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 Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 6:25 pm
As life goes along, all the people you know are in band. You spend more time with them than anyone else, especially if you have more than one musical group, such as Jazz or percussion ensemble.
The only two important crushes I've had were on guys in band. One tuba, one trumpet. The trumpet crush has lasted for a year now. ^__^
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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 3:51 pm
i think its because we dont exclude each other so they cant turn us down because we're a band nerd cause then we can just say it back to him/her.... so HAHAHAHAHA!!!! So no rejection which we humans fear!!!!! (unless ur not a human....) biggrin sweatdrop 4laugh whee
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 5:54 pm
Most bandies like bandies cuz they have things in common, plus you get to see them all the time!
I'm a sax player but for some reason, i usually like the brass boys....it makes things a little less awkward when you break up cuz they're not in your section so u can avoid them a little if it was a bad break up
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 7:31 pm
It's 'cause (in my case) Marching band kids in particular, basically have to get down to their skivvies in the same room for competitions. And were basically a tight knit family. It's hard to not get relationships in that kinda environment. (one of the only school organizations that's co-ed also helps)
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 8:00 pm
i think its because we have at least 1 thing we can talk about.
so far this year ive had a crush on
2 percussionists
a trombone player
a clarinet player
and i now have a crush on a trumpet!the only guy trupet player who isnt annoying!plus hes HOT!
ive seen band ppl date other band ppl, it ussally is an off & on kinda thing but it usally didnt end badly!(suprising huh?)ive acutally havent dated a band person,well i havent dated any1(just dont want a bf)
but the bad thing is i know i wont go out with my current crush though sad its because i got asked out by this 1 guy, i turned him down. then i have my next class with my crush(who sits next 2 me) i heard him talking 2 his friends & this is what he said "i cant believe CJ! he asked out her *points 2 me* 4 me! i dont even like her!" CJ was the guy who asked me out!
edit: do u think an oboe player goes well with a trumpet player??
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Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 9:35 am
Let's see...my first crush was on a trumpet/french horn. He happened to be my first boyfriend as well <3.
Then my list goes:
-alto sax
-alto sax
-trumpet
-bari sax (dated)
-tuba (dated)
-tenor sax
-tenor sax/bassoon
-baritone
-tenor sax
-alto sax
-tenor sax
-baritone
yeah...as you can see, i've only dated 3 bandies, but i ended up moving schools so that might be why my list is enormous XD
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Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 10:53 am
That's the way it is for most peer groups; cheerleaders ad football/basketball layers tend to date each other, band kids tend to date band kids...
Just the way the story goes. biggrin
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Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 2:05 pm
Because we share common interests, we have fun together, and in all honesty band people just make awesome partners xd
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Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 8:27 pm
It probably has something to do with the stuff you have in common. you see the person all the time at practice and you have similar taste in music and you can talk music. You know all the same people and you suffer the same teasing lol
Band Geek For Life
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Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 11:02 pm
I would have to agree. I have had a crush on a guy in high school for the two years he was there. Idk if he knew or not, but we always sat together on the bus everywhere and sat together and so forth. I was his freshman too. He adopted me his junior year and we still talk whenever i'm not busy with other things. He was a Tenor sax player too. Then in middle school i had a major crush on a tuba player, the only one in the band at that time. He told me last this summer that he had liked me the whole time (tuba player) and but couldn't go out with anyone other than a morman. But i agree that we get to see them everyday of our band career and you can't help but get close to them. I have a great bf now and he isn't in band. Idk if he was in band but I love him to death.
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Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 11:35 pm
Well i got one for ya. What about falling for sumone from a rival band. I dated this chicka and we had more than i thought in common. It was pretty awsome. We had to part ways after hight school thoiugh. I was crushed crying
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 1:43 pm
Because I'm attracted to talent like crazy.
Plus I know I can trust band guys.
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Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 5:29 am
Yea same for me iv had crushes on 2 flutests..(only one i dated..and then one a fellow trombonist took her from me gonk ...meh oh well >.>)and heck one of our BDs his wife was in his band and they both played french horn
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Posted: Sat Feb 02, 2008 10:42 am
we are so close, its like a big family and when your around someone that much it just clicks, my boyfriends a trumpet player and weve been together a year and a bit more than a month now, and its the greatest.
plus you allways want someone to sit with on the bus trips..........
any ways how often are you going to see a football player dateing a band nerd. the chances are quite slim.
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Posted: Sat Feb 02, 2008 10:49 am
I've been dating a clarinetist in band since July 2 years ago, and it's been awesome.
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