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 Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 3:58 pm
Oh my school is like that too Kimi. And I don't think I'd like kissing vrey much either. Cheek? Sure. Mouth? Nahh... XD
*Luffluffluff on Kimi* I'm glad the feelings are still there though ;D
BUTYEAH. PDA at my school is like DDD:
It's just unnverving seeing a girl get rammed up against a locker with her boyfriend all over her, and vice versa. Alas, I guess it's something to get used to XD
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 5:26 pm
n__n; How about an actual problem to challenge me.
We'll make a trade <3 Huh? About it
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 5:38 pm
Mike, you already know some of my problem. So now I am going to try my best to explain the wole thing.
Right, theres this guy named peter and I think I love him. Allthough I dont know for sure. I have known him for three years almost, and well I want him to open up to me. I somehow think he sometimes pushes me away, I mean we used to talk about everything, now sometimes we dont talk at all. He's always telling me that he likes me around because i make him feel warm inside, but I dont think thats all. It's like hes hiding something from me. Hes such a nice guy, I dont know what I would do if I ever loose him.
I have one more problem. Well I have plenty but I will start off with this.
It seems every time I have a relationship they never last. As an example: This was about a year ago. His name was dave and I met him through some friends. We hit it off really good and loved to be around each other at the first. Then four days later he asked me out. Things were alittle different. But they were good. We did every thign together. Although we had some thing about eachother we dident like. But we made sure when we were with each other we never did them. But I'll get to the point. We were going out for a total of two weeks. One day he said that he wanted to say somethign but was afraid to. And i told him that he dident need to be afraid of nothing with me, that I would never make fun of you nor laugh. Then he said that he loved me, I dident know how to react or think. So I just stood there like a zombie. So he asked me if I were ok. I said I was. Every thing then was kind of weird and turning out wrong. I think i grew very attached to him. And maybe it could have been because he was the first person to tell me they loved me. I think i felt like a cling-on. But I never meant to be none of those things. So then two days later he broke up with me. And it broke my heart because it felt like he tore my heart out and threw it on the ground. It made me think this "Why would he say he loved me if he were going to brake up with me two days later" So he just made it that I won't love or trust so easily. But people learn from there mistakes.
Something weird, he is talking to me again. Well not face to face but on msn and stuff. Hes always like "Hey Renee, do you have a boy friend" I dont answer him because I dont think he should know wether I do or not. But yeah end of that topic.
Another problem, I think I fall in and out of love to easily. But I don't know how to fix it. And it ends up hurting people. I think i dont maybe know how to find the right way to express my feelings for another. Wich makes things very complicated. Heres another example: I wont name no names in this one thou. But I once knew these two guys and they were great friends at first. Then at the same time I started to have feelings for them. I dident know what to think nor to do. So i just did nothing about it. I ended up hurting both of them, because I think i played with both of there hearts. I couldent choose wich treated me better. Because they were both so nice to me. But that was also last year, and we still talk. Just not as well eny more.
Well thats some of my problems. I hope I wasen't ranting to much.
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 5:50 pm
hey M.S i thin k i can help. First of all does peter know about your past relationships?
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 5:54 pm
dragco hey M.S i thin k i can help. First of all does peter know about your past relationships? Well I have mentioned them a couple times. But I don't want to upset him with telling him my past boy friends. I just want it to be about us. Just to let you know were not going out. Yet sometimes we act like. He confuses me.
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 6:06 pm
well the reason he might not want to go out with you is becuase what happened to you last boyfriends..guys may not admitt it but we hate it when girls play with our hearts (expect me i don't got one). He just might be affriad of getting hurt. do this first ask him out to a movie or something that makes both of you feel comfortable (if you go see a scary movie try hanging on to his arm like your scared, guys like to feel like their the brave one..that is if he is that kind if guy) if you have not already, if he wants to take it seriously then go at a pace both of you can handle don't just dive right into it, then change gears when you both are ready and don't be impation with him. try to make him feel like he is wanted be as close to him as you can bujt not to close he feels like he is being suffercated. give him some space at times somtimes we just want to be left alone but not to much space becuase guys are like dogs on a leash give us to much lease and we run away to much and we want to stay away from you all the time. well that is all i hope this works let me how it goes ok.
