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| Should I tell her I love her? |
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 Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 5:37 am
[ElecTr!c]~[6]~[s!x] Ok, so.... theres this chick named steph, and I have been friends with her for a very long time... and then... some where in bettween all those long talks, stupid fights, and silly jokes we made.. I fell in love with her.... But, she is all like... gay/bie hater... soooo.... I have a problem.... I Need Advice! I've had the same problem but when I broke down and poured my heart out to her she said she didnt feel the same but wanted to stay friends. It hurt I admit but I would rather stay her friend than loose her all together.
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Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2006 9:34 am
[ElecTr!c]~[6]~[s!x] Ok, so.... theres this chick named steph, and I have been friends with her for a very long time... and then... some where in bettween all those long talks, stupid fights, and silly jokes we made.. I fell in love with her.... But, she is all like... gay/bie hater... soooo.... I have a problem.... I Need Advice! Dude....I am totally there. Same situation but my girl is straight but we've kissed...and so have she and my other best friend.
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Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2006 9:48 am
I'd suggest against it actually. Too many times I've seen a friendship destroyed because it triedd to go soemwhere it was never suppossed to be. No matter what happens it would DRASTICALLY change you guys relationsihp. you've gotta think aobut even IF hse said yes, would you really be okay with going from friends to lovers.
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Posted: Fri May 19, 2006 10:01 pm
Im in the same boat. Im in love with my best friend.
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Posted: Sat May 20, 2006 12:00 am
I'd have to say don't tell her. If she is a gay/bi hater then obviously nothing will come from you telling her except problems. Confessing your love probably will not change her point of view and in the end you will just lose a friend over it. Sometimes you just have to settle for being friends with someone and not taking it further. Plus, you may also see in time that you aren't actually "in love with her". Sometimes when you spend enough time with someone, you start to fall for them. But it's usually only because of the closeness of the relationship, a sort of.. safety.. that you feel. Unless you are sure that you do really love her, and you are positive that it won't destroy the friendship, I would advise against telling her.
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Posted: Mon May 22, 2006 5:16 am
I voted for "Tell her!" before i read the whole post..
Don't.. she might stop talking to you eek Gay-haters is nothing to play with!
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Posted: Thu May 25, 2006 12:26 pm
I kno it hurts that u cant tell her, i kno how it feels, but if she is a real Gay/Bi hater, then u dont want to hurt ur friendship with her.
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Posted: Fri May 26, 2006 5:10 am
If I wasn't in the same boat as you i'd say tell her...
But I am in love with my best friend too...
Cept i don't... think... she is a gay hater ^^
I just don't tihnk she is gay...
Not that she has said anything XD
I really need to tell her so I can tell you if it's a good idea or not to tell someone 3nodding
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Posted: Sun May 28, 2006 11:44 am
Ask her if she is bi before you do anything.
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 4:01 pm
I was in the same situation and also fell in love with my best friend, and I thought that she was straight. Eventually though, I came out and told her, and she said that she felt the same way. See, sounds all great and everything, but now we don't even talk to each other at all, and I can't even stand to be in the same room as her. I don't know, maybe you'll have better luck with it than I did. But yeah, good luck with what ever you decide to do.
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 6:13 pm
[ElecTr!c]~[6]~[s!x] Ok, so.... theres this chick named steph, and I have been friends with her for a very long time... and then... some where in bettween all those long talks, stupid fights, and silly jokes we made.. I fell in love with her.... But, she is all like... gay/bie hater... soooo.... I have a problem.... I Need Advice! You should do one of those "What if" things where you ask her if it happened, what would she do, and if her reaction is bad then oh well. Your just ******** then.
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