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 Posted: Sun May 25, 2008 9:16 pm
He asked me to bump for him and i told him How i simply just don't have time for things like that. he asked me to kick and i told him no. We did argue of stupid stuff like that but he cant make me do anything. Whats he gonna do? Come here and get me? Yeah right lol
I always thought it was some joking when he would say he loved me and I even used to get so angry hearing it over and over! But the last time i rejected him then the things he said I could feel were very real or they seemed that way and that made me sad. then again he could have just convinced himself it was love. I knew at the beginning he was trying to use me. He would brag about his many girlfriends on gaia and all the free things he got. At first he had me fooled also I would give him things and then I noticed when he would go "Oh that aquatica I could never afford! crying " I knew then he was a scammer of sorts using his friends to his advantage. I liked talking to him until it got into a freaky stalker way where he would send me 15 mails a day and all of them would say meow and i love you. Then i got uncomfortable around him. It just got worse too as he moved to his crazy bite thing and then to his uh teddy bear. *cough*
In return for all the things Ive bought him he gave me his Demonic pendant.. to tell everyone the truth i didnt want it. He also gave me the hammi hat I had always wanted.. for that side of kai Im thankful but in return for these things I always suspected he wanted me to return his love. Im sorry I dont feel the same way for him... I cant help it.
dont be sorry for me. Maybe Iam also to blame because I didnt make my feelings clear enough!
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Posted: Sun May 25, 2008 9:26 pm
You could never make your feelings clear in the first place... he'd start saying he was going to kill himself if you mentioned you didn't like him. stare
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Posted: Sun May 25, 2008 11:14 pm
I think his exact statement was 'he hated his mom because she left him.'
It seems you did make yourself clear Nanami. Telling him over and over sounds like you were being pretty clear about it.
Unfortunately, it fell on deaf ears...more likely it was the aforementioned
'scamming' though. I believe he was using a method somewhat like scammers do. Scammers befriend you, maybe ask for your email in time, find out some personal info you don't even realize you're giving out (things they could use to change your email, thus gaining the ability to change your gaia pass).
Kai instead manipulated many people for his sole benefit. That is not a friend at all.
I was pretty ticked the last time I saw Kai on gaia. It was in the exchange and he popped up in a thread in which I was selling something or other. "He asked how the quest for his kiki was coming along. The part that got me was he had resolved to AI items. He acted like he didn't know the harm and annoyance that causes other gaians. AI'ing just plain sucks. stare
I'm glad you got the dp & hammi & the guild although it doesn't make up for the harrassment and aggravation. burning_eyes
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 1:45 am
I know!!! I hate AI'ing too! He has horded so many neat items too emo he had ZERO normal items. He let me tektek him using his inventory... all he has are MC's, Cash Shop items, and the new starter items. (with the exception of emo glasses, kiseru pipe thing, and boxers. Stupid boxers were a gift from Jess x.x guh. And any Event Item was given to his mule for it to horde)
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 6:42 am
hmm.. an even deeper darker side of Kai unveiled.
Glad I wasn't persuaded much into his bidding (of sorts) aside form bumping.
I had always felt in a way he was trying to control me, and I even vended it out without naming him. :XP: he was like you do this and that but i won't be responsible and that whenever we chat in msn back then. and I felt what yen felt abot her ideas being shot down. I have like ideas on items and he'd look down at them. But I kept to my own ideas and outlook.
I remember back when Gilla got reported and she was paniking. And Utena and I think Symphy were arranging counter reports and organizing stuff to ensure Gilla's account is safe, he was screaming and getting angry at me in PM because he didn't like what the others were doing and that we were all being stupid and paranoid. I just wondered at myself why I didn't snapped at him when he was like that to me and I keep responding calmly to him.
Always saw him as a little boy, I guess.
