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Most gay people would choose to be straight because being gay has its own set of problems. Most gay parents (that I know) would choose (if they could!) for their children to be straight, because like I said, it's a complicated life.

I know, its so much fun, boobs arent that intresting anyway, i dont get it, whats the big deal?

umm, i would remain as straight as i have ever been. You guys don't realize... wait, forget it. this is opinion, i nearly forgot.

Hell no, I wouldn't.

I love the ladies way too much to give them up.

I'm still right though. I know plenty of guys who just care about the way they move and other things.

I don't know why I'm replying to this, but here it goes.

Yes, I WOULD choose to be "gay" (or lesbian to the people who are picky that "Oh girls can't be gay, they're lesbian). Because in all sence, even through all the hardships that can come from it, to be with the person you love is more than enough reward. Yes, we have to take alot from it. We have to take the s**t and abuse from people who are basically scared of something they know little to nothing about. There are so many things we have to overcome, weither we are Bisexual, or Homosexual. I admit, people who are Bisexual probably have it better off since if they are with a guy, people consider them straight.

Just today, because I looked at a female (in a way of being kind of attracted to her since she was... quite beautiful) I got beaten for it. By people I didn't really even know.

We have to face this everyday, but yet, you cannot change whom you are.

If we really had a choice, I dont think many people would choose to like the same sex. Because most people want the easy way out in life, to live in ease. But what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. Which is a reason I'd choose to be "gay". Because In my opinion those who have gone through all of this, can be fairly stronger than people who are straight, if given the circumstances. No offense to people who ARE straight. But, it seems like those who are homosexual and bisexual can handle emotional stress fairly well.

But now, I'm getting off topic.

Anyway, being Bi or even Homosexual is a great thing =) and we can't really choose what sexual orintation we have, so best thing to do is stick with what you are, love it, charish it, and live it. And deal with whatever Life throws at you.

When Life Hands You Lemons...

Throw them back and scream "Make your own damn lemonade".


(Yeah I got off topic =/ sorry, so shoot me.)

ok, no offense to ANYONE if i do manage to....

ok, to what sonome said... People don't choose to be straight because it's easier, thats just a plain old lie. It's because thats how we were intentionally imposed to be. We follow what nature has done to all species. A majority of all species are straight, why? to reproduce. That does not make things easier, it make things going in clockwork.
i don't mean to be sounding all mean or anything, it's just that.... stating I chose my route because i'm not as emotionally strong as you or other bisexual/gays in your eyes is just plain... stereotypical. does being straight make me or any other straight people weaker emotionally?heck no, i'm sure about everyone who's straight down in here is just about as strong and you and other bisexual/gay people are.
I am not saying one is stronger then the other, it's based on what your nurturement that makes you stronger, not on what sexual preference you prefer. Go to Japan, your bisexuality is accepted by about all. Stay in some southern state in america and prepare to be ridiculed.

Remember no offense to anyone... including sonome.