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 Posted: Thu Aug 11, 2005 11:21 am
you're not getting them here! I don't need to be kicked out of gaia!
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Posted: Thu Aug 11, 2005 8:04 pm
LibidinalCatharsis so we might do the real thing on saturday... cool I'm a little nervous, it'll be my first time... but I can't wait. I love her so much and I'm glad I found a person that I can plan a life with and everything. I'm so glad she's the person I can share this kind of stuff with. Awww, that's so cute ^___^ PS: details are not necissary *glances at kohki*
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Posted: Thu Aug 11, 2005 9:04 pm
LibidinalCatharsis you're not getting them here! I don't need to be kicked out of gaia! Pay no attention to the perve behind the curtain. pirate
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Posted: Thu Aug 11, 2005 9:05 pm
Fadia Stalyr LibidinalCatharsis you're not getting them here! I don't need to be kicked out of gaia! Pay no attention to the perve behind the curtain. pirate Hey!
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Posted: Thu Aug 11, 2005 9:08 pm
neoncode Fadia Stalyr LibidinalCatharsis you're not getting them here! I don't need to be kicked out of gaia! Pay no attention to the perve behind the curtain. pirate Hey! Not you silly boy! rolleyes
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Posted: Thu Aug 11, 2005 9:14 pm
Fadia Stalyr neoncode Fadia Stalyr LibidinalCatharsis you're not getting them here! I don't need to be kicked out of gaia! Pay no attention to the perve behind the curtain. pirate Hey! Not you silly boy! rolleyes Oh, ok! razz
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2005 6:10 am
You're so young . . . I'm going to sound like a parent on this, but there's a reason all of my friends ask me for advice; I'm wise beyond my years and give advice that always works out for the better, may the be the long run or right away.
Wait on sex. I'm aware there's no risk of pregnancy, but that is not why I tell you to wait. I tell you to wait because you are so young, and you may regret this decision later on down the road. I know someone who had sex at a young age, and now they are embarassed everytime the subject comes up and act uneasy at even the mention of sex. I would wait until you are at least 18 or 19, when you have all of your thoughts together and are out of High School.
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2005 9:42 am
Karnell You're so young . . . I'm going to sound like a parent on this, but there's a reason all of my friends ask me for advice; I'm wise beyond my years and give advice that always works out for the better, may the be the long run or right away. Wait on sex. I'm aware there's no risk of pregnancy, but that is not why I tell you to wait. I tell you to wait because you are so young, and you may regret this decision later on down the road. I know someone who had sex at a young age, and now they are embarassed everytime the subject comes up and act uneasy at even the mention of sex. I would wait until you are at least 18 or 19, when you have all of your thoughts together and are out of High School. I kinda agrre w/ what your saying but i gotta say: 1. redface My first time was less than 1/2 a month after i turned 17, and i was totaly sh*t-faced. redface So when it comes to being a speaker for abstanance, don't listen to me. 2. Even though (that) happened, I have no problem talking about it with people, i mean i would rather have had it happen diffrently, but i hard to learn the hard way that sex really wasn't just a toy. Ok, i'm done ranting...*curls up in fuzzy blankie to watch everyone else discuss while i nibble on a pop-tart*
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2005 11:20 pm
It's a good point to take into consideration 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Aug 14, 2005 12:14 am
well... first of all... I AM eighteen... lol.
second... while she is only fifteen... she's FAR from being a virgin. VERY VERY VERY FAR. lolx2 lol
We're both very open, and we communicate. The whole waiting on sex thing is a good idea, but that's because sex changes everything. HOWEVER, when you have a very deep relationship like this, it doesn't change much at all. The way I've always looked at it was this:
if you're close enough to that person that you've been naked in front of them spiritually and emotionally, then you can be naked in front of them physically. We've talked about sex so many times, sometimes casually, sometimes just joking around, and sometimes we've been serious. Before we even went out, we decided we would wait on the sex, and we waited three months, which doesn't seem like a long time, but it has been an eternity.
We've both talked in great detail about what we want our first time together to be like. We've decided that there is a huge difference between making love and... well... F*cking, if you can forgive my language. In any case... we, of course, want to make love.
Anyway, as long as you know that love comes first and that sex is not the be all and end all of a relationship, then you're probably ready. You kind of just know, though. It really just has a lot to do with personal maturity. Some people reach mental adulthood long before they reach it physically.
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Posted: Sun Aug 14, 2005 12:28 am
Now that I've gotten that out of the way... I'm going to explain some things that may or may not gross some of you out. I'm keeping this PG 13, but you kinda need to know to turn away if you find it necessary. So here it goes:
This morning I found out I had started my period. So that ended any notion I had of her doing anything to me... (ew!)
So we were on my bed and we were making out, and things were getting really really heavy. To the point where she was trying to quiet me down, I mean it was SO intense.
I practically had to beg her to let me umm... "go down," but I did finally convince her. I loved being down there and everything, and knowing that I was pleasing her and making her happy... but I really didn't like the taste, so I only stayed for like... half a minute.
Overall it was a good experience. Nothing bad came of it as a result, and I learned what it's like. I want to try it again, but with altoids or something to nix the wierd flavor. Also we need to try a more... accessible... position...
There... no bad words and nothing TOO graphic.
But you know, it doesn't even matter. I mean, the best part of the whole entire day was the last... forty-five mintues or so, when we were just holding eachother, and I was close to falling asleep, and she kept telling me how beautiful she thinks I am, and how happy I make her, and how much she loves me, and it was so sappy and so wonderful and I felt like I was going to cry from the sweetness of it all... god I wish I could just stay there forever.
I won't get to see her in person again for at least two weeks. I'm going off to college a week from today, and I'm not coming home until a week after that. crying
So I'm glad we had a chance to do this before I left.
I asked her about the whole thing... if she regretted it. She said no. I said me neither. 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Aug 14, 2005 8:09 am
I don't think that's a violation of the TOS. But it was proboly a bad idea to let Kohki hear that... And it was kanna cute. Oh and whats the problem doing you know if your on your period? It whould help to mask the taste! rofl
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Posted: Sun Aug 14, 2005 1:54 pm
EEW! It would taste even worse!!!
I mean... blood is disgusting!
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Posted: Sun Aug 14, 2005 3:02 pm
LibidinalCatharsis EEW! It would taste even worse!!! I mean... blood is disgusting! What? Well persionly, if I ever got a girlfreand (I don't get out much) then I whould like to go down on her while she's on her period... sounds sexy. xd 3nodding blaugh
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Posted: Sun Aug 14, 2005 3:07 pm
LibidinalCatharsis We''ve both talked in great detail about what we want our first time together to be like. We''ve decided that there is a huge difference between making love and... well... F*cking, if you can forgive my language. In any case... we, of course, want to make love. Anyway, as long as you know that love comes first and that sex is not the be all and end all of a relationship, then you''re probably ready. You kind of just know, though. It really just has a lot to do with personal maturity. Some people reach mental adulthood long before they reach it physically. I know exactly what you''re talking about, especially in that first paragraph I quoted. There 100% is a difference. Some people go looking only for a physical climax, but you''ll never truly reach that until you''re both physically and emotionally involved. Also - that''s really cute, the whole story whee And yeah, uh, blood...yuck! Even if I had somebody willing to do that while I was bleeding out of the netherlands, I wouldn''t let them. It''s venerable and disgusting o_O
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