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 Posted: Wed Oct 12, 2005 8:22 am
my family knows, my brothers are cool with it because i bring home the cute girls, and my dad just wants me to be happy and he is glad that he dosent have to worrie about me being pregant any time soon , my mom is somewhat dissapointed because i couldnt go to my senior prom in high school because we didnt have many girls like me in highschool , they found out when by junior year they had never seen me even try to date a guy , and my dad caught me making out with the neighbors daughter who was a grade under me . unfortunatly it was a one time thing she didnt like it like i did
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Posted: Wed Oct 12, 2005 3:14 pm
sadly, my fam doesn't know I'm bi. My little sister does though, but not my mom and dad
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Posted: Mon Oct 17, 2005 11:03 am
Yes and no. LOL. My mom was the first to know, then both my aunts and uncles, then my brother. I haven't told anyone else because my family is asian on one side (sooo not accepting) and hillbilly on the other (again, sooo not accepting) I don't think I will ever be able to tell them.. crying
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Posted: Mon Oct 17, 2005 10:11 pm
lovablehuggablebichik if my family found out i would get kiked out of the house & the family ... crying
Join the club ~.~
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Posted: Tue Oct 18, 2005 8:04 am
lovablehuggablebichik if my family found out i would get kiked out of the house & the family ... crying thats sad.. i hate closedminded people! they should accept u no matter wut! my step-brother is gay and his boyfriend and him were living here with us..its nothing to be ashamed of.. i think of it as if ur happy im happy!!!
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Posted: Mon Oct 24, 2005 11:45 pm
,y parents don know im bi yet my mom wont care but my dad dis-own me he a red neck but all my freinds know im bi but there always that one anoying kid who make funn of me being gay
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Posted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 12:31 pm
nope my parents dont know
and they are not gonna find out for a while
thats only because they would flip if i told them
and they'd probly kick me out onto the street
so im planning on telling them either when i never have to see them again or accidently if they catch me making out with a guy or best of all on their death beds
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Posted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 12:53 pm
I haven't told my family. I don't know for sure why I should... It's none of their business. It's not like I am afraid of telling them, I just don't know why it should bother them or why I should tell them. It's my own life and not theirs...
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Posted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 1:00 pm
Lalobee I haven't told my family. I don't know for sure why I should... It's none of their business. It's not like I am afraid of telling them, I just don't know why it should bother them or why I should tell them. It's my own life and not theirs... I agree with the whole idea of one's love life not being anybody's business. However, I am the type of person that needs to share important information with the ones that I love. If I had a bf, my family would be the first to know, my friends would be next in line. I want my family to be able to share my life completely. I don't want to have to censor myself or change pronouns just to please people. But then again...that's just my opinion. You have to play with the cards that you are dealt. If you are in a situation where you can't or don't find it necessary to out yourself...then more power to you. You do what you have to, you know? Sorry, ramdon rant. sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 6:23 pm
yes they know im bi .
my family prefer me to be bi or lesbian.........they said its so they wont have to wry about me getting pregnet or ne thing...i think its funny.
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Posted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 11:36 pm
my parents don't know that i'm bi and dispite the fact they said they would fully support me if i come out and said that i was bi or gay they would fully support me on it but i know they would make fun of me like not crule teasing but jokitive teasing but it would never stop sorta thing, it's kinda to explain but yah it would not be fun for me in the long run
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Posted: Sun Oct 30, 2005 7:07 am
WiccanJoe Lalobee I haven't told my family. I don't know for sure why I should... It's none of their business. It's not like I am afraid of telling them, I just don't know why it should bother them or why I should tell them. It's my own life and not theirs... I agree with the whole idea of one's love life not being anybody's business. However, I am the type of person that needs to share important information with the ones that I love. If I had a bf, my family would be the first to know, my friends would be next in line. I want my family to be able to share my life completely. I don't want to have to censor myself or change pronouns just to please people. But then again...that's just my opinion. You have to play with the cards that you are dealt. If you are in a situation where you can't or don't find it necessary to out yourself...then more power to you. You do what you have to, you know? Sorry, ramdon rant. sweatdrop
I would have to agree with WiccanJoe, that's exactly how I am too..
Though I can sure as hell see where Lalobee is coming from..
I'm just the kind of person that always tells everything to their parents.. ^^ And I'm fine with that.. The reason being that parents will always be there for you, and friends might not.. It's the whole unconditional love thing ^^
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Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2005 5:00 pm
Never be ashamed of your sexual affiliation!
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Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2005 8:33 pm
Not my extended family, but my immediate family knows. My dad couldn't care less (though it's more of a gender bias thing than anything else, if it were my brother who was bi instead of me, he'd have a fit instead of shrugging it off). My mom isn't really comfortable with it (though it has been over a year since I told her rolleyes ) but she's still really supportive. My sibs really don't care, if anything, it's made them a tad more sensitive to GBLT issues (One of my brothers used to be pretty homophobic, but he got over it after I came out, and my little sister started telling her friends to stop saying things like "that's so gay"). Good kids (Well, for the most part wink )
It's great having them know, it's a real load off not to have to keep it a secret. Just little things, like if I have to go somewhere for GSA, I can get a ride and not worry about it. Or I can wear my pride necklaces without having to tuck them in my shirt when my dad is around. And, even though I'm fairly good at it, I hate lying, so I'm glad I don't have to.
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Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2005 9:00 pm
Hey
Uh, my philosophy is that the family needs to know, only if they go looking for an answer like that.
Whose parents walk up and say, "Hey Danny, I think you need to change the cat boxes, they're getting dirty... OH, and by the way are you bi?"
*With his nose pinched by one hand, and the other scooping out a pile of a skum*
"Yah, Bmomb!"
If something comes up, like you're hooking up for a long term relationship, don't go hide in an ally, and don't let them see you together at Chippendales. If it comes up, it's something they have to accept. And if you get kicked out, live with your hubby.
No, my parents don't know. But if my parents ask, I'll definately tell the truth. I'm not too ashamed, it's just something that people only need to find out if they go looking for it. In all honesty they'll probubly just give me a bunch of s**t about it. In fact, the only thing that may bother my Mom(my Dad wouldn't mind too much) is letting it get around her side of the family. Again, people only need to know, if they come looking for it, and make sure your parents/family/friends, know it!
If it's something holding weight on your back, make sure to unload it on to somebody important, like a friend or sibling if you don't think your parents should know. But it's a good thing for em to know, especially if they notice a rainbow band around your wrist ^_--
Short Summary
1. Don't Lie
2. Don't be Ashamed
3. Don't boast, brag, or let others gossip.
4. Don't kill yourself over it. Let the good guys know.
Just a little wisdom I've picked up on my short time "Out"... And I think I got it down. I hoped I helped.
Love You!
Danny
P.S. I need friends to talk to, believe it or not. Give me a call, add me to friends, PM me!
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