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SamuraiKoala
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PostPosted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 3:07 pm


BOLON
Princess Carwash
I consider emotional cheating, when something is going on emotionally, but not physically, so yes, something like that.

but if it's a friendship.... a very close one.... they never say "I love you" or "I want to be more than friends". They just talk... Would you think that's cheating?
"cheating" is any betrayal of trust, weather it be physical, emotional, or (relatively) spiritual, or anything else. So even if it's just a "close friendship" and nothing is ever said, if your closer than you no you should be and don't do anything about it, or feel that you need to lie about it or cover it up, than it is in fact cheating.
PostPosted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 3:09 pm


Isis_Koku73
im in a long distance relationship now and i met him here on gaia in a military guild.
military guild? which one?

SamuraiKoala
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BOLON
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PostPosted: Sat Jan 31, 2009 12:12 pm


SamuraiKoala
Isis_Koku73
im in a long distance relationship now and i met him here on gaia in a military guild.
military guild? which one?

someone have the link in his/her sig.... I think that she is the person
PostPosted: Sat Jan 31, 2009 12:49 pm


SamuraiKoala
BOLON
Princess Carwash
I consider emotional cheating, when something is going on emotionally, but not physically, so yes, something like that.

but if it's a friendship.... a very close one.... they never say "I love you" or "I want to be more than friends". They just talk... Would you think that's cheating?
"cheating" is any betrayal of trust, weather it be physical, emotional, or (relatively) spiritual, or anything else. So even if it's just a "close friendship" and nothing is ever said, if your closer than you no you should be and don't do anything about it, or feel that you need to lie about it or cover it up, than it is in fact cheating.

so... It's right to have a "close friendship" but just if you don't lie about it?

BOLON
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SamuraiKoala
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 02, 2009 1:44 pm


BOLON
SamuraiKoala
BOLON
Princess Carwash
I consider emotional cheating, when something is going on emotionally, but not physically, so yes, something like that.

but if it's a friendship.... a very close one.... they never say "I love you" or "I want to be more than friends". They just talk... Would you think that's cheating?
"cheating" is any betrayal of trust, weather it be physical, emotional, or (relatively) spiritual, or anything else. So even if it's just a "close friendship" and nothing is ever said, if your closer than you no you should be and don't do anything about it, or feel that you need to lie about it or cover it up, than it is in fact cheating.

so... It's right to have a "close friendship" but just if you don't lie about it?
as long as its not closer than anyone involved thinks you should be.
PostPosted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 4:52 pm


Well, If i was talking like am now no.. But to talk about meeting, dating and stuff no... I Married.. I made real strong committment to my partner, my best friend... I would never hurt him in that way...Cheating would damage my trust, my vow and my committment to us...Not to mention to hurt my young adult kids... I am a role model to my family...Why would I take the chance and ruin all of that...I worked to hard at my family, and the love my life to keep him around..Having friendship with a man is ok.. But nothing more..

ladyNightingale2


I_Am_Walking_On_Air

PostPosted: Mon Feb 09, 2009 8:45 am


I met my husband on the internet and I was actually engaged to someone else and left them for my husband, then just friend on the net.The craziest thing was I never saw his pic so I had no idea what he looked like.I just knew I liked him, and now we are married with two kids smile ..
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