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Soothsayer Jeckal

PostPosted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 3:21 am


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Soothsayer Jeckal
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Lupin The Great
I guess they see that me dating someone not of my race is not apart of our culture or they see as something more deeper than that.
That's kinda strange, But I know what you're talking about. ectept im not pressured, if i ever get a girlfriend, She has to be black or else my mom will cutt my fingers off. I dont even know why, I dont bother questioning it.
...and straight up you don't cross Momma. 3nodding
Ehh, I do it when theres nothing to do.
Well then you're lucky My Momma isn't your Momma.
no, I do pay for it. But Everyonce in a while I kinda weigh out the consiquinces

why am i lucky for that?
Well first because My Momma would hate you for being black. sweatdrop I only have one black friend, and my Momma hated him for four years. Then the fifth year he was accepted as my friend, and the sixth year he was allowed on our property. After seven years he was allowed in my house. With this progress in two years my family will come over to our house and have a family dinner with him.

Momma said shed disown me for dating a white girl, but eventually accept me back into the family if I left her or she got used to it. She said shed castrate me if I dated a black girl and would rather die before even look at me again, and I'm a Mommas boy. 3nodding
PostPosted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 3:24 am


The_Answer_to_Love
I believe that love has no boundaries and people should feel free to date whom ever thay want. As for myself I don't care what race a guy is as long as he respects me and my family. I've never dated someone that wasn't black because Im a little afraid of what their family would say.
I'll date Latinas and Asians, occasionally I'll step outta bounds and go out with a white girl, but there is no chance in hell I would ever cross my Momma like that and date a black girl. Nuh uh. Momma scares me.

Soothsayer Jeckal


Lupin The Great

PostPosted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 4:51 am


Passion_Dragon
Lupin The Great
Honestly I don't think any love is out there for me.
[You seem to have such a dismal outlook on this whole "relationship" thing (or lack thereof). xp I don't understand why it's such a concern. If I could make a suggestion: stop wallowing in self-pity and make a move to ask out that special girl. Even if there's a girl who isn't necessarily "special" to you, you can still ask her out on a date. You never know what will develop, whether the chick is black, white, hispanic, asian or whatever.]
But, theres were your theory is wrong. I'm grossly unattractive, and most of the girls I know just want some "cute thug" and not a humble nice guy. That's why there's no love for me.
PostPosted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 10:42 pm


Lupin The Great
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Lupin The Great
Talim aka Lain
reflectiveD
As long as the guy treats me right I dont care what he looks like.
Same here! Besides, my parents don't mind if I have a boyfriend that is of a different race! After all, I'm mixed. 3nodding
I'm mixed too, but I'm still pressured by family members to date black women. sad
Why's that?
I guess they see that me dating someone not of my race is not apart of our culture or they see as something more deeper than that.
Oh! sweatdrop Well, if I were to date black guy, my parents would feel any different than if I were to date a guy of another race. Although, My grandmother on my mom side said that I should only date asian guys. sad

Ananda Seto


Lupin The Great

PostPosted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 4:41 am


Talim aka Lain
Lupin The Great
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Talim aka Lain
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As long as the guy treats me right I dont care what he looks like.
Same here! Besides, my parents don't mind if I have a boyfriend that is of a different race! After all, I'm mixed. 3nodding
I'm mixed too, but I'm still pressured by family members to date black women. sad
Why's that?
I guess they see that me dating someone not of my race is not apart of our culture or they see as something more deeper than that.
Oh! sweatdrop Well, if I were to date black guy, my parents would feel any different than if I were to date a guy of another race. Although, My grandmother on my mom side said that I should only date asian guys. sad
Lol!!!
PostPosted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 6:20 am


Lupin The Great
Passion_Dragon
Lupin The Great
Honestly I don't think any love is out there for me.
[You seem to have such a dismal outlook on this whole "relationship" thing (or lack thereof). xp I don't understand why it's such a concern. If I could make a suggestion: stop wallowing in self-pity and make a move to ask out that special girl. Even if there's a girl who isn't necessarily "special" to you, you can still ask her out on a date. You never know what will develop, whether the chick is black, white, hispanic, asian or whatever.]
But, theres were your theory is wrong. I'm grossly unattractive, and most of the girls I know just want some "cute thug" and not a humble nice guy. That's why there's no love for me.
[That really wasn't a "theory." But whatev.' You're probably right: most of the girls you know likely wouldn't date someone unattractive. All I'm saying is that doesn't have to be your problem. You're your own person, but if I was in your shoes I would move on beyond that petty "looks" problem and either wait until I was at another point in my life, (beyond highschool), where my personality would be more appreciated, or I would concentrate on something else, like developing friendships. Call it "sappy" if you want, but that's what I would do.

