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 Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 9:21 pm
I don't know...Guess titles scare me. And people knowing scares me more. I'm a very secretive person, and I like to keep things to myself. Which is bad >> I am possibly the worst person every with relationships XD and frankly I can blame myself. But its that growing up! It's screwing with my brains! But at the same time I need to mature...How old do I have to be to mature? Lol
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 9:36 pm
@Karma: Why do you feel awkward? XD;;
She tied his shoes because it's hot. Duh.
I still don't get the Snape Hermione thing at all. XD
@JK: I totally agree on the Harry pairings! Either alone or with Luna! XD Oh yes, I also highly dislike Lavender. o.o Dean I like well enough.
I've only ever dated older people...
@Karma: Oh, I know, I hate people knowing about my personal life without me wanting them to... my mom's such a blabber mouth too, and is always asking about things I don't particularly want to tell her. But you're definitely not the worst person with relationships. Not at all. Brain finishes maturing at age twenty-five, I believe.
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Kitsune Ketz Kwineight Captain
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 9:40 pm
@Ketz: I don't know...I just feel like I am intruding or something. OH SO HOT someone tie my shoes!!
Luna/Harry would of been cute.
Because older people rock!
My mother is the same way...I am too! But hopefully when I'm twenty-five I'll be better!
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 9:42 pm
@All - yes 25 is about right for brain development. Maturity is a bit more relative and individual. It's mostly going to come down to figuring out who you are and what you want, when you know you, it makes it easier to get to know others. So don't worry about where you are or what other people need and think. Figure out what you want to do, where you want to go, and who (in generals) you want there with you. Then work on acquiring these things.
@Kits - yay for only categories of dating!!!
I feel pretty lucky, me and my mom have a great relationship and I can totally trust her (and she trusts me). I tell her everything, I am comfortable doing so, and know that it isn't going to get around or that she will judge me or get angry about any choice I make. So in spite of all the other issues I have with the rest of my family, I'm very grateful for my mother.
@Karma - I made a friend for the day when I was about 5 because I tied his shoes for him. I don't know how he knew that I knew how (at least I don't know anymore) but he asked me to tie his shoes for him, I did, and then he let me play with him and his friends. When his friends were asking why I was there he gave the 5 year old equivalent of the time of "it's cool, she's with me." Ahh, now that's love ^_~.
It would have been WAY cute. Fail JK for going with the cliche and expected choice, FAIL!!!
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JuokasKurvas Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 9:49 pm
@JK: Omg that's so cute! Unless he turned out to be a jerk in the future!
And I do love my mother, only I have a hard time talking with her...Or anyone. XD
I also think that having my own place will play a big factor in relationships, do you know how awkward it is to not like holding hands or making out in public and not having a house to get away and do just that at?!
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 9:59 pm
@Karma - I'd like to hope he turned out to be a prince, but you know, a big tall football build with a teddy bear personality type.
I know most people love their moms, but I have few friends comfortable enough to have a healthy relationship that is still responsibly parent/child while maintaining a trusting friendship as well, even as you get older. I know I have friends that wouldn't have certain problems if they could just be open and honest with their parents - that they have that invite, and that they can trust their parent to keep their secrets.
Though I'd never want to do anything in my parents house, so that is true. That it's just more about eww, it's their house. So I am looking forwards to moving out - not that I'll assume anything will happen. But it'll be nice to feel able to do so in my own home (that will be MINE, and maybe roommates, but not family's).
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JuokasKurvas Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 10:03 pm
@JK: Then you magically bump into him and he recognizes you and askes you to tie his shoe, you wanna hit the guy at first or something but then realize who he is! lol...Um...*cough*
Yea eww and if they are there! I don't know how my brother brings his girlfriends over >>
LMAO you so are assuming! Your just waiting for the teddy bear guy.
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 10:16 pm
Haha, ok that would be creepy. But yea, it would be cute to have the "how we met" story go back so many years, and be something so innocuous yet kind of adorable like that. Alas it was a one day fling only. *nostalgic sigh*
Yea, this one guy I know at my summer work, and he's younger too, 17 (I was the oldest on staff at 23, but the next oldest was only a few months younger, the youngest on staff turned 16 back in June, so kind of an age range going on amongst the lifeguards - the annoying thing, all but 2 of the guys were jailbait, of 7. Only 1 of the girls was jailbait of 7. Our girls are older, our guys are not, awkward - hahaha, but entertaining) had sex in his parents bed because he was mad at them. I mean one, eww. I would NOT want to have sex in the bed my parents have sex in, I mean gag me that's spiting myself. I dunno what that girl was thinking either, I wouldn't want to have sex in the bed of my boyfriend's parents either, that's just nasty.
