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Do you agree with homosexuality? |
Yes, I see nothing wrong with it |
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No, I think it's wrong |
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I dont have an opinion |
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 10:26 pm
CW Hart Quote: And Lazarus, do you consider yourself a Christian? If so please refrain from cussing. It is something that I personally feel is wrong and I am struggling with. It is not needed in the circumstances and while I do admit that sometimes the strength of a word is needed I still don't think words that strong should be used. If I wasn't struggling with it at this time I wouldn't say anything, but I hope you understand. Ah are you saying I'm a non christian? (Has cussed a Sh!tload in this debate). Well I guess it's true anyhow. I know this is a debate on homosexuality, but as far as cussing goes, I think there's a differance between straight up telling someone '******** you' and saying 'what the ********?' One is insulting someone, while the other is simply saying the word with no hatred behind it. It isn't the word that's wrong. It's how you use it. To me atleast. The only argument that you could use is the idea that those words will make a man feel uncomfortable, and this is what I think... I'll eat pork infront of a jew. I'll eat beef infront of a hindu, and I'll use cuss words casually infront of a priest. It isn't my fault they get a hissy fit over it. It's their's. Romans 14:15-23 15If your brother is distressed because of what you eat, you are no longer acting in love. Do not by your eating destroy your brother for whom Christ died. 16Do not allow what you consider good to be spoken of as evil. 17For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking, but of righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Spirit, 18because anyone who serves Christ in this way is pleasing to God and approved by men. 19Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification. 20Do not destroy the work of God for the sake of food. All food is clean, but it is wrong for a man to eat anything that causes someone else to stumble. 21It is better not to eat meat or drink wine or to do anything else that will cause your brother to fall. 22So whatever you believe about these things keep between yourself and God. Blessed is the man who does not condemn himself by what he approves. 23But the man who has doubts is condemned if he eats, because his eating is not from faith; and everything that does not come from faith is sin.
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 10:40 pm
Can't really argue with that. Black and white it says it's wrong if it faulters your brother. But then again I find it faultering for me when peopl start laying down rules for me that I don't see the point in following. So by making it where I have to give up things to make them happy will make me faulter, as in bring me to a point of fustration. Isn't this just as bad as well?
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 11:07 pm
I understand the difference to, but the last few times I tried to explain it to someone I nearly pulled out my hair and they walked away not understanding anything I said. I don't like people who are stubborn like that. So instead of talking to walls I've gotten used to saying it the easy way and not having to talk pointlessly about what the difference is.
The problem I'm having is that I'm engaged and I don't want to teach my kids when I have them to cuss without knowing the difference between when to and not to use different words. For me, it is better to stop myself now instead of waiting until later since it will take time either way. I'm good about not picking up words when I'm around people but it is hard for me to do what I see is right by this when people around me are using the words. They are just words and it is what is meant behind them that really matters, but to expect a child to know that until their mind has had time to develop would be wrong on my part.
The princible I am using for this is that we should not cause a fellow Christian to stumble on his walk with Christ. I see it as doing right by my future children as best as I can by giving them a clean slate to decide who they are and what they want to be. It is to be my duty as a father to do this the best I can while giving them the morals and guides that God has given us through the bible.
I say give me a month and I should be fine. It isn't that I have ever cussed that much, but I am still trying to change a lifestyle to do my best to better glorify and obey God.
And while this is slightly off topic I think that it holds some place here in hindsight. Not an argument in either direction by any standards. If nothing else there is my explaination. And again, I do know the difference between a word and a meaning ^_^
Edit: I take it as not so much giving up but as offering a helping hand to your brother when he needs it. I doubt anyone is without someone they are willing to forgo something in order to help, or go out of their way to help rather. I have no idea how many times I've sacrificed something to help a friend or family, but I did it willingly because I love them as best as I can as Christ would.
And I originally asked if he was a Christian because I realize that everyone here might not be one. If he wasn't a Christian I wouldn't expect him to feel any ties to stopping like I asked. I will not put my personal rules and chosen lifestyle, even if that is based around Christ, on someone who has not embraced them as well. I speak truth when I say that it would be folly to hold any non-Christian by the same standards that we hold Christians. By following Christ we have agreed to willingly and patiently (patient in the definition used in the Bible as waiting with anticipation, like a little kid wanting to go buy ice-cream when his father comes home) obey what God commands us through his voice and throw his word.
