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Boys are icky
yes indeed
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only most of the time
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Total Votes : 41


panzer45
Vice Captain

PostPosted: Thu Aug 18, 2005 2:36 pm


phoenix_echo
mormonchika07
Torch24601
PDA...ewwww. I other people are around then please limit yourself to holding hands and hugging, if you absolutely mst then a kiss on the cheeck. But watching other people make out is truly gross. I think a lot of PDA-ers are just insecure and are trying to flaunt their relationship so everyone knows how close they are. I could be wrong.


um yeah, it is really sick when people make out in public...yeah, i agree w/ torch...

stare I said A kiss. Not a make-out! gonk
lol i agree with mormonchika, it is sick
PostPosted: Thu Aug 18, 2005 3:21 pm


''specially when you are in the way of my locker... get the heck to class already jeez... stare evil

AmmonSuperCombo
Vice Captain


Yume_Okami

PostPosted: Thu Aug 18, 2005 9:35 pm


there is a guy whom i care about very much.......but he no longer appears to return such emotions.....and i don't know what to do......this summer has been so horrible, and there seems to be no single person with time and/or paitence to listen to what i have to say.....
PostPosted: Fri Aug 19, 2005 5:52 am


that sucks!!! Hey that's what we are for!! Rant until your heart drops (just a saying, think)!!!!!! we'll listen and comment!

Fejj


Yume_Okami

PostPosted: Fri Aug 19, 2005 6:21 am


well, here's the story:

1st week of may: my (at the time) boyfriend finds that his brother has not moved in nearly 24 hours.....he is in a dibetic coma w/ a blood sugar level of 1200. that weekend i come home from college for a few days to celebrate my cousin's birthday, and he avoids me.

2nd week of may: i come home from college for the summer and he continues to avoid me until that weekend....then he tells me that he is leaving.....and doesn't know when, or even if, he'll be back.....my uncle in OR dies, and i am unable to attend his funeral.

3rd week of may: he leaves, but calls the next day saying that he's had an epiphany....and will be returning home very soon.....he comes back, but still avoids me most of the time......

2nd week of june: he breaks up with me over msn instant message......three days later my aunt in KY dies.......

3rd week of june: i go to my aunt's funeral in KY, returning home on thursday, and going back to work friday......i get a phonecall at work......my aunt in OK has been killed in a car accident.....

4th week of june: i go to my aunt's funeral in OK.......upon my return, i do something that seems to be the logical thing to do, but such offends my father....he calls me and yells at me for being inconsiderate of his feelings......i get upset at him for yelling at me without reasonable cause......

1st week of august: i am not invited to my father's birthday party....i don't even know about it until the day after.....

and all this time, i am miserable because i do believe that i love my ex-boyfriend....i finally took a chance....he is the first guy i've ever "officially" dated...my being almost 20 years old.....and if he can suddenly 'not love me anymore', who's to say that any other relationships i have will last? i know that he went through a lot when his brother got sick, but i hoped that such an occasion would cause him to draw me closer.....not lock me out entirely......
PostPosted: Fri Aug 19, 2005 6:38 am


Yume_Okami
well, here's the story:

1st week of may: my (at the time) boyfriend finds that his brother has not moved in nearly 24 hours.....he is in a dibetic coma w/ a blood sugar level of 1200. that weekend i come home from college for a few days to celebrate my cousin's birthday, and he avoids me.

2nd week of may: i come home from college for the summer and he continues to avoid me until that weekend....then he tells me that he is leaving.....and doesn't know when, or even if, he'll be back.....my uncle in OR dies, and i am unable to attend his funeral.

3rd week of may: he leaves, but calls the next day saying that he's had an epiphany....and will be returning home very soon.....he comes back, but still avoids me most of the time......

2nd week of june: he breaks up with me over msn instant message......three days later my aunt in KY dies.......

3rd week of june: i go to my aunt's funeral in KY, returning home on thursday, and going back to work friday......i get a phonecall at work......my aunt in OK has been killed in a car accident.....

4th week of june: i go to my aunt's funeral in OK.......upon my return, i do something that seems to be the logical thing to do, but such offends my father....he calls me and yells at me for being inconsiderate of his feelings......i get upset at him for yelling at me without reasonable cause......

1st week of august: i am not invited to my father's birthday party....i don't even know about it until the day after.....

and all this time, i am miserable because i do believe that i love my ex-boyfriend....i finally took a chance....he is the first guy i've ever "officially" dated...my being almost 20 years old.....and if he can suddenly 'not love me anymore', who's to say that any other relationships i have will last? i know that he went through a lot when his brother got sick, but i hoped that such an occasion would cause him to draw me closer.....not lock me out entirely......



um that really sucks...um i really dont no what to say...it may be hard at times but i try to remember these sayings - "everything happens for a reason" and "God will never give you to much to handle"....sorry about what happened....

mormonchika07


gijis02

PostPosted: Fri Aug 19, 2005 8:17 am


Ouch... That can't be much fun. And to lose a lot of the people you care for...
Well, with your family stuff, there's not much to do except wait for the pain to go away and try not to think about it too much. They're in a better place now.
As for the guy... I wouldn't chase him. I've known too many people who have chased after the wrong guy and gotten hurt by them later. It sounds like he's just realized that he doesn't care for you as much as he thought. You may be in love with him, but love in a two way thing. It's his loss that he doesn't know what he's lost.
PostPosted: Fri Aug 19, 2005 10:55 am


Yume_Okami
well, here's the story:

1st week of may: my (at the time) boyfriend finds that his brother has not moved in nearly 24 hours.....he is in a dibetic coma w/ a blood sugar level of 1200. that weekend i come home from college for a few days to celebrate my cousin's birthday, and he avoids me.