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 6:44 am
OMG Kai sounds like one of my nightmare's. Hope your all ok now, has he gone, gone? Hope so. What's AI'ing I forget? *scratches head* Aide05 mentioned quote: anyway, this is the internetz. lol it's hard to know who really is, behind the avatar. :quote I so agree with that Aide One of my fave quotes is: Don't tell anybody anything you wouldn't tell the whole world! Tragic knows about me getting well paranoid on the internet that's why I gave out my birthday as 1 April 1970! Personally I don't give out important details like birthdates, the exact location where I was born that sort of thing. but I've have got a bit more relaxed for instance you may even see a peek off me in a photo. *grin* BUT I never get too relaxed with info and I hope nobody else does either. We live and learn don't we. Anyway that Kai sounds well creepy I'm glad you got shot off him!
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 1:33 pm
Adie05 hmm.. an even deeper darker side of Kai unveiled.
Glad I wasn't persuaded much into his bidding (of sorts) aside form bumping.
I had always felt in a way he was trying to control me, and I even vended it out without naming him. :XP: he was like you do this and that but i won't be responsible and that whenever we chat in msn back then. and I felt what yen felt abot her ideas being shot down. I have like ideas on items and he'd look down at them. But I kept to my own ideas and outlook.
I remember back when Gilla got reported and she was paniking. And Utena and I think Symphy were arranging counter reports and organizing stuff to ensure Gilla's account is safe, he was screaming and getting angry at me in PM because he didn't like what the others were doing and that we were all being stupid and paranoid. I just wondered at myself why I didn't snapped at him when he was like that to me and I keep responding calmly to him.
Always saw him as a little boy, I guess.  
I remember that.
He asked you to PM me about holding off on sending my counter report.
I was thinking, "why didn't he just ask himself?"
I had no idea, he was attacking you about it, he should have gone to me or at least posted in the lotto, his concerns.
Oh and it was Pinka who also filed counter reports.
And I didn't even get a response from my email until about 3 months later, saying that if my friend wants to fight a ban, she needed to file a compliant herself.
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 2:33 pm
I remember Kai got me into this thing where if u post 500 times u get 25k, and when i entered he said i would give him some of the money and thought i promised him that. he reminded me every day about it.
And another time he gave me his pw on another site for playing games and u get trophy's or something when u beat it, and when he gave me the pw he said something like "now u can get me lots of trophy's" or w/e the things were called.. I played a couple of games and stopped. I remember he would always ask me if i was posting or playing games for him.
and lots of times i would sit on msn and talk to him bc he said he was crying.
And other times when i would be questing for my dream avi he would promise me he would buy some item for me. I nvr believed him tho..
He asked me to kick with him on that one thing on face book, and when i would say No i cant I'm busy, he would get upset and either b like "Don't u like me?" or "Why? What are u doing" and if i told him what i was doing he would point out why i don't need to do that and why i should help him. He always said he would help me do things, but the only thing he tried helping me in was bumping in a thread to win a MC. he was also helping Yen to try and win it also and when he said the wrong thing at the end it made Yen mad O: I dint even know he was still bumping bc i had stopped the day b4. and i had known him for about 2 days sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 2:57 pm
 *sigh* Kai is a very disturbed individual. That boy would talk to me on msn all the time telling me about how much he loved Nanami and how he was going to ask her to marry him IRL. He also promised me that he would buy me any item I wanted once he got up to 20 million gold. About a month ago he actually sent me 10k but I kinda worried about taking it cause I know he'll come back sometime and try to get me to repay him.
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 4:42 pm
aww... he shot down your ideas too, Adie? emo doesn't it make you want to choke him for a bit? ;P that made me dislike him REAL fast. I could have put up with his boss like attitude while kicking stuff on Bebo forever. But he shot down my ideas and actions stare
Thus his guild fell into inactivity! None of us were willing to run it for him, because we knew he'd come back and reprimand us for the things we did!
I also recall that he was all sad and 'crying' one time because Symph wouldn't leave GFG o.O
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 6:24 pm
He did ask me to marry him and I said no. I wanted to reopen Charity tower but after awhile I noticed Im just cleaning up after him. Then he told me he wouldnt let me change the tower unless I did it the way he wanted it and I told him fine im leaving the tower. He used to make me feel like i was nothing but his love interest. Not friends and like i wasnt good at anything. When he made the guild he was telling me he has Ancantsia on crew because she good at art and writing and Koro because she's kind and good with art when he got to me he said "Because you are my love." That didnt make me feel good. I asked him if that was it and he changed the subject. He used to make me and alot of the other charity tower people do the work. When ever i suggest we do something a different way he would also belittle me because it wasnt good enough. After awhile suddenly he would change the tower to the way i suggested it. So when people said Kai gave ideas for GFG and then they shot them down and used them I think he got what he deserved. You reap what you so right?