OR, as another option, you can continue to put yourself down and embrace low self-esteem, deciding that you'll never find love and will die a lonely virgin. rolleyes

OR, you can become a rapper (or a millionaire in any occupation): they get tons of a** without having to look good. You'll have silly girls flinging themselves at you well into your 70's if you really become good. 3nodding

OMG, OMG, OR! You can get a decent-paying job and spend hundreds of dollars making yourself look good! Then all your relationship problems would be solved~! surprised ]

Passion_Dragon
Crew


Lupin The Great

PostPosted: Sat Mar 04, 2006 10:15 am


Passion_Dragon
Lupin The Great
Passion_Dragon
Lupin The Great
Honestly I don't think any love is out there for me.
[You seem to have such a dismal outlook on this whole "relationship" thing (or lack thereof). xp I don't understand why it's such a concern. If I could make a suggestion: stop wallowing in self-pity and make a move to ask out that special girl. Even if there's a girl who isn't necessarily "special" to you, you can still ask her out on a date. You never know what will develop, whether the chick is black, white, hispanic, asian or whatever.]
But, theres were your theory is wrong. I'm grossly unattractive, and most of the girls I know just want some "cute thug" and not a humble nice guy. That's why there's no love for me.
[That really wasn't a "theory." But whatev.' You're probably right: most of the girls you know likely wouldn't date someone unattractive. All I'm saying is that doesn't have to be your problem. You're your own person, but if I was in your shoes I would move on beyond that petty "looks" problem and either wait until I was at another point in my life, (beyond highschool), where my personality would be more appreciated, or I would concentrate on something else, like developing friendships. Call it "sappy" if you want, but that's what I would do.

OR, as another option, you can continue to put yourself down and embrace low self-esteem, deciding that you'll never find love and will die a lonely virgin. rolleyes

OR, you can become a rapper (or a millionaire in any occupation): they get tons of a** without having to look good. You'll have silly girls flinging themselves at you well into your 70's if you really become good. 3nodding

OMG, OMG, OR! You can get a decent-paying job and spend hundreds of dollars making yourself look good! Then all your relationship problems would be solved~! surprised ]
Or I could just hang myself. lol But anyway I still stand by my view that love isn't for me and I will never be attractive and I'll die as a lonely rich man. Amd why on earth would give my life earnings to some gold digging tramps, come on now.
PostPosted: Sat Mar 04, 2006 2:14 pm


Lupin The Great
Passion_Dragon
Lupin The Great
Passion_Dragon
Lupin The Great
Honestly I don't think any love is out there for me.
[You seem to have such a dismal outlook on this whole "relationship" thing (or lack thereof). xp I don't understand why it's such a concern. If I could make a suggestion: stop wallowing in self-pity and make a move to ask out that special girl. Even if there's a girl who isn't necessarily "special" to you, you can still ask her out on a date. You never know what will develop, whether the chick is black, white, hispanic, asian or whatever.]
But, theres were your theory is wrong. I'm grossly unattractive, and most of the girls I know just want some "cute thug" and not a humble nice guy. That's why there's no love for me.
[That really wasn't a "theory." But whatev.' You're probably right: most of the girls you know likely wouldn't date someone unattractive. All I'm saying is that doesn't have to be your problem. You're your own person, but if I was in your shoes I would move on beyond that petty "looks" problem and either wait until I was at another point in my life, (beyond highschool), where my personality would be more appreciated, or I would concentrate on something else, like developing friendships. Call it "sappy" if you want, but that's what I would do.

OR, as another option, you can continue to put yourself down and embrace low self-esteem, deciding that you'll never find love and will die a lonely virgin. rolleyes

OR, you can become a rapper (or a millionaire in any occupation): they get tons of a** without having to look good. You'll have silly girls flinging themselves at you well into your 70's if you really become good. 3nodding

OMG, OMG, OR! You can get a decent-paying job and spend hundreds of dollars making yourself look good! Then all your relationship problems would be solved~! surprised ]
Or I could just hang myself. lol But anyway I still stand by my view that love isn't for me and I will never be attractive and I'll die as a lonely rich man. Amd why on earth would give my life earnings to some gold digging tramps, come on now.
What did I tell you If you think you won't then you won't. Just believe and try stop being stupid.