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Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 12:39 pm
Wow, finals put me back a lot this lats few weeks. So much has gone on. From what I've read from the sources listed supporting homosexuality, I find that all they have done is taken what was written in the bible, and filled in the gaps to support their side. Which on the other hand could be done for the opposite side, but the way I view it is if there were passages even mentioning the subject doesn't that mean that something is wrong? If homosexuality isn't a sin, then what is sexually immoral?
It seems that everyone is agreement that ***** and bestiality is a sin, some sources even claim that some of the anti-homosexual verses are really about *****. Are these the only sexual sins among adults? If so then why would Romans talk about sexual relations of men with other men, not boys? Are they raping each other is that it? These arguments seem kinda incomplete to me. You can find so many ways to reinterpret passages to support homosexuality, but where are the passages that explicitly support it? There are plenty that support heterosexual relations, but you could always reinterpret those too.
The way I see it is more twisting of the truth by satan. Look at what happened at that beginning, the snake told Eve it won't kill you, if you eat it you have the knowledge of good and evil, just like God. What he failed to tell her was that she would not die immediately but the consequences of eating that fruit would cause her to break her promise to God and his punishment would cause her to die eventually. What did we get from the fruit? The knowledge of more ways to sin and be punished. Now this knowledge isn't all bad, I would think God would want us to have this knowledge at some point, but when we were ready.
As far as people being born a homosexual, I don't deny that it is possible, but as far as God creating people homo.... I doubt that He would create them to be homo for their whole life. We are all born in to sin, it is up to us to change our ways to follow Christ. Just because I am born desiring to only act in my self interest doesn't mean that I how I am supposed to be all my life. I know of people who have given up homosexuality to follow God, it can be done.
The question we all have to ask ourselves is, what is God's nature like, how has He acted through out the bible? Then does this sin make sense as sin, does it protect you from something or is there a chance to harm you, prolong your life or lessen it, bring you closer to God or further? Through out the bible God made laws to make us safe and healthy and to bring us close to Him. This is what we must consider when we decide if something is sinful. Let me know if I need to clarify on anything.
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Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 2:04 pm
”Lithanus” Wow, finals put me back a lot this lats few weeks. So much has gone on. From what I've read from the sources listed supporting homosexuality, I find that all they have done is taken what was written in the bible, and filled in the gaps to support their side. Actually, there were no gaps to begin with. I have put back in the context, and the original language nuances, both of which the anti-homosexuality side has removed. Quote: Which on the other hand could be done for the opposite side, It could not. Quote: but the way I view it is if there were passages even mentioning the subject doesn't that mean that something is wrong? No? The bible is not strictly a rulebook. Just because a part of a subject is remarked on in it does not make the entire subject forbidden. Quote: If homosexuality isn't a sin, then what is sexually immoral? Lust, adultery, prostitution, etc. Anything that does not involve sex only as a part of love, definitely. Quote: It seems that everyone is agreement that ***** and bestiality is a sin, some sources even claim that some of the anti-homosexual verses are really about ***** class="clear"> I believe that neither ***** nor bestiality are sin. Sex with animals is definitely sin, as animals are ALWAYS incapable of love. However, if you can find a genius child and get them to love you and marry you, go ahead. Neither do I believe that any Bible verses thought to refer to homosexuality actually refer to *****. These verses refer to pederasty, a form of ***** prostitution for social status and knowledge. Quote: Are these the only sexual sins among adults? No, lust is also included. Quote: If so then why would Romans talk about sexual relations of men with other men, not boys? Are they raping each other is that it? No. Sodom is the passage remarking on rape. The Romans passage refers to completely lustful acts. There is no love between these men, or these women. Quote: These arguments seem kinda incomplete to me. You can find so many ways to reinterpret passages to support homosexuality, but where are the passages that explicitly support it? 1 Samuel 18:3? Quote: There are plenty that support heterosexual relations, but you could always reinterpret those too. … As far as people being born a homosexual, I don't deny that it is possible, but as far as God creating people homo.... I doubt that He would create them to be homo for their whole life. Did not God form each one of us? Are we all not made how he intended us to be? Quote: We are all born in to sin, it is up to us to change our ways to follow Christ. Just because I am born desiring to only act in my self interest doesn't mean that I how I am supposed to be all my life. I know of people who have given up homosexuality to follow God, it can be done. Homosexuality is not an action; it cannot be “given up”. It can be suppressed, but this is psychologically unhealthy and in the long run, will only weaken your self-control. Quote: The question we all have to ask ourselves is, what is God's nature like, how has He acted through out the bible? Then does this sin make sense as sin, It does not. Quote: does it protect you from something or is there a chance to harm you, prolong your life or lessen it, No, no, no, no. Does heterosexuality do any of this? No. Quote: bring you closer to God or further? Neither. It’s simply the gender you’re attracted to. Quote: Through out the bible God made laws to make us safe and healthy and to bring us close to Him. This is what we must consider when we decide if something is sinful. Let me know if I need to clarify on anything. We must also consider if we act on love, as per the laws of Agape.
