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 Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 1:46 pm
that usualy works both ways i think. respecting boundries and allowing the other to live a personal life outside a relationship is important. get to clingy and you may start to not trust each other. lack of trust is an instant relationship killer
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 2:20 pm
well since this is my first real relationship i dont know how im going to be. but i hope i dont get all paranoid like i have before with other people. that would kill everything that i have spent 18 years looking for
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Lord of the Demonic Flame
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 2:25 pm
trust me i know what you mean i waited twenty years to find the right person and there is nothing i'm more afraid of than screwing things up with lunei-chan
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 2:27 pm
I've got the same thing. I screw up with Sham and I wouldn't know what I'd do.
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Lord of the Demonic Flame
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 2:31 pm
well i hope all this advice comes in handy for me thanks guys
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 5:09 pm
Listen. And respond with depth.
The biggest piece of advice ever. 3nodding Trust me, this is coming from the mind of a female. Which means it is gold xd
Also, if you ask her what's wrong and she says nothing, DO NOT TAKE THAT FOR AN ANSWER!! It's never just "nothing".
Also, tell her you love her. Everyday. But only if you REALLY mean it. Cause girls are weird and we get complexes and if you do something weird or odd we automatically assume that the relationship is falling to pieces and it's all her fault. You can't just assume that she knows you love her; she knows, but she always needs and always LOVES to hear you say it 3nodding But you only get to tell her this IF you really mean it.
Play nice, don't make too much fun of her (or make it clear you're kidding) And please, above all, BE YOURSELF!! It's not nice to lead us on, we tend to get very emotionally wrapped up in things and our heads go out the window, we stop thinking clearly, and stuff sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 5:12 pm
got to agree with sham. i think one thing thats helped me is that me and were friends and had met long before we started going out so we both know each other very well.
also i hang out with girls alot so i know that everything sham said is absolutly true
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 5:21 pm
Yup. I wanted to make sure I was best friends with my potential other before I made him my significant other. Otherwise, how on earth are you supposed to communicate?? Relationships are supposed to be fun, not strict and emotionally difficult.
Besides, making your BF/GF your best friend cuts out the middle person. After a hard day at life, you only have to complain and spill your guts to one person and not two mrgreen Saves breath you could use for later... like, seranading that special lady cool
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 5:35 pm
yup tell me about it. there are a few details about whats happened this last week id really rather not go over but i'm happy to say i'm 100% in love with Lunei
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 5:40 pm
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Mangachick86 Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 5:41 pm
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 5:44 pm
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Mangachick86 Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 5:45 pm
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 5:54 pm
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 6:02 pm
O.O what just happened....why is manga on the ground *confused*
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