Revolutionary01


Lupin The Great

PostPosted: Sat Mar 04, 2006 2:34 pm


Revolutionary01
Lupin The Great
Passion_Dragon
Lupin The Great
Passion_Dragon
Lupin The Great
Honestly I don't think any love is out there for me.
[You seem to have such a dismal outlook on this whole "relationship" thing (or lack thereof). xp I don't understand why it's such a concern. If I could make a suggestion: stop wallowing in self-pity and make a move to ask out that special girl. Even if there's a girl who isn't necessarily "special" to you, you can still ask her out on a date. You never know what will develop, whether the chick is black, white, hispanic, asian or whatever.]
But, theres were your theory is wrong. I'm grossly unattractive, and most of the girls I know just want some "cute thug" and not a humble nice guy. That's why there's no love for me.
[That really wasn't a "theory." But whatev.' You're probably right: most of the girls you know likely wouldn't date someone unattractive. All I'm saying is that doesn't have to be your problem. You're your own person, but if I was in your shoes I would move on beyond that petty "looks" problem and either wait until I was at another point in my life, (beyond highschool), where my personality would be more appreciated, or I would concentrate on something else, like developing friendships. Call it "sappy" if you want, but that's what I would do.

OR, as another option, you can continue to put yourself down and embrace low self-esteem, deciding that you'll never find love and will die a lonely virgin. rolleyes

OR, you can become a rapper (or a millionaire in any occupation): they get tons of a** without having to look good. You'll have silly girls flinging themselves at you well into your 70's if you really become good. 3nodding

OMG, OMG, OR! You can get a decent-paying job and spend hundreds of dollars making yourself look good! Then all your relationship problems would be solved~! surprised ]
Or I could just hang myself. lol But anyway I still stand by my view that love isn't for me and I will never be attractive and I'll die as a lonely rich man. Amd why on earth would give my life earnings to some gold digging tramps, come on now.
What did I tell you If you think you won't then you won't. Just believe and try stop being stupid.
But I'm not being stupid.
PostPosted: Sat Mar 04, 2006 2:41 pm


Lupin The Great
Revolutionary01
Lupin The Great
Passion_Dragon
Lupin The Great
But, theres were your theory is wrong. I'm grossly unattractive, and most of the girls I know just want some "cute thug" and not a humble nice guy. That's why there's no love for me.
[That really wasn't a "theory." But whatev.' You're probably right: most of the girls you know likely wouldn't date someone unattractive. All I'm saying is that doesn't have to be your problem. You're your own person, but if I was in your shoes I would move on beyond that petty "looks" problem and either wait until I was at another point in my life, (beyond highschool), where my personality would be more appreciated, or I would concentrate on something else, like developing friendships. Call it "sappy" if you want, but that's what I would do.

OR, as another option, you can continue to put yourself down and embrace low self-esteem, deciding that you'll never find love and will die a lonely virgin. rolleyes

OR, you can become a rapper (or a millionaire in any occupation): they get tons of a** without having to look good. You'll have silly girls flinging themselves at you well into your 70's if you really become good. 3nodding

OMG, OMG, OR! You can get a decent-paying job and spend hundreds of dollars making yourself look good! Then all your relationship problems would be solved~! surprised ]
Or I could just hang myself. lol But anyway I still stand by my view that love isn't for me and I will never be attractive and I'll die as a lonely rich man. Amd why on earth would give my life earnings to some gold digging tramps, come on now.
What did I tell you If you think you won't then you won't. Just believe and try stop being stupid.
But I'm not being stupid.

Yes you are you are giving up hope where hope is aboundant. There are millions of people out there and somewhere there will be someone for you. Mathmatically and logically you are being stupid.

Revolutionary01


The_Answer_to_Love

PostPosted: Sat Mar 04, 2006 3:03 pm


Soothsayer Jeckal
The_Answer_to_Love
I believe that love has no boundaries and people should feel free to date whom ever thay want. As for myself I don't care what race a guy is as long as he respects me and my family. I've never dated someone that wasn't black because Im a little afraid of what their family would say.
I'll date Latinas and Asians, occasionally I'll step outta bounds and go out with a white girl, but there is no chance in hell I would ever cross my Momma like that and date a black girl. Nuh uh. Momma scares me.


