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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 1:53 pm
@Raven: Something similar happened to me, only it was with a friend's uncle. She was only 5 years old, though, so she wouldn't understand if I told her. I doubt anyone from her family has told her about it, either. My parents and hers were mutual friends, and we'd go over to their house every week. Her uncle started taking an interest in me, and it started out as just playing video games in his room, or using his computer to check Gaia while I was over there. Then it turned into sexual abuse, and it continued for a few years. He only raped me once, but the sexual abuse happened more often than not. He took my virginity, he took my first kiss, he took everything away me.
I was so uncomfortable around him when our two families went out for public outtings. He would always try to sit next to me, cop a feel, or just smile at me so creepily.. I hated it. I finally managed to tell my parents, but it wasn't planned, it just.. sort of happened, at my friend's ballet recital. I didn't call the police on him because my friend's father asked me not but.. her father and my father assured me that they took him to the woods and beat his a** senseless. That was enough for me.. Even after all he did, I just couldn't break up their family. He received a beating of his lifetime, he got his punishment. I believe he's not allowed to be around children, either, the last time I heard. I know for a fact he won't hurt my friend. Messing with her is like asking to be killed, so I know she's safe as well.
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 2:04 pm
Life likes throwing wrenches at anything I try to do. o.o
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 2:44 pm
@ Kuro. ~Hugs~ He also took away my virginity. Thats good that they beat his a**, and great he can never be anywhere near children and that your friend is safe. I didn't want the police called, But the school had to do it. I'm glad that my auntie and her husband never had any children together. The only other family members that have children is my mothers sister and they won't have him there either. I can't wait for the day when he dies. Hopefully a slow painful one. He is an alcoholic so I shouldn't be waiting too many years longer.
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 2:50 pm
Fortune: Do you still have those symptoms? If so, I can help. o3oRaven dragonfire-Divinity I was raped. It continued on for years. Until I had to do something. My sister had arrived into the world, And I did not want her to go through what I did. I had to protect her. I didn't know if he would do the same thing to her. I told a close friend. She helped me go to the school counsellor. I stayed at a friends house, Because he was staying where I was living. The police came around. They sent a MALE officer. I had to describe in detail what he did to me to the male officer. I didn't want to, I hated it. I told my mum what he did to me. She didn't believe me. Which really hurt. "He never tried doing anything to me, so you are lieing." Which was her response. "I'm taking you to the doctors, and having your sheets tested for sperm." I refused to go. She didn't believe me so why should I have to prove what that sick son of a b***h did to me. She ran home and told my stepfather.. He believed me, Mum wouldn't hear a word of it.
Mum told my grandparents as well. Someone then told the wife what he did. She said He wouldn't do that. He beats her and yet the idiot still stands by him. You get what you deserve! Yet you all wonder why I hate you with so much ******** passion?
After they left and My stepfather told me he will never be welcome at home, I went home. Mum refused to speak to me.
All that crap somehow got around my school. I was called an "Uncle ********".
Tried commiting suicide. At least over the years I have left a lot of my past behind.
One part of my ******** up life. ...So you're raped by your uncle for years, and kids at school think it's appropriate to call you "Uncle ******** horrifying that so many people can be that insensitive. Your mother's retarded, too. You have absolutely no reason to lie about something like that, yet she and the guy's wife still side with him even though he beats her?
Is there sufficient evidence to throw this guy in jail...?
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 2:56 pm
Foam-Dome Fortune: Do you still have those symptoms? If so, I can help. o3o
Huh? How? ._.
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 2:58 pm
Little Miss Fortune Foam-Dome Fortune: Do you still have those symptoms? If so, I can help. o3o
Huh? How? ._.He'll drug you! WATCH OUT! (but seriously if you feel really unwell you should REST! and then if it doesn't go away while resting over the weekend go see the doctor scream )
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 2:59 pm
Cannibal Horsey Little Miss Fortune Foam-Dome Fortune: Do you still have those symptoms? If so, I can help. o3o
Huh? How? ._.He'll drug you! WATCH OUT! (but seriously if you feel really unwell you should REST! and then if it doesn't go away while resting over the weekend go see the doctor scream )
SLEEP IS FOR THE WEAK D< Alex is supposedly going to be on soon, so I wanna wait up. And I have lots of plans this weekend, so it won't be much of a break from the hell that is the school week. Maybe I can sleep next weekend... XD
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 3:04 pm
Raven dragonfire-Divinity @ Kuro. ~Hugs~ He also took away my virginity. Thats good that they beat his a**, and great he can never be anywhere near children and that your friend is safe. I didn't want the police called, But the school had to do it. I'm glad that my auntie and her husband never had any children together. The only other family members that have children is my mothers sister and they won't have him there either. I can't wait for the day when he dies. Hopefully a slow painful one. He is an alcoholic so I shouldn't be waiting too many years longer. My school had called CPS but was told that in order for anything to happen, I have to go to the police personally. I didn't want to do that. At that point, it'd been a few years since we've been over to their house and I just didn't want to deal with it anymore. I put that all behind me. I don't really know what's become of him at this point, or if he even still lives with them or not. I can only hope that he never does this to someone again.
