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PostPosted: Fri Feb 25, 2011 11:37 pm


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I say it's not. It's frank, but not rude.

I'd much prefer a guy just telling me something like this outright and being clear than to say something that I might misinterpret and cause me to keep pursuing him. Better to suffer a small he
artache here than to keep chasing him when he isn't interested and taken and to turn you down after you've fallen deeper in love and have it destroy you.

Too many people have had their heart broken by people not being clear when it comes to dates and crushes.



This is also true.
PostPosted: Mon Jun 27, 2011 9:10 pm


Yea its rude if it was RL.
But if its on Gaia, it's not that big of a deal.

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 07, 2011 7:17 pm


It's not a kind way of saying it. Yes, there are MANY more ways to say 'No' in a much crueler manner. But this was still a rude way.
PostPosted: Sun Aug 07, 2011 7:57 pm


Just think about what NEEDS to be said versus what you WANT to say.
All that you NEED to say might be, "I'm not interested."
You might need to say it 25 times, but if you don't say ANYTHING else to the person, then there's a good chance she'll get the idea. No matter what the other person says, don't engage in conversation, you don't have to reason.
Saying, "I already have a girlfriend" often leads to, "If he breaks up with her he'll go out with me." and clinging to that dim hope. Saying anything more could lead to speculation.
You're just not interested in her, that's the end of it.

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