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I couldn't agree more.
Look, why don't you take a deep breath and step back from the keyboard for a moment. You're always on such a high defense mode that you take everything as a personal attack. Think about what others saying as constructive critisism.

No one is intentionally trying to hurt you, Matiko. Why do act as if they are?

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There's already a lawsuit about the new ban on Gay Marriage here. Cross your fingers! surprised

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I'm sorry.

My words were a personal insult directed from me to you and do not reflect the feelings of anyone on this guild other than me. Don't blame the rest of these guys because I'm belligerent and grossly offensive.

No. I said we think alike when I said we cared about you. I was speaking for myself when I got pissed off and started insulting you.

Hell, you should thank me. Out of all the times you've felt attacked in this Guild, that was the first time someone other than you actually started it. As you said, I "proved [your] point."

And that is what makes you the balancing agent here. I could not be a proper mod if you were not a mod right along with me. Your good conscience helps me to remind myself that I have one too.

It's not because you disagree, it's how you disagree. Your words are rude and disrepectful.

Whatever JoVo said on AIM is not a guild stance, though an increasing percentage of the membership is lining up to that point of view.

Don't say no one got to know you, you never said anything or made yourself particularly available. No one's made an active effort to get to know me, either, by those standards. Also, you and I had a very illuminating conversation over the voting issue.

As for joining antics, the BEST times we've had with you WERE when we've all just joked around.


Good, 'cuz that would have required a talk.
Though I should think in the other thread, I made it quite clear that he is only welcome if he's willing to try to learn about getting along with others.
Seriously though, please just step back if you feel yourself heading into the red.

As for Keithing... JoVo has little Chinese men in his head now?

So go out and make some trouble in McGregor's garden again...

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OK, talk to me babe, you gonna be OK?

Keithing: Dude, I didn't even see your post about my costume gonk . That sucks! I'm sorry. If I'd seen it, would've meant tons! Still does, even though I don't know what you said. *hugs*. And I saw you bump my shop. I posted my response there. I thought it was really cool that you came by. In fact, you were the only one from the guild that *did* bump my shop. I'm sorry I didn't send you the response. But, thanks tons for that too ^_^. That bump made my day btw that day.

Keithing: Babe, some of these threads move so fast for me, that, I often don't take the time to read every page, because often times, they don't include responses to anything I've said, or they're a completely different conversation altogether, and I have no idea what anyone is saying. So, it's possible I've missed your responses that way. But, when I read that you *have* responded often, I see that, maybe people *have* tried to get to know me, and I've just been oblivious due to my laziness and inability to read every post.

So, I tell ya what, from now on, when you or anyone else responds to any of my posts, how about leaving me a msg on PM or one of my IMs, to let me know to look out for it. Cause, I don't wanna miss anyone else's comments either. I'm sorry Keithing *hugs*

Vague: Yeah, I know. What can I say. JoVo and Keithing have helped me to see the light. Though, I have to admit, you're the most persistent bunch of people I've ever met, besides my family and my boyfriend. I only wish the gravi guild were as equally understanding...oh well.