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 Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 12:50 pm
@FoxyChoklatRobot2: Just do what you feel is right in your heart. wink
And try not to worry about this too much... not good for your health. 3nodding
@kyo: How many partners have you had? You seem to be very... active.
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 12:53 pm
Tokioka @FoxyChoklatRobot2: Just do what you feel is right in your heart. wink And try not to worry about this too much... not good for your health. 3nodding @kyo: How many partners have you had? You seem to be very... active. yeah... it's a little scary...
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 12:58 pm
kyoslove74 FoxyChoklatRobot2 Tokioka FoxyChoklatRobot2 Tokioka It's sort of like that classic 'sleeping with teacher' scenario. I think you should be very careful if you're doing stuff at school... if he got caught then the consequences could be dire. Hmmm, well if you continue doing sexual stuff with him then he may become almost dependant on you to provide him with his sexual kicks. Not saying that he doesn't care for you, but if he's always doing stuff with you and not his wife then well... it just doesn't seem right. confused And won't his wife get suspicious of his behaviour after a while? About this whole relationship, what are you going to do? Just continue with it as it is? well ussually we just talk in his office. We only had sex in there a few times...and that was becuase i was wearing a skirt so it was easy acess no one had to take anything off. He still has sex with his wife sometimes. I feel kinda bad though he tells me that he thinks about me sometimes. I don't know what i'm going to do. On one hand he says he knows that i can't be his mistress forever and he wants me to meet a nice uy my age and get married...but when he sees me talking to guy at school I can tell he's kinda hurt. I kinda am starting a relationship with someone..though we haven't even kissed yet... i feel wierd. Should I tell the new guy about the old guy? Well first of all... I wouldn't. If you did tell anyone about this relationship with your teacher, then that is some potentially lethal information. They could end up using it against your teacher, threatening to reveal all to the school. If I was you I would seriously consider ending this relationship. It doesn't sound to me like there is any sustainable future ahead for you two and going on would just help to prolong the pain caused when you finally do end it. And if it does continue, that pain will be even more severe. As always, don't think my opinion counts for anything, it's completely up to you. Sure , you are an anomonous teenager on a chibi anime forum, and i don't know you from a hole in the wall, but that doesn't stop you from being absolutly right. crying I wasn't going to tell the new guy that i was screwing a prof. just going to tell him I'm seeing someone. nah don't tellt he enw guy that your seeign someone then eh will get suspicious when you don't tell yuo eh will really want to knwo he'll spy on you until he finds out who yuor seeing then boom comes the big news to the entire freakign school I don't think anyone would belive him. I mean... you don't see many chinese science prof, with black girlfriends half thier age. I think people would just dismiss the claims.
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 1:05 pm
Niphredil Ithilmir Oh dear oh dear oh dear.. ..aren't student-teacher relations forbidden at your school, for one thing? Anyway - I agree with Toki (wow) on this - my view is that a continuation of this relationship (especially the sexual side), while momentarily bringing both of you pleasure, will in the long term be painful and destructive for you and also his family as well. But of course you're 22, and old enough to make your own choices.. and, in my opinion, old enough not to let your parents influence you overly. Let me get this straight.. your father hates Chinese people because his father who was Chinese raped his mother? I think I can understand.. but it's still wrong. You can't hate a group of people for what one individual has done.. The way my dad feels is understandable...but still not right. I don't want to be a home wrecker, I grew up in a very religous and strict household...I never thought in a million years I would be someone mistress. It's kinda one of those situations that you know is wrong...i mean there's not right about it, yet somehow it hurts to think of stopping...and it hurts to continue.
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 4:50 pm
FoxyChoklatRobot2 Niphredil Ithilmir Oh dear oh dear oh dear.. ..aren't student-teacher relations forbidden at your school, for one thing? Anyway - I agree with Toki (wow) on this - my view is that a continuation of this relationship (especially the sexual side), while momentarily bringing both of you pleasure, will in the long term be painful and destructive for you and also his family as well. But of course you're 22, and old enough to make your own choices.. and, in my opinion, old enough not to let your parents influence you overly. Let me get this straight.. your father hates Chinese people because his father who was Chinese raped his mother? I think I can understand.. but it's still wrong. You can't hate a group of people for what one individual has done.. The way my dad feels is understandable...but still not right. I don't want to be a home wrecker, I grew up in a very religous and strict household...I never thought in a million years I would be someone mistress. It's kinda one of those situations that you know is wrong...i mean there's not right about it, yet somehow it hurts to think of stopping...and it hurts to continue. wow... adult lives are so complicated... i'm haning on to 10 till i'm 50 rofl
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 8:03 pm
Tokioka @FoxyChoklatRobot2: Just do what you feel is right in your heart. wink And try not to worry about this too much... not good for your health. 3nodding @kyo: How many partners have you had? You seem to be very... active. yes I'm active its stressful thoguh but I'm still a virgin in real life all fo these relationship are all onlien exscept for oen btu I'm gonna break ti I don't wanna be with someoen who I don't knwo well , we ahve communitcation problems btu we should ahve eben friends first not bf anf gf it jsut feel liek were more like friends
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 8:14 pm
