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 Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 12:07 am
Tell me this honestly.... if you went out and bought drinks for you and a friend... and later you learned they forgot about planning things earlier with a friend... would it hurt you?
Cause it sure as heck did me. I sent something in a text that I would not do honestly, it was just me venting... now they are mad at me and don't see my point.... Since I spent money on us to have fun and I get told oh I forgot I planned this with so and so... Grrr just hits me the wrong way.
I honestly had anger built up... told them that I would put myself in the er... they should know me... that I would do no such thing... but are mad at me. now..... atm Lamb could careless.. cause I know they remembered and used me to get trash and get to go have fun, while I sit alone now. Drunk and with no friend to get to spend time with and have fun.. I do not spend cash and just anyone. Grrrrr I just had to vent real fast...
Since I am drinking and am In a canteen here... Figured perfect place. since they goto together and I am not targeting anyone in the guild.
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 12:45 am
I miss playing the guitar.. I forgot how.. but I want to learn again.. I learned on Peavey Not the best, but it is good. I use to play songs by Korn and I really miss it. But I am more of a bass person and want to buy me a BC Rich Bass Guitar. So this being said... if I pick it up again.. would you like to hear me play once I get it down again?
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 9:08 am
Lamb of God27 Tell me this honestly.... if you went out and bought drinks for you and a friend... and later you learned they forgot about planning things earlier with a friend... would it hurt you? Cause it sure as heck did me. I sent something in a text that I would not do honestly, it was just me venting... now they are mad at me and don't see my point.... Since I spent money on us to have fun and I get told oh I forgot I planned this with so and so... Grrr just hits me the wrong way. I honestly had anger built up... told them that I would put myself in the er... they should know me... that I would do no such thing... but are mad at me. now..... atm Lamb could careless.. cause I know they remembered and used me to get trash and get to go have fun, while I sit alone now. Drunk and with no friend to get to spend time with and have fun.. I do not spend cash and just anyone. Grrrrr I just had to vent real fast... Since I am drinking and am In a canteen here... Figured perfect place. since they goto together and I am not targeting anyone in the guild. (((((poor Lamb))))) Yeah awkward situation. I guess if I knew for sure that they really hadn't forgotten about the other plans and were just using me to get stuff.... yeah I'd be really mad. It does seem like threatening to put yourself in the er is extreme. Even if you didn't mean it, friends have to assume you do mean it. 'Cause when you think about it what is worse... taking it seriously and nothing happens... or blowing it off and you really do harm to yourself and they did nothing. If they honestly just forgot, my feelings still would be hurt but I think I'd get over it pretty quickly. Especially if they tried to make it up to me. If I really wasn't sure either way I suppose I would do my best to just give them the benefit of the doubt that they're being honest and try to let it go.
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 1:32 pm
Camwen Lamb of God27 Tell me this honestly.... if you went out and bought drinks for you and a friend... and later you learned they forgot about planning things earlier with a friend... would it hurt you? Cause it sure as heck did me. I sent something in a text that I would not do honestly, it was just me venting... now they are mad at me and don't see my point.... Since I spent money on us to have fun and I get told oh I forgot I planned this with so and so... Grrr just hits me the wrong way. I honestly had anger built up... told them that I would put myself in the er... they should know me... that I would do no such thing... but are mad at me. now..... atm Lamb could careless.. cause I know they remembered and used me to get trash and get to go have fun, while I sit alone now. Drunk and with no friend to get to spend time with and have fun.. I do not spend cash and just anyone. Grrrrr I just had to vent real fast... Since I am drinking and am In a canteen here... Figured perfect place. since they goto together and I am not targeting anyone in the guild. (((((poor Lamb))))) Yeah awkward situation. I guess if I knew for sure that they really hadn't forgotten about the other plans and were just using me to get stuff.... yeah I'd be really mad. It does seem like threatening to put yourself in the er is extreme. Even if you didn't mean it, friends have to assume you do mean it. 'Cause when you think about it what is worse... taking it seriously and nothing happens... or blowing it off and you really do harm to yourself and they did nothing. If they honestly just forgot, my feelings still would be hurt but I think I'd get over it pretty quickly. Especially if they tried to make it up to me. If I really wasn't sure either way I suppose I would do my best to just give them the benefit of the doubt that they're being honest and try to let it go. I agree that the ER thing was a little extreme. I would never do it. I just said something at the time and that was that. I will let them come to me and talk, unless it last for a few days.. I will take action. I just don't know how they are feeling atm. So don't want to you know maybe get in a arguement when I was trying to apologize
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 1:53 pm
Good luck! I really hope things work out with you and your friends. 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 2:56 pm
Camwen Good luck! I really hope things work out with you and your friends. 3nodding We all make mistakes. After all its part of being human
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 3:00 pm
Lamb of God27 Camwen Good luck! I really hope things work out with you and your friends. 3nodding We all make mistakes. After all its part of being human truer words were never spoken! 3nodding xd Hey Lamb - do you get the feeling it's just you and me today at the guild house? What happened to everybody?