He told me he had a mother but she was dead to him and didnt understand why i was mad at him for saying that. She works alot to support his family he told me and because she is away so much he's grown to hate her. That and he said his step father beats him and wont feed him. Then again when his family would do stuff together he would say what a great time he had with his mother. How can you have a good time with someone you hate?
It is true every time i shot him down and wouldnt be his girl he would tell me he was going to kill himself. I would get really upset and just think "Why me... wth did i do??" I dont want anything. Thats just bull crap he asked you to get a kiki for him tragic it's just stupid. He made me promise to get him a aquatica and sadly I did get him one because I was tried of hearing him whine for it. In reality I gave him mine.
when he came back the last time and gave away all of his money He tried to give me 500k and i canceled the trade. I dont want his money. So he gave me his Dp instead... and then made me feel bad for it. He said "I gave you my treasure..." when i told him how nice it was for him to give everyone his gold. So i told him he could have it back because i didnt want it. He told me he would just send it back. So i still have it...
It seems like he did for awhile control me ... I still feel bad for that.
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 8:46 pm
Wow, Yen's thread is the vent about Kai thread now. You should put up a poll seeing who all was screwed over by him in some way.
I too started getting insanely frustrated at him when he would ask for ideas only to say those are great ideas but I don't like em. Wtf? Then don't ask me my opinion.
I never did any kicking in bebo or anything else like that for him - not that he didn't whine about it. The worst I believe was deleting about 25 pages of crap in that guild he bought, not to mention sinking a lot of gold into it. I do believe ancantsia also got stuck deleting most of threads. I finally gave up because after repeated checking to see who was doing it, guess what, Kai wasn't and couldn't give me a good reason why he wasn't helping out.
I listened to his whiny rants on msn, tried giving him advice he wouldn't take so I finally stopped. I guess all of that's why he didn't send me anything when started handing out all his things.
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 11:32 pm
heart ...let's go honey... heart
@Nanami: Hmm...a lot of feedbacks about Kai, huh...? Well...I don't know much, but all I can say is...he has a lot of issues inside that he has to get out so maybe that's the reason why there's something going on about you being "controlled" by Kai...maybe some deeper issues...? neutral @Tragic: That is just plain unreasonable...asking for ideas and shoting them down...he wants a bigger lantern than what he can handle, huh...? @Yennon: Hiya, Yennon...! I see there's a lot commotion over here...I just came by to lighten things up... biggrin Come join the sugar madness...!
heart ...fly away, honey, fly away... heart
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 11:51 pm
[url=http://www.gaiaonline.com/guilds/index.php?guild_id=14885] [IMG]http://i117.photobucket.com/albums/o79/yennon_crow/DreamstoDestiniesGuildDirectoryBann.gif[/IMG]
A Newbie Supporting Guild + anime, contests, and more! Home of the Pineapple Hero ^.^[/url][/center] If anyone would affiliate me, I would REALLY appreciate it whee it looks like this - And if anyone's a member, it would mean alot if you would give it just a LITTLE activity xd make a quest thread, introduce yourself... check out my youtube theatre ^.^ Still not finished, however. So anyway... You weren't the only one deleting threads for him Tragic :/ I finished the last of it. Took two hours, and at the same time he was badgering me to kick on Bebo too stare meh. Thanks for lightening up the room, Seriouscat ^.^
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 12:00 am
I woulda known that Yen if I had kept deleting, but actually now that you mention it, I do think I remember checking back later to see if he'd done any work and saw you finished it.
I shall try to check out D2D tonight. I may not post much yet since it's getting late and I'm trying my dangdest to sell a sno yeti plushie.
Oh, and I wanna do a overhaul of my profile. I'll link you in there when I do heart
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