FoxyChoklatRobot2 kyoslove74 FoxyChoklatRobot2 Tokioka FoxyChoklatRobot2 Tokioka It's sort of like that classic 'sleeping with teacher' scenario. I think you should be very careful if you're doing stuff at school... if he got caught then the consequences could be dire. Hmmm, well if you continue doing sexual stuff with him then he may become almost dependant on you to provide him with his sexual kicks. Not saying that he doesn't care for you, but if he's always doing stuff with you and not his wife then well... it just doesn't seem right. confused And won't his wife get suspicious of his behaviour after a while? About this whole relationship, what are you going to do? Just continue with it as it is? well ussually we just talk in his office. We only had sex in there a few times...and that was becuase i was wearing a skirt so it was easy acess no one had to take anything off. He still has sex with his wife sometimes. I feel kinda bad though he tells me that he thinks about me sometimes. I don't know what i'm going to do. On one hand he says he knows that i can't be his mistress forever and he wants me to meet a nice uy my age and get married...but when he sees me talking to guy at school I can tell he's kinda hurt. I kinda am starting a relationship with someone..though we haven't even kissed yet... i feel wierd. Should I tell the new guy about the old guy? Well first of all... I wouldn't. If you did tell anyone about this relationship with your teacher, then that is some potentially lethal information. They could end up using it against your teacher, threatening to reveal all to the school. If I was you I would seriously consider ending this relationship. It doesn't sound to me like there is any sustainable future ahead for you two and going on would just help to prolong the pain caused when you finally do end it. And if it does continue, that pain will be even more severe. As always, don't think my opinion counts for anything, it's completely up to you. Sure , you are an anomonous teenager on a chibi anime forum, and i don't know you from a hole in the wall, but that doesn't stop you from being absolutly right. crying I wasn't going to tell the new guy that i was screwing a prof. just going to tell him I'm seeing someone. nah don't tellt he enw guy that your seeign someone then eh will get suspicious when you don't tell yuo eh will really want to knwo he'll spy on you until he finds out who yuor seeing then boom comes the big news to the entire freakign school I don't think anyone would belive him. I mean... you don't see many chinese science prof, with black girlfriends half thier age. I think people would just dismiss the claims. you might never know and nwo I am gonna drop another love goddamn it I ahte havign feeligns now I'm attached well I've gotta find a way to breakt his will do me no good plus I'm thinking fo droppign fof my sex bud hmm but when I need it who would I coem to be relieved
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 8:33 pm
my next confession i do not to be looked as a slut I am not one what i really want his ture love , soemoen I can ahve logn conversatiosn with on many things not short converstaions , someoen who can keep my interest , someone that I share common interest with, someone who can always be there for me someone who lives close by where I live, someoen who will love me for me, soemonewhi is not after my heirlooms, someone who will let me have my space and independence , someone who knows what i like
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 4:03 am
kyoslove74 my next confession i do not to be looked as a slut I am not one what i really want his ture love , soemoen I can ahve logn conversatiosn with on many things not short converstaions , someoen who can keep my interest , someone that I share common interest with, someone who can always be there for me someone who lives close by where I live, someoen who will love me for me, soemonewhi is not after my heirlooms, someone who will let me have my space and independence , someone who knows what i like uh.... what?
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 8:43 am
nothign yalie I'm just sad and depressed btu I'm lonely I want someoen in my life and eyt I'm not so sure about havign a husband in my life when I'm older I'm secertly scared that eh will be abusive
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:18 am
kyoslove74 nothign yalie I'm just sad and depressed btu I'm lonely I want someoen in my life and eyt I'm not so sure about havign a husband in my life when I'm older I'm secertly scared that eh will be abusive i can't say i 100% understand how you feel, but i can imagine. please keep in mind that everyone is unique. many men will turn abusive, but there are many more who will not ^^ the problem is, there is no way you can know for sure which one will and which one will not. you just have to believe ^-^ (or maybe i can say that because i haven't been in such situations) sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:24 am
mikotan kyoslove74 nothign yalie I'm just sad and depressed btu I'm lonely I want someoen in my life and eyt I'm not so sure about havign a husband in my life when I'm older I'm secertly scared that eh will be abusive i can't say i 100% understand how you feel, but i can imagine. please keep in mind that everyone is unique. many men will turn abusive, but there are many more who will not ^^ the problem is, there is no way you can know for sure which one will and which one will not. you just have to believe ^-^ (or maybe i can say that because i haven't been in such situations) sweatdrop yea it would be nice to now if the guy would turn otu abusive or not ( if your eve in such a situation you might go insanse and you might wanna kill yuor self if your fatehr abusive and your husbands abusive
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 10:25 am
my confession next is that I ahve never ever been on a date before
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 10:33 am
kyoslove74 my confession next is that I ahve never ever been on a date before Then how can you have a sex bud? -ish so confused-
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 11:00 am
kyoslove74 mikotan kyoslove74 nothign yalie I'm just sad and depressed btu I'm lonely I want someoen in my life and eyt I'm not so sure about havign a husband in my life when I'm older I'm secertly scared that eh will be abusive i can't say i 100% understand how you feel, but i can imagine. please keep in mind that everyone is unique. many men will turn abusive, but there are many more who will not ^^ the problem is, there is no way you can know for sure which one will and which one will not. you just have to believe ^-^ (or maybe i can say that because i haven't been in such situations) sweatdrop yea it would be nice to now if the guy would turn otu abusive or not ( if your eve in such a situation you might go insanse and you might wanna kill yuor self if your fatehr abusive and your husbands abusive kyo.. i used to have the same feelings with u... well, i guess that you should choose a guy that is not so hot-tempered and does not act in impulse... and most importantly, someone that respects you.. that way the risk of getting abused is lesser.. i used to have an ex-bf that whenever he gets angry, he gets really scary.. if anyone offended him or got in his way.. he'd beat that person up real bad.. >< although when we quarrelled together, i can see his temper fuming inside him.. he told me he will never hurt me but can probably hurt someone else tho im the cause of his anger... it looks scary.. like he's controlling everything inside and i would wonder if he'd ever burst and start getting psychotic .. well, although he hadnt abuse me or hit me or anything... but when i think about it... he sounded kinda dangerous and may possibly burst someday and turn abusive.... so maybe just watch out for the traits and character in ur guy...
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