And I'm totally not waiting *shifty eyes*...haha. Well I am waiting for something, or someone, but yea ok I can't help but assume. I am lonely! *sings* "all by myself, don't wanna be, all by myself..." xp
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JuokasKurvas Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 10:21 pm
Hehe what can I say I am a romantic! A romantic that goes against their own actions!
That could be a good anime there XD
Eww why would you do that! Nasty D:
man younger kids are getting more then us!! Sniff...I can just picture sitting in a car in the rain and signing to that song XD like in Glee.
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 10:57 pm
How you act doesn't define you as a romantic, it's how you think. So just because you aren't living the stereotype, doesn't mean you can't call yourself a romantic. Likewise I have friends who call themselves romantics and they are far from it. You know, unless controlling, paranoid and insecure are qualifications for a romantic ^_~. In my estimation, imposed rules doesn't make a romantic, they are just a guidelines of someone's personal values. Romance is indivudal, and a recognition of the little things, it's the defiance of rules...and I will shut up now. It'd be a very cute anime...^_^ Haha, in the time it took me to get ready for bed I forgot what I said, so I'm like "how am I nasty?!" haha, then I scrolled down. yea, that IS nasty, and I have no idea why. Ah the things you don't want to learn playing ten fingers (b/c I'm going to go to bed after I post this I'll explain in case you don't know, to not leave you hanging. The game isn't as dirty as it sounds. You just put up all your fingers and go around in a circle saying "I have never done *insert something you've never done - though usually it ends up being sexual - here*." If someone has done that thing they have to put a finger down. You can play until someone loses - all fingers down, or until you have one winner, only one who hasn't put all fingers down yet. Although wasn't even the creepiest thing discovered that night at the guard party, and no, you so don't want to know!). I know right! It's infuriating, stupid kids. Oh well, we'll get ours eventually, I hope, haha. I'm in no hurry to do things just for the sake of doing them. Makes me think of the TISM song though - Everyone Else Has Had More Sex Than Me ~_~. Flash video: http://www.albinoblacksheep.com/flash/bunny*sigh*...so sad. Hehe. I am the piano bunny!!! random and unrelated but I love this too: http://www.albinoblacksheep.com/flash/robotsGNITE!!!
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JuokasKurvas Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 11:09 pm
Lol must be since I am paranoid. You should add obsessive! hehe jk
No don't shut up, you have some good views there.
HAHA omg I played that game in a car before, I won...Because I am so sad! Lol not that its a bad thing, I honestly don't want to be considered someone who sleeps around...I want to know now!!
Lmao I like to say I'm in no rush, but my body seems to be >> XD
lol that videos are silly. Robots are friends...
Good night! Don't let robots get you.
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Posted: Mon Nov 16, 2009 5:17 pm
@Karma: No you is not intruding.
@JK: Wooowww, you're so good at explaining things with the age versus maturity thing. Makes more sense. <3
I feel like I have a good relationship with my mom, where we can act like both family and friends, but I'm just generally a very private person, and we disagree on so many things religious and political, that it's hard to tell her about certain things. Plus, she does blab. I know she doesn't mean anything by it, but that does take away some of the trust I have in telling her things. So I just prefer to have a close relationship where we don't share everything. But she at least doesn't hold anything she disagrees with against me, like though she is Christian and is against homosexuality, she doesn't try to change the fact that I'm bisexual or look down on me for it.
That is so adorable, your little shoe tie friend!
Yes, I was very disappointed in many of Rowling's coupling choices...
@Karma: I know, right? D: I think I'm gonna move out as soon as I get settled from finishing college.
@JK: OMG sex in your parents' bed that's so creepy!! I wouldn't even want to kiss anyone at home, let alone have sex in their bed... *shivers*
@Karma: Those damn little brats... and lawl, singing while in G'Lee glee? >D [/inside joke]
@JK: I think everyone who thinks they are a romantic are, because it shows they have enough interest in romance to declare so.