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 3:08 pm
Little Miss Fortune Cannibal Horsey Little Miss Fortune Foam-Dome Fortune: Do you still have those symptoms? If so, I can help. o3o
Huh? How? ._.He'll drug you! WATCH OUT! (but seriously if you feel really unwell you should REST! and then if it doesn't go away while resting over the weekend go see the doctor scream )
SLEEP IS FOR THE WEAK D< Alex is supposedly going to be on soon, so I wanna wait up. And I have lots of plans this weekend, so it won't be much of a break from the hell that is the school week. Maybe I can sleep next weekend... XDTrue... you sound like me XD I don't stop anything for being ill. I was really ill for like 5 weeks (with this cough from hell) and every week I went to work they'd be like "You should be at home in bed!" and I was all like "But I have to come to work O.O". POWER ON GIRL! POWER ON! (take some medicine for it, like ibuprofen or paracetamol or something though, if you aren't already)
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 3:12 pm
Cannibal Horsey Little Miss Fortune SLEEP IS FOR THE WEAK D< Alex is supposedly going to be on soon, so I wanna wait up. And I have lots of plans this weekend, so it won't be much of a break from the hell that is the school week. Maybe I can sleep next weekend... XD True... you sound like me XD I don't stop anything for being ill. I was really ill for like 5 weeks (with this cough from hell) and every week I went to work they'd be like "You should be at home in bed!" and I was all like "But I have to come to work O.O". POWER ON GIRL! POWER ON! (take some medicine for it, like ibuprofen or paracetamol or something though, if you aren't already)
That's how I am with school. It's like staying home isn't even an option XD I took three Ibuprofens and they didn't work instantly so I was like D< and took another. I feel kind of okay now, and I was able to eat, so ^^ <333333
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 3:16 pm
Little Miss Fortune Foam-Dome Fortune: Do you still have those symptoms? If so, I can help. o3o
Huh? How? ._.Because I can kill illnesses in a day. :3 For that sore throat, take three tablespoons of honey, one teaspoon of straight lemon juice, and one cup of water. Mix and gargle. If you spread that Vick's Vapo-Rub stuff on your feet, wrap them, and put socks on before you sleep, then you'll wake up with no cough. I hate the smell of it... XD So I can never put it on my chest or back, because I'll never fall asleep. But I was like, "It's not just the vapors that help... it's the stuff that gets absorbed that ultimately helps the most..." So I put it on my feet, because your feet absorb a lot... Woke up with no cough. Everyone I've told to try it has told me it works. Zinc and Echinacea will cure you right up. As soon as you feel like you're gonna get a cold, eat some pumpkin seeds and take some Echinacea tabs, or get a non-caffeine energy drink with it... Drink lots of hot fluids, stay warm to the point of sweating for as much as you can tolerate it, and you may not even see the brunt of it. If you don't have a ton of pillows to elevate yourself with, like most people, just take two pillows and put them between the box spring and the mattress, to have a more gradual incline... Then use your normal amount of pillows. When you blow your nose, don't blow it through both nostrils, either. It causes a blowback and you can get ear infections from the virus being pushed back into your ears. XD Gross as it is, it's something to keep in mind. *nods* (I've given this exact spiel verbatim to so many people... XD)
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 3:21 pm
I don't even have a lot of that stuff... I can tough it out D<
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 3:25 pm
Little Miss Fortune I don't even have a lot of that stuff... I can tough it out D< Well damn. D: You don't have any foods that are high in zinc?
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 3:27 pm
Foam-Dome Little Miss Fortune I don't even have a lot of that stuff... I can tough it out D< Well damn. D: You don't have any foods that are high in zinc?
Idk. What foods have zinc in them? =3
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 3:30 pm
Little Miss Fortune Cannibal Horsey Little Miss Fortune SLEEP IS FOR THE WEAK D< Alex is supposedly going to be on soon, so I wanna wait up. And I have lots of plans this weekend, so it won't be much of a break from the hell that is the school week. Maybe I can sleep next weekend... XD True... you sound like me XD I don't stop anything for being ill. I was really ill for like 5 weeks (with this cough from hell) and every week I went to work they'd be like "You should be at home in bed!" and I was all like "But I have to come to work O.O". POWER ON GIRL! POWER ON! (take some medicine for it, like ibuprofen or paracetamol or something though, if you aren't already)
That's how I am with school. It's like staying home isn't even an option XD I took three Ibuprofens and they didn't work instantly so I was like D< and took another. I feel kind of okay now, and I was able to eat, so ^^ <333333I was like that when I used to go to school as well... If I'm really ill (or hungover sweatdrop ) I won't go to uni. But our lectures where put online so it's not a biggy if you miss a day XD Edit : Bananas have zinc in them
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