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| Ya, but it took a while |
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| No, I'm not sure about my sexuality |
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| No, it's hard |
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| I'm straight, thanks |
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 Posted: Tue Aug 24, 2004 9:00 pm
I seriously don't know what I am. I am not sure if I like guys, girls, or both. Sometimes it depends on what mood I am in. Sometimes I will like guys only, or girls. But most of the time I like both. It is kinda confusing...... Heh, I haven't told anyone about my little "female fantasies" except my close friend who I had a crush on for two years. I haven't gotten up the courage to ask him out yet but he says my little fantasies kinda turn him on. ^_^
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2004 2:02 pm
Since everyone has forgotten this thread for a few days, I'll give more instances of mine.
Okay, here's coming out to Sarah (I already knew she was bi, so it was easy):
Sarah: Yeah, I had such a crush on her (referring to Tara on Buffy the Vampire Slayer).
Me: Me, too!
Sarah: Yeah, but season six wasn't that good. And, Shelley, what was that about you having a crush on Tara?
Me: I'm kinda gay.
Sarah: That's so awesome, Shea! Do your parents know?
Me: No, my dad is a little homophobic.
Sarah: Oh, is he okay with me?
Me: Yeah, you're not related to him.
Here's me coming out to a girl I liked over AIM (with fixed grammar here) by finding out if she was even bi first:
S(girl I liked): Who was bugging you?
Me: One of my friends. She likes gore and she's bi....
S: I am, too.
Me: Really?
S: Yeah.
Me: So am I.
S: Really?
Me: Yeah.
S: Awesome!
Here's telling my friend Julia that I probably wasn't bi, but instead, a lesbian:
Me: I think I might be more than semi-gay. I think I'm les.
Julia: I really thought you probably were!
Me: It's okay, right?
Julia: Yeah, I actually think it's cooler! ...But that's just to Julia.
Here's something that told me I definitely could not tell my dad:
*we were watching the Buffy musical*
Me: How can anyone not love Willow/Tara (the les couple) after watching that episode?
Dad: I still liked it better when she was straight.
Me: Yeah, but they're just so cute together!
Dad: As long as it's not your emotions. ( scream b*****d!)
Me: No, of course not... (you a*****e).
I know it's long, sorry sweatdrop . Okay, that's it. I just like to share smile .
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2004 3:18 pm
I've had the hugest range of reactions...
Sister: Wow! Really? That's cool kiddo! Teehee, my little sister's a fairy!
Mom: Oh, alright. (Followed by a three hour conversation about...everything. My mom and i are tight so it was a nice conversation.)
Dad: Well, sex is a very emotional thing and i don't think that at 15, you should be having sex...
Me: Dad, I'm not having sex. I'm not having lesbian sex. No sex at all...What i'm telling you is that i'm attracted to both sexes.
Dad: Oh, well, i have my opinions on what sex you should date and i don't think you should entertain these feelings...but i'll still be supportive...
Friend 1: Hey, that's cool. Ooh, so tell me, for serious, is my butt cute? (Lol. Ash is so awesome. I loves her. She was the very first person i told.)
Friends 2: Oh yeah, that's cool...
Friends 3, 4, and several random people at not just my school, but others as well: Oh, alison (friend 2) already told me.
Friend 5: Yeah, i've kinda thought that i should try liking girls...'cause i mean, guys just don't seem to like me. And...would you be willing to experiment with me?
Cousin: Umm, that's gross. And wrong. And sinful. Let me show you some Bible verses that say it's wrong...I'm gonna go pray for you. (She later told me that she's going to be sad when she goes to heaven and i'm not there...)
Ex boyfriends: Damn, really? Wow, that's kinda hot...
So yeah, big range of reactions...
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2004 3:41 pm
well, my mother s**t a brick.
then she started acusing me of having sex on her bed whenever i had a friend over
then my sisters s**t a brick,
then they said it was just a phase
when my friends found out they avoided me
(i dissed them)
then my new friends all were bi gay or lez and supportive.
so, basically, didnt go well.
so now im quiet about it
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2004 12:21 pm
I came out to some of my friends cause most are homophobes so...
butthe ones I told said they could tell and they did change twards me at all.
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2004 6:42 pm
i'm still in the closet kinda sweatdrop but if i told someone i would tell my friend first. i only have one friend, not that i get lonely. i don't like alot of crouds or alot of friends. not that i'm antisocial sweatdrop
anyway...i would tell her first because she's more understanding than my family when it comes to...anything. though she dose seem to be quite the homophobe. she dosn't say that it bothers her and says she thinks gay guys are hot. but when one of her other friends on YIM told her he was gay, she reacted...oddly.
i would tell my family after that but i imagine they'd be all condimning and everything. really against it and make fun of me and the whole 9 yards @.@ just because they love to argue and love hating me :C
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Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 6:13 am
i was watching male porn in the computer and my mom entered and saw me, she was like in shock, then they tried to give me a "talk" but i told em, first they were not accepting it but now they allow me to bring guys only when they re no home, so i think theyre accepting it.