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 6:18 pm
dragco well the reason he might not want to go out with you is becuase what happened to you last boyfriends..guys may not admitt it but we hate it when girls play with our hearts (expect me i don't got one). He just might be affriad of getting hurt. do this first ask him out to a movie or something that makes both of you feel comfortable (if you go see a scary movie try hanging on to his arm like your scared, guys like to feel like their the brave one..that is if he is that kind if guy) if you have not already, if he wants to take it seriously then go at a pace both of you can handle don't just dive right into it, then change gears when you both are ready and don't be impation with him. try to make him feel like he is wanted be as close to him as you can bujt not to close he feels like he is being suffercated. give him some space at times somtimes we just want to be left alone but not to much space becuase guys are like dogs on a leash give us to much lease and we run away to much and we want to stay away from you all the time. well that is all i hope this works let me how it goes ok. Peter is nothing like that. he loves to be around me at all times. We do every thing together. My thoughts are that maybe he just isent ready. But when he is I am going to be there for him. Always have been. Hes very hard to explain. But like I said before, hes an all out nice guy.
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 6:56 pm
Coco surprised Yay, you stopped by <3
Now to read ninja
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 7:02 pm
"We hurdle adversity for more adversity" -Charlie Brown 1969 <3
I love Charlie Brown.
I actually have no solution for you. T__T; I am to no value in these thorny situations.
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 7:05 pm
Xeroxer "We hurdle adversity for more adversity" -Charlie Brown 1969 <3
I love Charlie Brown.
I actually have no solution for you. T__T; I am to no value in these thorny situations. I think I have a solution for myself.
I beleve time will tell. I think I may need to give things more time now that I think about it.
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 7:05 pm
Xeroxer "I don't want the world to see me, because I don't think they'd understand..."
The true things you learn throughout your whole school yearS is cooperation, you learn to cooperate with other classmates, you also learn motivation, determination, how to organize your time (your agenda) , discinpline, the basics of effect and consequences (detention) Gain althetics abilities, build your creative mind, etc. etc. 1. Love Iris. heart
2. I agree with the quoted part. School is less about actual education, as it is about learning experiences.
3nodding heart heart
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 4:40 am
Spamster Xeroxer "I don't want the world to see me, because I don't think they'd understand..."
The true things you learn throughout your whole school yearS is cooperation, you learn to cooperate with other classmates, you also learn motivation, determination, how to organize your time (your agenda) , discinpline, the basics of effect and consequences (detention) Gain althetics abilities, build your creative mind, etc. etc. 1. Love Iris. heart
2. I agree with the quoted part. School is less about actual education, as it is about learning experiences.
3nodding heart heart Got Msn? I have a bunch of Goo Goo dolls xD <3 Gah, Spam-a-roo, you were suppose to post and disagree with me somewhere. rofl
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 1:15 pm
Tamasaki Leiko Oh my school is like that too Kimi. And I don't think I'd like kissing vrey much either. Cheek? Sure. Mouth? Nahh... XD
*Luffluffluff on Kimi* I'm glad the feelings are still there though ;D
BUTYEAH. PDA at my school is like DDD:
It's just unnverving seeing a girl get rammed up against a locker with her boyfriend all over her, and vice versa. Alas, I guess it's something to get used to XD
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 4:12 pm
Damn those hormones mad
I put your picture away, I wonder where you've been. I can't lookin' at you, while I'm laying next to him...
Feeling the blues? I suggest that duet. I like it. Except for the solo part n_n;
Y'know what I like? I like creating something from experiences that can affect everyone without explaining. Where it hits the general and causes them to ponder and say: "So true"
You know those sayings, "What comes around, goes around" Do you know who created that saying? I sure don't.
Here's one: Quote: Ignore or laugh at the unknown... Either way you're ignorant
Think it rings true? My inspiration was from Charlie Brown, when they were laughing at the newspaper. A girl asked why and they said because they don't understand it.
crying Beautiful and funny
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 5:53 pm
Some girl today walked up to me saying that I shouldn't be so shy. She also told me that I had pretty eyes. sweatdrop I wonder why so many girls have been talking to me lately. It feels kind of wierd. Last year, girls wouldn't even come near me. sweatdrop My friends are starting to envy me, now. gonk
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