2nd week of may: i come home from college for the summer and he continues to avoid me until that weekend....then he tells me that he is leaving.....and doesn't know when, or even if, he'll be back.....my uncle in OR dies, and i am unable to attend his funeral.

3rd week of may: he leaves, but calls the next day saying that he's had an epiphany....and will be returning home very soon.....he comes back, but still avoids me most of the time......

2nd week of june: he breaks up with me over msn instant message......three days later my aunt in KY dies.......

3rd week of june: i go to my aunt's funeral in KY, returning home on thursday, and going back to work friday......i get a phonecall at work......my aunt in OK has been killed in a car accident.....

4th week of june: i go to my aunt's funeral in OK.......upon my return, i do something that seems to be the logical thing to do, but such offends my father....he calls me and yells at me for being inconsiderate of his feelings......i get upset at him for yelling at me without reasonable cause......

1st week of august: i am not invited to my father's birthday party....i don't even know about it until the day after.....

and all this time, i am miserable because i do believe that i love my ex-boyfriend....i finally took a chance....he is the first guy i've ever "officially" dated...my being almost 20 years old.....and if he can suddenly 'not love me anymore', who's to say that any other relationships i have will last? i know that he went through a lot when his brother got sick, but i hoped that such an occasion would cause him to draw me closer.....not lock me out entirely......
*insert big hug here*
the guy isnt worth the hassle if he wont even explain why he's doing what he's doing. you can find better.
i have found that often the best way to get through life is with a laugh in your voice and a smile on your face.

ChivalrysRevival
Captain


yay4bunnys

PostPosted: Fri Aug 19, 2005 6:14 pm


i know nothing about this kind of thing, but i agree w/ ammon. if i were you, i would just forget about him. find another of the many other fishies in the sea.

anyway, im too young to be worrying about this kind of thing, but i like a guy who's 2 1/2 years older than me, and i dont' know what to do! plus, on account of that fact that i don't feel the age i am, i feel a lot older, i have no interest in guys my age.............

plus, i have never had much luck w/ guys......i'll prob'ly be one of those old ladies w/ a bazillion kitties..........help!!!
PostPosted: Sat Aug 20, 2005 7:25 am


yay4bunnys
i know nothing about this kind of thing, but i agree w/ ammon. if i were you, i would just forget about him. find another of the many other fishies in the sea.

anyway, im too young to be worrying about this kind of thing, but i like a guy who's 2 1/2 years older than me, and i dont' know what to do! plus, on account of that fact that i don't feel the age i am, i feel a lot older, i have no interest in guys my age.............

plus, i have never had much luck w/ guys......i'll prob'ly be one of those old ladies w/ a bazillion kitties..........help!!!



i ahve no idea what to say...mainly cuz the guy i like is like 3 years older than me! hte other guy i kinda sorta like is 2 years older than me! i have no interest either in guys my age, so yeah....and ur not gonna end up w/ a bazillion cats...i'll make sure u get the rihgt guy! twisted lol....j/k....but u will find the right guy eventually....thats what i tell myself...

mormonchika07


yay4bunnys

PostPosted: Sat Aug 20, 2005 3:39 pm


its just so frustrating!!!!!!!! grrrrrr......... mad
PostPosted: Sat Aug 20, 2005 6:50 pm


yay4bunnys
i know nothing about this kind of thing, but i agree w/ ammon. if i were you, i would just forget about him. find another of the many other fishies in the sea.

anyway, im too young to be worrying about this kind of thing, but i like a guy who's 2 1/2 years older than me, and i dont' know what to do! plus, on account of that fact that i don't feel the age i am, i feel a lot older, i have no interest in guys my age.............

plus, i have never had much luck w/ guys......i'll prob'ly be one of those old ladies w/ a bazillion kitties..........help!!!


You mention being young.. meaning, you've probably got at least ten of those "prime dating years" left. Don't worry about becoming an old cat-lady yet.

Now let's see, if you like a guy that is 2.5 years older than you, go out with him. Provided he's worthy of you, of course. He doesn't even have to like you back at first, really. In fact, it may be better if he's not out for a physical relationship, for numerous reasons. But, just get to know the guy well enough that you can decide that you want to move up to the "physical" level. (Not overly physical, mind you.)

*ahem* So basically, if you're interested in the guy, just become his friend, with nothing attached. If you're meant to be in a more romantic relationship, you'll both figure it out eventually and it just falls into place. Don't worry so much. wink

[Keign]


yay4bunnys

PostPosted: Sun Aug 21, 2005 10:09 am


thx!! *hugglomp* but there's a problem. at the age we're at, it just seems a big difference. like, im 16 and he's 18, almost 19. my parents would never approve. plus, he's probably got a g1rlfriend and is most likely planning to go on a mission.........gggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.......
PostPosted: Sun Aug 21, 2005 10:53 am


yay4bunnys
thx!! *hugglomp* but there's a problem. at the age we're at, it just seems a big difference. like, im 16 and he's 18, almost 19. my parents would never approve. plus, he's probably got a friend and is most likely planning to go on a mission.........gggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.......


well, if its meant to be, when gets back from his mission you'll be like 18/19, and adult, and ready to date an RM!

jbs2763


Unsung Guardian

PostPosted: Sun Aug 21, 2005 4:17 pm


hmmm, I'm kinda slow... @_@ so many of you are LDS!
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