I've never actually played the game using ten fingers, but have plenty of times using checkmarks; once you ran out of questions, whoever had the least checkmarks would win. I won by not causing any car accidents and never having text-messaged. XD;; (I hadn't yet at the time, which got everyone a checkmark, but I have texted now) It was in class that we played that round, so the questions had to be appropriate.
OMG I love Albino Black Sheep! It's been online like forever and it's still awesome. XD I remember seeing that bunny video so long ago...
@Karma: I consider it a good thing to win the ten fingers game; shows you have more self control.
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Kitsune Ketz Kwineight Captain
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JuokasKurvas Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Nov 16, 2009 7:02 pm
@Karma - oh yes, obsessive totally makes that list ^_~. And maybe I'll elaborate on thoughts later, now that train is gone...haha. Ok well there were a lot of things, I got to find out my friends 16 year old sister was in fact sexually active (and had been with multiple people by this point). I found out two of my coworkers/friends had sex in the office (one of them had forgotten that, hehe ~_~). I found out something relating to a** hair, which I TOTALLY repressed so sorry, can't share that. Yea I always win, I don't care how I'm considered but it's not exactly entertaining to be boring - and I kinda feel guilty getting so much info on everyone else when I've almost nothing to dish myself. AMEN to that (the rush + body thing). Oh I so know how you feel, haha. But mind over matter!! Robots ARE friends *cuddles the bloody robot*...hehe. There are tons of videos I like but I don't want to overload on the spam, so maybe I'll slowly add some over time...like right now: http://www.albinoblacksheep.com/flash/shii (It's wicked cute, the song is from Lunar Silver Star Story or something). OMG...must not post other vidoes *pulls fingers away*...I have too many faves. rofl PS: Robots did not get me, I am not posting from beyond the grave!! @Kits - I majored in explaining things. HAHAHA...although I totally should have ^_~. And that's good, yea me and my mom are very alike in terms of values and such, so disagreements are rare. Although she does worry about me drinking at times, she trusts that I'm responsible about it (I am), but alcoholism runs in our family (amongst other things) so she can't help but worry a bit. *misses shoe friend*...*does not miss Rowlings couples*. Yup, other than like Ron and Hermione, and maybe Lupin and Tonks, I can't think of any I really like - or can even stand. And what's with the press conference on Dumbeldore's sexuality AFTER the series ends? I mean if she wanted him to be gay she should have put it in the books, there just seems to be such an agenda in just announcing it later. I have friends who use "being romantic" as a defense of actions, so in that I have to agree. I mean saying you are a romantic is one thing. Saying you can't accept when people do this in a relationship or be like this or etc etc etc "because you are romantic" is a different thing entirely. Albinoblacksheep is my love, it got me through Freshmen year of college, a hard time for me. I don't go on as often now (except when I randomly think of a video that fits into a conversation, like last night) and I haven't found a new video I like in awhile actually. I'm mostly on there just rewatching my old favorites, playing my old favorite games. Like Defend Your Castle - stick figure animation play at it's finest ^_~.
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Posted: Mon Nov 16, 2009 11:23 pm
@ketz
I feel the same way, I am a very private person, believe it or not!
Sigh...The house comment. u-u
And I don't have self control xD
@JK
LMAO you feel guilty for such a cute and silly thing, but its so true! But hey, now you have blackmail! hehe just kidding.
Aww it is cute!!
OH NO! I was thinking for sure "YAY she posted, the Robots did not get her!"
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JuokasKurvas Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Nov 16, 2009 11:30 pm
@Karma - was all ready to give up for the night and go to bed and bam you posted...but no I need to go to bed an hour ago!!! haha...ok 5 more minutes razz
And I don't need all that for blackmail, our last guard party of the summer was CRAZY! Ahh, I should not enjoy my male staff making out with each other as much as I did...nor should I enjoy brothers having to do stuff (not THAT, but, more than I'd be comfortable doing with my sibling *blech*) together so much. Ah, but I did, I DID! Haha, granted that gives them a weebit of stuff on me too. FYI: Skinny dipping, surprisingly AWESOME! Haha...sad though, I mean it was mostly just silly things like kissing and licking and lap dances at the most (and naked push ups, dives and laps in the pool, haha) - still the most action I've gotten in a long time. SO sad, ~_~.
But yea I'm totally Share Bear, I just wish I had stuff to share. Besides wickedly awful fantasies ^_~.
Haha, the robots did NOT get me, tis true. Hehe, the beyond the grave thing was merely jest!
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