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Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 7:36 pm
Quote: Homosexuality is not an action; it cannot be “given up”. It can be suppressed, but this is psychologically unhealthy and in the long run, will only weaken your self-control. To be attracted to the same sex is not sin. Yeah, it definately sets one up for sin, but it in itself is not sin. It is, however, a sin to act upon that attraction and to have "unnatural relations." It's the same thing for heterosexuals. I am attracted to girls and it is my choice to lust for them (desire them sexually) or to resist temptation. I suppose one could say that the bible addresses homosexuals as those that fornicate with the same sex. As for your second sentence in the quote, that's pure speculation. Unless you show empirical evidence for such an outrageous claim, it's your word against God's word- and that's not a hard decision to make. Here's something from Bible.org, a reputable site that is not in it for justifying sin: Romans 1:26-27For this reason God gave them over to dishonorable passions. For their women exchanged the natural sexual relations for unnatural ones, 54 and likewise the men also abandoned natural relations with women 55 and were inflamed in their passions 56 for one another. Men 57 committed shameless acts with men and received in themselves the due penalty for their error. 54 tn Grk “for their females exchanged the natural function for that which is contrary to nature.” The term χρῆσις (crhsi") has the force of “sexual relations” here (L&N 23.65). Natural Function? Let's see, man and woman were made to be together in marriage. So an unnatural function would be a man and a man or a woman and a woman. 55 tn Grk “likewise so also the males abandoning the natural function of the female.” 56 tn Grk “burned with intense desire” (L&N 25.16). 57 tn Grk “another, men committing…and receiving,” continuing the description of their deeds. Because of the length and complexity of the Greek sentence, a new sentence was started here in the translation 1 Corinthians 6:9Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived! The sexually immoral, idolaters, adulterers, passive homosexual partners, 5 practicing homosexuals, 6 5 tn This term is sometimes rendered “effeminate,” although in contemporary English usage such a translation could be taken to refer to demeanor rather than behavior. BDAG 613 s.v. μαλακός 2 has “pert. to being passive in a same-sex relationship, effeminate esp. of catamites, of men and boys who are sodomized by other males in such a relationship.” L&N 88.281 states, “the passive male partner in homosexual intercourse – ‘homosexual.’ …As in Greek, a number of other languages also have entirely distinct terms for the active and passive roles in homosexual intercourse.” See also the discussion in G. D. Fee, First Corinthians (NICNT), 243-44. A number of modern translations have adopted the phrase “male prostitutes” for μαλακοί in 1 Cor 6:9 (NIV, NRSV, NLT) but this could be misunderstood by the modern reader to mean “males who sell their services to women,” while the term in question appears, at least in context, to relate to homosexual activity between males. Furthermore, it is far from certain that prostitution as commonly understood (the selling of sexual favors) is specified here, as opposed to a consensual relationship. Thus the translation “passive homosexual partners” has been used here. 6 tn On this term BDAG 135 s.v. ἀρσενοκοίτης states, “a male who engages in sexual activity w. a pers. of his own sex, pederast 1 Cor 6:9…of one who assumes the dominant role in same-sex activity, opp. μαλακός…1 Ti 1:10; Pol 5:3. Cp. Ro 1:27.” L&N 88.280 states, “a male partner in homosexual intercourse – ‘homosexual.’…It is possible that ἀρσενοκοίτης in certain contexts refers to the active male partner in homosexual intercourse in contrast with μαλακός, the passive male partner.” Since there is a distinction in contemporary usage between sexual orientation and actual behavior, the qualification “practicing” was supplied in the translation, following the emphasis in BDAG. Also, if you're going to analyze this, don't cherry-pick. Why does your signature include a vulgar joke about having sex with Jesus, my Savior? Not only is that bound to cause others to stumble, it is blasphemous to misuse his name, or to profane it. The Lord's name is holy. Do you testify to this?