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Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 12:50 pm
i have only told friends, not family or general public. NO WAY am i tellin my family. but my friends were totally kool bout it even tho they r strait
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Posted: Tue Aug 31, 2004 2:41 pm
Let's seeeeee...
To my two friends:
Me: Hey, guys? We (my then-girlfriend and I) have something to tell you.
Friend 1: Okay.
My Ex: We're together.
Friend 1: *funny look*
Me: What?
Friend 2: She's just confused. We've known you liked each other for awhile. It was kinda obvious to us...
Friend 1: Yeah.
My Ex: So you don't mind?
Friend 1: No way. Do what you like.
To another of my friends:
Friend: So, are you two (myself and my ex) really together?
Me: No, not any more.
Friend: But you were?
Me: Yeah. I broke up with her a few weeks ago.
Friend: So are you like, gay or something?
Me: Yeah, I'm pretty sure.
Friend: Oh... Well, I guess that's okay. I mean, gayness kind of bothers me. But I don't like, hate you for it or anything. Maybe now that I know you are, it won't bother me so much.
Me: Well, straightness kind of bothers me. Not that I don't like straight people, just the thought of myself with a guy seems wrong, you know?
Friend: Yeah, I guess that's why it bothers me.
Yet another friend:
Friend: So, which of those two do you think are the hottest?
Me: Neither.
Friend: What's wrong with you?
Me: Nothing.
Friend: But they're both totally hot. The only way you could not think they're hot is if you're a lesbian.
Me: Well, yeah.
Friend: You're GAY?
Me: Yeah.
Friend: That's weird. Are you sure?
Me: Yes.
Friend: Ewww... Just don't kiss other girls in front of me, okay?
To my mother:
Her: (randomly) So, are you gay?
Me: Uhhhhhh...
Her: I thought so. Good for you. Most men suck or they have boyfriends.
Me: You're not mad?
Her: No, of course not. But why did you lie when John (her then-boyfriend) asked you if you were last week?
Me: Because we were in a restaurant, everyone was staring because he was talking so loudly anyway, and he's a jerk. Why *wouldn't* I have lied to him?
Her: I suppose you're right.
Of course none of that is exactly worded, but it's close enough. xd Eep, and sorry it got kind of long. eek
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Posted: Tue Aug 31, 2004 6:49 pm
surprised I'm not even sure yet if I'm bi or "normal" sad
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Posted: Tue Aug 31, 2004 7:07 pm
my mom was bitching about my husband recently and i half jokingly asked her what she would think if i went with women if he and i ever split.
Me: "So would you be mad if I ever decided to go with women?"
Mom: "I would rather see you with a woman that treated you right than that sorry sack of s**t you're with now."
now if only i could get enough guts to tell her i actually like both women and men sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Sep 01, 2004 1:55 am
Ninjara my mom was bitching about my husband recently and i half jokingly asked her what she would think if i went with women if he and i ever split. Me: "So would you be mad if I ever decided to go with women?" Mom: "I would rather see you with a woman that treated you right than that sorry sack of s**t you're with now." now if only i could get enough guts to tell her i actually like both women and men sweatdrop Lol, well...at lest she wouldnt be mad sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Sep 01, 2004 1:58 am
RevanStar Ninjara my mom was bitching about my husband recently and i half jokingly asked her what she would think if i went with women if he and i ever split. Me: "So would you be mad if I ever decided to go with women?" Mom: "I would rather see you with a woman that treated you right than that sorry sack of s**t you're with now." now if only i could get enough guts to tell her i actually like both women and men sweatdrop Lol, well...at lest she wouldnt be mad sweatdrop yeah, but i asked that hypathetically. i'm pretty sure she'd fly off her rocker if i said i liked both.
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Posted: Wed Sep 01, 2004 2:04 am
Ninjara RevanStar Ninjara my mom was bitching about my husband recently and i half jokingly asked her what she would think if i went with women if he and i ever split. Me: "So would you be mad if I ever decided to go with women?" Mom: "I would rather see you with a woman that treated you right than that sorry sack of s**t you're with now." now if only i could get enough guts to tell her i actually like both women and men sweatdrop Lol, well...at lest she wouldnt be mad sweatdrop yeah, but i asked that hypathetically. i'm pretty sure she'd fly off her rocker if i said i liked both. Well..you never know.
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2004 7:49 pm
I haven't had the courage to talk about it with my parents yet =( The problem is that I'm still confused...I've told friends and everything, and they're very accepting of me, but I think my parents would freak out. So you could say that I'm a semi-closet case? eek
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