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Do you think about having sex with your friends?
Never!
10%
 10%  [ 16 ]
Rarely
24%
 24%  [ 37 ]
Sometimes
40%
 40%  [ 61 ]
Often...
24%
 24%  [ 37 ]
Total Votes : 151


Foxhart X

PostPosted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 6:48 pm


i do think about being with one of my friends.. but i havnt come out because she has told me shes homophobic crying But its only with her... I hang out with this one girl at school all the time (some people say were attached at the hip) but i really dont like her that way...
PostPosted: Tue Apr 12, 2005 8:35 am


AoD_Khoai
TC Crabtree
Drosis
I've been seriously attracted to only a select few of my friends. I only hint at dating those who I expect feel the same. I would never flirt with a friend who would just end up as a fling, it's just doesn't seem worth it, ya' know? Actually, in the past, I've been offended by friends flirting with me when I am not interested. Maybe it's just me...


Nah, you're normal. o.o I got offended by this guy I work with when he asked me out. (And he was 14 yrs older than me, missing most of his teeth)

lmao!! i hope you said yes... or maybe no. with no teeth he coulda gummed u to death.


o.o;; He goes to this local biker church (yes we have one of those here XD), and the people there kind of unnerve me. >_> I still catch him staring at me every now and then...but I gots Krysti ^^

Fatefully Kinetic TC



Cuore Rotto


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 13, 2005 6:04 pm


rolleyes
PostPosted: Thu Apr 14, 2005 4:09 pm


im friend with 3 bi people but it gets weird if you start to like them

witch_hunter_jen


Topacka

PostPosted: Fri Apr 15, 2005 2:57 pm


Cuore Rotto
rolleyes
That was compleaty useless...


and i feel that its easyer to just not think about it.... ya know
PostPosted: Fri Apr 15, 2005 4:41 pm


They can. When you are friends with someone, you are friends. You usually are attracted to someone like a crush, usually not someone who is a close friend. THats my experience.

quiqui12393



Zseigh


OG Member

PostPosted: Fri Apr 15, 2005 4:49 pm


Cicky_girl12393
They can. When you are friends with someone, you are friends. You usually are attracted to someone like a crush, usually not someone who is a close friend. THats my experience.



erm. not for me really. i cann ever think aboput friends like that unless they think about me like that first lol
PostPosted: Wed Apr 20, 2005 8:55 pm


Lalobee
It really makes me wonder sometimes. People keep telling that males and females can't have real friendship because there would always be some sexual part in between. And it makes me wonder how hard it must be for us bi people to have real friendship?

I can just tell for myself, I guess I've found some true friends. But nevertheless I can't really deny it that some sexual thoughts about the one or the other of them comes up. So I wonder if this is just me, I don't consider myself being that fixed on sexuality, but still it happens. Do the others of you also have this feelings sometimes? Do you feel bad about them? Do you speak with the others about it? If so, how do they react?

Just some simple rules for this thread: The usual guild rules, pretty please read them. I think you are cute if you guess this is a nice thread and you want to bump it, but don't. If the thread is going to die then I know it's a non-issue. If it is going to stay it would be fine, but there is no need to bump. If you like bumping go to the chatterbox.

Thanks for any input of yours, I'll appreciate it.
Lalobee

Edit made by Yuki
Do NOT ask is Lalobee got permission to make this thread. She did, so please don't ask anymore questions regaurding that matter. Thank you.


It is hard, but I do it all the time........just about all my friends are gay or bi..........they are really good friends to me and I would never think about them in any other way

AceofSpade


DjManix

PostPosted: Thu Apr 21, 2005 2:01 am


Yea i kinda agree with you Lalobee, i think about my friends sexually sometimes....and only some of them...but some of them i would never dream of making a move on...i value the friendship i have with my friends and i wouldnt be able to live with myself if i destroyed it coz of sex. But then i have great friends that i have slept with several times out of fun, and we both love it ^^
PostPosted: Thu Apr 21, 2005 8:17 am


It's espeshilly(sorry for the spelling) hard when the person your thinking about comes up to you while your thinking about them. gonk
very akward....for mee that is...

Cayia


Sky-sama

PostPosted: Thu Apr 21, 2005 1:04 pm


I'm friends with a lot of people, not caring about their gender. -Shrugs- I really don't have any attraction at all to most of them.
PostPosted: Fri Apr 22, 2005 12:01 pm


Hell yeah

quiqui12393


Nahoko-Chan

PostPosted: Mon Apr 25, 2005 7:30 pm


Sadly, I have thought about some of my friends as being more.
We tend to have a good time now and then, despite not being in a relationship. heart
PostPosted: Mon Apr 25, 2005 8:01 pm


I have sexual thought about my friends some times... >.> I tell them in a freakish way so they don't really beilive me..... crying But now, I can't really have sexual thoughts.......For reasons.. Yes... Wait.... >.> IGNORE EVERYTHING!!!! >.>

[Taste the Rainbow ]



Zseigh


OG Member

PostPosted: Mon Apr 25, 2005 10:01 pm


i had a sexual thought just now about ym friend for no apparent reason. wierd eh?
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