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 Posted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 12:13 pm
jenko59 I'm afraid to, I think i've lost 10 pounds since then, my moms barey home is teh thing, she works more than he does and he's kind of a heavy drinker, so I think that clarifies it, and if he gets fired he'll have to stay home with me all day..I really don't want that i admire you for just dealing with that stuff, i mean if it were me i'd go and "live" at my best friend's house... i think maybe you should try talking to your father...
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Posted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 3:35 pm
Ish that teh best idea? I think he's mad enough with me already
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Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 3:08 pm
jenko59 Ish that teh best idea? I think he's mad enough with me already i don't know if it is, but it maight be a good idea to try to see where he's coming from... i just think it's better than not talking to him at all... i have THAT problem with my father... rolleyes anyway, just try to see if there's any way you can make it up to him......
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Posted: Wed Feb 07, 2007 5:55 pm
grandkinglink anike6 grandkinglink anike6 grandkinglink well why do you worry so much about his "woman" i mean if hes happy with her then shouldnt he be happy as well? and as for the thing about just having guard you have to have more then just that i mean you have friends right? you seem like you wouldnt be a loner. and calling people liars isnt all that nice to do. and if you only drink fruit juice why dont you drink healthy fruit juice at least you will get some nutrtion from that. and maybe you dont like chicken thats why you dont want to eat it. but all in all it sounds like your depressed that would explain quite a few of the things thats going on. what i would suggest is talk to some of your other friends other then this all important guy maybe they could help you out wtih your problems better then he could. whether i have friends or not is entirely beside the point, my point is i can't talk to them, i never have enough time alone with them, or they don't know something that i try to make refrence to and i have to explain that and then run out of time, the only one i want to talk to is the one that's never there, and that hurts so bad sometimes friends arent always going to be around i know that may seem harsh and all but still i mean there have to be other friends that your closer to then just that one so in your absolutely honest opinion, should i give up on this friend? no i dont say give up on him entirely just go on the back burner for awhile then things should settle down dont worry he will start talking to you again sooner or later i hope what if later never comes?
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Posted: Tue Feb 13, 2007 7:21 pm
anike6 grandkinglink anike6 grandkinglink anike6 grandkinglink well why do you worry so much about his "woman" i mean if hes happy with her then shouldnt he be happy as well? and as for the thing about just having guard you have to have more then just that i mean you have friends right? you seem like you wouldnt be a loner. and calling people liars isnt all that nice to do. and if you only drink fruit juice why dont you drink healthy fruit juice at least you will get some nutrtion from that. and maybe you dont like chicken thats why you dont want to eat it. but all in all it sounds like your depressed that would explain quite a few of the things thats going on. what i would suggest is talk to some of your other friends other then this all important guy maybe they could help you out wtih your problems better then he could. whether i have friends or not is entirely beside the point, my point is i can't talk to them, i never have enough time alone with them, or they don't know something that i try to make refrence to and i have to explain that and then run out of time, the only one i want to talk to is the one that's never there, and that hurts so bad sometimes friends arent always going to be around i know that may seem harsh and all but still i mean there have to be other friends that your closer to then just that one so in your absolutely honest opinion, should i give up on this friend? no i dont say give up on him entirely just go on the back burner for awhile then things should settle down dont worry he will start talking to you again sooner or later i hope what if later never comes? then you move on never forgetting the lessons once learned so long ago...
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 1:13 pm
grandkinglink anike6 grandkinglink anike6 grandkinglink sometimes friends arent always going to be around i know that may seem harsh and all but still i mean there have to be other friends that your closer to then just that one so in your absolutely honest opinion, should i give up on this friend? no i dont say give up on him entirely just go on the back burner for awhile then things should settle down dont worry he will start talking to you again sooner or later i hope what if later never comes? then you move on never forgetting the lessons once learned so long ago... just that thought hurts too much
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Posted: Sun Mar 04, 2007 12:18 am
anike6 jenko59 Ish that teh best idea? I think he's mad enough with me already i don't know if it is, but it maight be a good idea to try to see where he's coming from... i just think it's better than not talking to him at all... i have THAT problem with my father... rolleyes anyway, just try to see if there's any way you can make it up to him...... I would tell your mom, ask to go with the store with her or something when she goes out, talking to your parents in the car is easy, because you know there isn't anyone else around or anything. Your dad has a problem with drinking it looks like, try talking to him ( when he isn't drunk >.< ) about his drinking problem and maybe try to make out a plan for him to quit. I know having a drunk in the house is hard, my step dad almost stripped naked in front of me once... And once he puked all over my sink, ruining my toothbrush and hairbrush, I went 3 days at school without brushing my hair, luckily my hair is naturally untangly ( don't really know how to put that lol, my hair doesn't tangle all that easy )
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