone out of the guild ninja )
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 12:50 pm
(Taylor here) So due to that controversy, I'm going to lay low and use a different avi for now. I think my Cid avi would be too suspicious. sweatdrop
ninja
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 12:55 pm
>.>
Don't get involved with people online that you've never met, unless a close friend know's them in real life, or you know them in real life. Or they are verified by a dating service and Dr. Phil
8D
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 12:59 pm
Juliet Erika Daae >.> Don't get involved with people online that you've never met, unless a close friend know's them in real life, or you know them in real life. Or they are verified by a dating service and Dr. Phil 8D
Unless...I just grow distant from him...but then I tried that and he was all, "Why are you ignoring me?" and all that... rolleyes
Highlight:But y'know...there was this other guy online who said he loved me. I never thought of going to meet him but y'know...we just really liked each other.
Then he left Gaia for a while, comes back and says, "Oh...I have a girlfriend now."
So...I can't trust anyone after that. And I'd much rather give someone a try that I know IRL than online. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 1:02 pm
Don't lay low. o.o Why be afraid of somebody over the internet? Take control of your life and tell him a) you're not comfortable with seeing him, b) you no longer have interest in him, and c) you'd appreciate it if he'd screw off.
Sometimes you've gotta sound fierce and / or angry to get people to listen. If he's only been contacting via PM, the ignore list is also a good choice. Many gaians forget that we have one of those.
*my two cents*
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 1:03 pm
say you've contracted some terrible disease, or just tell him the truth.
He's and older boy, and you met him online. What came up between he and your friend was a bit of a misunderstanding, and it's not that you don't like or appricate him it's just that your cautious, and if he likes you as much as he says he does he should understand where your coming from.
In today's world it's hard to trust anyone on the internet, because well in truth they could be someone completely different. again your just being cautious, and honestly, if someone lives closer to you and you've known them for longer your gonna trust them more >.>
edit: or what Alex said >.>
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 1:05 pm
Alex: It's not that I'm laying low or afraid...I just need a break in general from the drama (as it says in TH's sig).
Plus this gives my other avis a chance to earn some gold. ninja
Juliet: Yeah I completely understand. 3nodding I'm just going to have to figure out how to tell him this stuff without hurting him...I know I probably shouldn't have remorse but...I just feel bad doing that to others...like letting them down kinda. sweatdrop
But I know...it's not safe. xp I really wish I hadn't gotten caught up in this anyway. crying
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 1:07 pm
Antell Bordeaux Alex: It's not that I'm laying low or afraid...I just need a break in general from the drama (as it says in TH's sig).
Plus this gives my other avis a chance to earn some gold. ninja
Juliet: Yeah I completely understand. 3nodding I'm just going to have to figure out how to tell him this stuff without hurting him...I know I probably shouldn't have remorse but...I just feel bad doing that to others...like letting them down kinda. sweatdrop
But I know...it's not safe. xp I really wish I hadn't gotten caught up in this anyway. crying >.> alter ny post rofl
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 1:08 pm
Juliet Erika Daae Antell Bordeaux Alex: It's not that I'm laying low or afraid...I just need a break in general from the drama (as it says in TH's sig).
Plus this gives my other avis a chance to earn some gold. ninja
Juliet: Yeah I completely understand. 3nodding I'm just going to have to figure out how to tell him this stuff without hurting him...I know I probably shouldn't have remorse but...I just feel bad doing that to others...like letting them down kinda. sweatdrop
But I know...it's not safe. xp I really wish I hadn't gotten caught up in this anyway. crying >.> alter ny post rofl
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 1:14 pm
Question for Meri: Okay you know how sometimes people post and they put an image of like...an avatar in the post (like we did at Juliet's ball)? Are we allowed to do that in here? sweatdrop
I was just wondering, because I thought it'd be cool if I did that with the avi that looks exactly like my IRL self. blaugh
But if not that's okay. ninja
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 1:16 pm
Taylor: So long as you're not promoting another shop or trying to sell it, it's perfectly fine. :o
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 1:21 pm
Okay cool, because I wouldn't be promoting or trying to sell it.
But I'll go get the avi later...I'm too lazy. xp
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