So your Mom doesn't have a problem with you having an inter-racial relationship just as long as its not with a black girl? Thats why Im afraid to actually date outside my race. Even when I date black guys I have to answer race questions because their families always think Im hispanic.
PostPosted: Sat Mar 04, 2006 6:27 pm


Revolutionary01
Lupin The Great
Revolutionary01
Lupin The Great
Passion_Dragon
Lupin The Great
But, theres were your theory is wrong. I'm grossly unattractive, and most of the girls I know just want some "cute thug" and not a humble nice guy. That's why there's no love for me.
[That really wasn't a "theory." But whatev.' You're probably right: most of the girls you know likely wouldn't date someone unattractive. All I'm saying is that doesn't have to be your problem. You're your own person, but if I was in your shoes I would move on beyond that petty "looks" problem and either wait until I was at another point in my life, (beyond highschool), where my personality would be more appreciated, or I would concentrate on something else, like developing friendships. Call it "sappy" if you want, but that's what I would do.

OR, as another option, you can continue to put yourself down and embrace low self-esteem, deciding that you'll never find love and will die a lonely virgin. rolleyes

OR, you can become a rapper (or a millionaire in any occupation): they get tons of a** without having to look good. You'll have silly girls flinging themselves at you well into your 70's if you really become good. 3nodding

OMG, OMG, OR! You can get a decent-paying job and spend hundreds of dollars making yourself look good! Then all your relationship problems would be solved~! surprised ]
Or I could just hang myself. lol But anyway I still stand by my view that love isn't for me and I will never be attractive and I'll die as a lonely rich man. Amd why on earth would give my life earnings to some gold digging tramps, come on now.
What did I tell you If you think you won't then you won't. Just believe and try stop being stupid.
But I'm not being stupid.

Yes you are you are giving up hope where hope is aboundant. There are millions of people out there and somewhere there will be someone for you. Mathmatically and logically you are being stupid.
Ok maybe I'm being lazy here, but still I'm almost in college I'm still single.

Lupin The Great


Soothsayer Jeckal

PostPosted: Sat Mar 04, 2006 8:02 pm


The_Answer_to_Love
Soothsayer Jeckal
The_Answer_to_Love
I believe that love has no boundaries and people should feel free to date whom ever thay want. As for myself I don't care what race a guy is as long as he respects me and my family. I've never dated someone that wasn't black because Im a little afraid of what their family would say.
I'll date Latinas and Asians, occasionally I'll step outta bounds and go out with a white girl, but there is no chance in hell I would ever cross my Momma like that and date a black girl. Nuh uh. Momma scares me.


So your Mom doesn't have a problem with you having an inter-racial relationship just as long as its not with a black girl? Thats why Im afraid to actually date outside my race. Even when I date black guys I have to answer race questions because their families always think Im hispanic.


No, The only race my Momma would accept me dating other than my own is Asian. She would hate me for dating a white girl and she would probably die if I dated a black girl.
PostPosted: Sat Mar 04, 2006 8:03 pm


Lupin The Great
Revolutionary01
Lupin The Great
Revolutionary01
Lupin The Great
Or I could just hang myself. lol But anyway I still stand by my view that love isn't for me and I will never be attractive and I'll die as a lonely rich man. Amd why on earth would give my life earnings to some gold digging tramps, come on now.
What did I tell you If you think you won't then you won't. Just believe and try stop being stupid.
But I'm not being stupid.

Yes you are you are giving up hope where hope is aboundant. There are millions of people out there and somewhere there will be someone for you. Mathmatically and logically you are being stupid.
Ok maybe I'm being lazy here, but still I'm almost in college I'm still single.
It sounds as if dating to you is more of a social status thing.

Soothsayer Jeckal


Lupin The Great

PostPosted: Sat Mar 04, 2006 10:01 pm


Soothsayer Jeckal
Lupin The Great
Revolutionary01
Lupin The Great
Revolutionary01
Lupin The Great
Or I could just hang myself. lol But anyway I still stand by my view that love isn't for me and I will never be attractive and I'll die as a lonely rich man. Amd why on earth would give my life earnings to some gold digging tramps, come on now.
What did I tell you If you think you won't then you won't. Just believe and try stop being stupid.
But I'm not being stupid.

Yes you are you are giving up hope where hope is aboundant. There are millions of people out there and somewhere there will be someone for you. Mathmatically and logically you are being stupid.
Ok maybe I'm being lazy here, but still I'm almost in college I'm still single.
It sounds as if dating to you is more of a social status thing.
In a way yes, but isn't it to most people....
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