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Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 7:54 pm
Quote: Actually, there were no gaps to begin with. I have put back in the context, and the original language nuances, both of which the anti-homosexuality side has removed. Here's a question: What are your qualifications to be making these claims? Have you studied Hebrew and Greek in depth and if so what degree or license do you hold saying you are qualified to talk on the subject? From studying Latin Old English (Albiet breifly on that one) and a decent amount of Japanese I can honestly say that unless you have had extensive training in a language you have no right to say much of anything about how it was translated or how it should be translated. No offense meant by this, but I don't see it any other way. If you are qualified in some way then there is more stock to your argument, but if not than you really shouldn't be trying to use that type of technique in your argument. Repeating what other people said when it comes to languages can be very dangerous.
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Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 8:00 pm
My thoughts exactly. That's why I asked her if she copied and pasted it. Sure enough, yup.
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Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 8:26 pm
Lazarus The Resurected Kuroi Kokoro no Mendori Lazarus The Resurected Kuroi, just stomp the biggot already and let's go do something else. Damn, it's almost like having Hussein back. Nonono. He's not quite like Hussein. Hussein just insulted people. This person simply doesn't get scripture. There's a big difference. either way, trounce the ********, i'm gettign really sick of these idiots and as all my arguments were pretty much garnered form your posts it only seems fitting that you be the one to beat him down. Amidst all this hateful dialogue and profanity, how do you people plan on converting anyone to your way of thinking? Even in this debate, you sin, and make it painfully obvious. Aside from you, the unseeing, whose consciences are seared, who use scripture for personal gain, where are the rest? Show me a Christian, one who's actions are good and godly, that believes that homosexuality is not sin. "Just doesn't get scripture." Lol, I gotta share that one with the church. We'll all have a big laugh.
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Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 8:57 pm
brad175 Amidst all this hateful dialogue and profanity, how do you people plan on converting anyone to your way of thinking? Even in this debate, you sin, and make it painfully obvious. Aside from you, the unseeing, whose consciences are seared, who use scripture for personal gain, where are the rest? Show me a Christian, one who's actions are good and godly, that believes that homosexuality is not sin. "Just doesn't get scripture." Lol, I gotta share that one with the church. We'll all have a big laugh. But who is to say a person's actions are good and Godly? Is not God that only one who can decide on that? Anyone claiming openly and loudly that he is a good and Godly man is more likely than not to be wrong. I myself claim only to do my best in following in Christ's footsteps, and even by saying that I feel uneasy. I could probably do better than I do, but I still claim I do my best because that is what I believe. And let me throw something in your court; why tell others about his point of view when you imply that it is only to make fun of him? To me, that doesn't seem like a "good and Godly" thing to do. But I digress. You do have a valid point, even if I do not agree with your methods completely. But I do have to ask you, brad, why you again bring up "this hateful dialogue and profanity" again in your quote? Surely you could have found another way to describe the context of what you were talking about with putting the words back on the screen? I was the one who asked them to refrain from using that language, but why does it make it ok for you to put it back in your post? From what I can tell you disagree with using the words at all, an here you are doing that very thing whether you wrote it or just copied it; either way you are using it. Again let me say that I don't disagree with what you were trying to say. I do, on the other hand, strongly disagree with your means.