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 3:05 pm
Amen to that lamb. we are all just human, but still some people out there just dont see it like that and all they want to do is crucify you over dumb stuff. I see that crap all the time. Just back off for a few and let the whole thing cool down for a day or two and then try to make a call if you hadnt heard from them and then when every one is cooled down then say what you have to say and let them say what they have to say, but meet some where in the middle and always on higher ground than when you started. some thing my dad use to tell me. good luck lamb.
smile Lyn
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 4:29 pm
Camwen Lamb of God27 Camwen Good luck! I really hope things work out with you and your friends. 3nodding We all make mistakes. After all its part of being human truer words were never spoken! 3nodding xd Hey Lamb - do you get the feeling it's just you and me today at the guild house? What happened to everybody? I'm having issues, but I do keep checking in before feeling awkward and freaking out.
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 8:02 am
Hi Exxos smile I wasn't singling you out or anything. You're actually one of the most frequent posters here. Even with issues! wink I hope you are doing ok (((hugs)))
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 9:58 am
*twirls his thumbs as time slowly slips away*
AH I got it... time to goto my mothers and help our out with her new Laptop! Her and the husband don't know much about PC's and I get called on for help! *Throws on his nerd cape and takes off, Lamb to the rescue!*
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 2:55 pm
hello everyone. yeesh can't believe how busy it's been around here. life is just crazy for us. mac is in school and dance and we are remodeling the house and trying to fix things with a foreclosure we bought but the ppl are still in the house saying we don't own anything. LOL. ahhhhhhhhhhh. oh and i bought a ton of apples so i get to make applesauce and applebutter this weekend.
so how's everyone doing? i miss not playing as much as i used to.
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 3:17 pm
Teeshann hello everyone. yeesh can't believe how busy it's been around here. life is just crazy for us. mac is in school and dance and we are remodeling the house and trying to fix things with a foreclosure we bought but the ppl are still in the house saying we don't own anything. LOL. ahhhhhhhhhhh. oh and i bought a ton of apples so i get to make applesauce and applebutter this weekend. so how's everyone doing? i miss not playing as much as i used to. hi Teeshann smile I hope everything with the house gets straightened out. We're just finishing up the first week back at school for the kids. My son likes middle school so far. The new fall routine still seems weird after the much less structured (but no less busy) summer.
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 4:18 pm
I am mentally drained today! Been on the go since I got up... got up... started cleaning the kitchen... then my mom needed my help with her laptop, so I went to help her, I come back home and boom more cleaning to finish up on! Now I am soon to bring my mom a extra 60$ mouse I have. Then I gotta run and pick up a few things!
All this and no energy drink today! Its rare if I drink one now, no idea what made me just stop. Cause I love them.
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 8:15 pm
I wasn't around today due to having a couple job interviews. They went well but have to wait to next week to find out.
Other then that I am glad it is the weekend.
Camwen could I please get a cup of hot chocolate with mini marshmallows?
Too bad I didn't have a TARDIS. I would drop by and we could all hang out together tomorrow night or something.
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