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Posted: Sun May 20, 2007 7:34 pm
You guys are much more direct than I felt that I could be... I'm getting to soft. Homosexuality is sexually immoral and is an abonbinable sin... there...
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Posted: Wed May 23, 2007 12:31 pm
Lazarus The Resurected Kuroi Kokoro no Mendori Lazarus The Resurected Kuroi, just stomp the biggot already and let's go do something else. Damn, it's almost like having Hussein back. Nonono. He's not quite like Hussein. Hussein just insulted people. This person simply doesn't get scripture. There's a big difference. either way, trounce the ********, i'm gettign really sick of these idiots and as all my arguments were pretty much garnered form your posts it only seems fitting that you be the one to beat him down. Pssst.... Lazarus, could you please refrain from swearing. I know you've debated this in the cussing thread but Paul calls us to obey authority, who just so happens to be Lianthus and now me; and Lianthus says to control your tounge and refrain from using swear words. If you want you can use lesser versions of words like f***k, like "screw" or what not, but just please refrain from saying it in the forums. Thank you!
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 7:01 am
drena_vadess40 Lazarus The Resurected Kuroi Kokoro no Mendori Lazarus The Resurected Kuroi, just stomp the biggot already and let's go do something else. Damn, it's almost like having Hussein back. Nonono. He's not quite like Hussein. Hussein just insulted people. This person simply doesn't get scripture. There's a big difference. either way, trounce the ********, i'm gettign really sick of these idiots and as all my arguments were pretty much garnered form your posts it only seems fitting that you be the one to beat him down. Pssst.... Lazarus, could you please refrain from swearing. I know you've debated this in the cussing thread but Paul calls us to obey authority, who just so happens to be Lianthus and now me; and Lianthus says to control your tounge and refrain from using swear words. If you want you can use lesser versions of words like f***k, like "screw" or what not, but just please refrain from saying it in the forums. Thank you! since the words have equivalant meanings i don't see why using one and noth the other would be considered wrong or right. but since you asked nicely i'll try to refrain from letting my fingers slip over that particular set of keys.
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 3:39 pm
Lazarus The Resurected drena_vadess40 Lazarus The Resurected Kuroi Kokoro no Mendori Lazarus The Resurected Kuroi, just stomp the biggot already and let's go do something else. Damn, it's almost like having Hussein back. Nonono. He's not quite like Hussein. Hussein just insulted people. This person simply doesn't get scripture. There's a big difference. either way, trounce the ********, i'm gettign really sick of these idiots and as all my arguments were pretty much garnered form your posts it only seems fitting that you be the one to beat him down. Pssst.... Lazarus, could you please refrain from swearing. I know you've debated this in the cussing thread but Paul calls us to obey authority, who just so happens to be Lianthus and now me; and Lianthus says to control your tounge and refrain from using swear words. If you want you can use lesser versions of words like f***k, like "screw" or what not, but just please refrain from saying it in the forums. Thank you! since the words have equivalant meanings i don't see why using one and noth the other would be considered wrong or right. but since you asked nicely i'll try to refrain from letting my fingers slip over that particular set of keys. Thanks Lazarus, I knew I could count on you!
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Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2007 9:57 am
First of all, it is wrong and the bible does state that it is wrong. After all God tells us that in a relationship the man is the head and the woman is the heart. If the relationship is with two men, which head shall lead and where is the heart? With two women there is no head. But just because it is wrong does not mean we should hate them. I had two best friends who are both girls that dated each other once this year. I still loved them like sisters, and I still do. We should not judge a person because of their desision to believe a lie of the Devil. Hate the action, not the person. We are mearly teachers of the word, it is not our job to accuse others of their sin, that job belongs to the Holy Spirit. I may know this topic better than others, for the Devil once decieved me into thinking I was gay, and I used to be deeply into yaoi. But God showed me the verses where he clearly states that it is wrong, and took away my desire for it. I do not hate homoexuals, I am not a homophobe. I pity them, for that trap is the hardest to be freed from. I continue to love them, and minester to them, it is simply part of thte gospel, and I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ. Hate the action, not the person, that was my command from God, and I will pass it on to my fellow brothers and sisters.
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