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CervantesVelosicusDelgado
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 5:55 am
Minamoto_Kino CervantesVelosicusDelgado its my fault Korin-Chan just left Well, honestly, I'm just getting back from being offline for a while, so I don't know what all's going on . . . but the impression that I got wasn't that it was your fault, but rather that it was because of the way people were treating you / reacting to you. neutral which is all because of my bad mood neutral i cant really be happy...school= hell
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 6:03 am
CervantesVelosicusDelgado which is all because of my bad mood neutral i cant really be happy...school= hell Well . . . *shrug* It's something we all have to go through, man. If you're having a tough time, you can talk about it with us, get advice, support, whatever. In the meantime, you should try and focus more on the positive aspects of your life, rather than letting school drag you down so much. That's not to say there's anything wrong with you being unhappy in here. Anyone who gets on your case about being too sensitive is just being stupid. This guild is supposed to be like a family, so we ought to be here to shoulder each other's burdens, listen to each other's gripes, etc. But apparently some of the members have been forgetting that. *sigh* At the same time, though, we're also here to help cheer you up when you need it. Maybe next time you're in a bad mood, rather than dwelling on it, just try and move past it, find something else that cheers you up and focus on that rather than on how crappy school is. Other than that, I just wanna say: don't be so hard on yourself. Sometimes, people will be jerks and idiots no matter what you try to do. You can't control what other people do, you can only control the choices you make. So try and make the best of what you can do, without worrying so much about what you can't.
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CervantesVelosicusDelgado
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 6:05 am
im sorry everyone...i cant help being depressed...i only stayed on gaia for one person...and i rarely see her anymore...and when i dont...i just cant help but be depressed...if it stops people from feeling bad and having to deal with my bad mood.....i'll leave Kindreds for a while...and i think i will...im sorry for troubling all of you...i hope things'll be better around here without me
Chris
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 6:08 am
CervantesVelosicusDelgado im sorry everyone...i cant help being depressed...i only stayed on gaia for one person...and i rarely see her anymore...and when i dont...i just cant help but be depressed...if it stops people from feeling bad and having to deal with my bad mood.....i'll leave Kindreds for a while...and i think i will...im sorry for troubling all of you...i hope things'll be better around here without me Chris gonk *falls over* Great . . . I knew I shouldn't have taken such a long time to type my response. *gets up and runs after him* Chris! Chris! Read my reply, at least, before you go!!!
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CervantesVelosicusDelgado
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 6:12 am
Minamoto_Kino CervantesVelosicusDelgado im sorry everyone...i cant help being depressed...i only stayed on gaia for one person...and i rarely see her anymore...and when i dont...i just cant help but be depressed...if it stops people from feeling bad and having to deal with my bad mood.....i'll leave Kindreds for a while...and i think i will...im sorry for troubling all of you...i hope things'll be better around here without me Chris gonk *falls over* Great . . . I knew I shouldn't have taken such a long time to type my response. *gets up and runs after him* Chris! Chris! Read my reply, at least, before you go!!! already read *pats his shoulder* thanks...but its not that simple for me...i think its best i just stay away from here...dont worry about me...continue being here with everyone else...and forget about me...allright?
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 6:16 am
CervantesVelosicusDelgado already read *pats his shoulder* thanks...but its not that simple for me...i think its best i just stay away from here...dont worry about me...continue being here with everyone else...and forget about me...allright? *sigh* If you really feel you must leave, that's your decision. If you do leave, would you at least try and come back before too long, once you've got a handle on things? I'm sick of all my friends leaving the group over things like this, and then never coming back because they don't want to have to deal with whoever they were having problems with in the guild. sad
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CervantesVelosicusDelgado
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 6:18 am
Minamoto_Kino CervantesVelosicusDelgado already read *pats his shoulder* thanks...but its not that simple for me...i think its best i just stay away from here...dont worry about me...continue being here with everyone else...and forget about me...allright? *sigh* If you really feel you must leave, that's your decision. If you do leave, would you at least try and come back before too long, once you've got a handle on things? I'm sick of all my friends leaving the group over things like this, and then never coming back because they don't want to have to deal with whoever they were having problems with in the guild. sad if im still wanted here...then i suppose i can come back...but i dont know..i dont want to be a burden on anyone with my bad moods..and i have been to nearly everyone
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 6:23 am
CervantesVelosicusDelgado if im still wanted here...then i suppose i can come back...but i dont know..i dont want to be a burden on anyone with my bad moods..and i have been to nearly everyone Hey, like I said, it's part of the reason we're here. (Or at least, it should be . . . ninja ) I've gone through bouts of depression and bad moods while I've been in the group, but I stuck it out, relied on my friends for support, and got over it. It's a give and take. Maybe this month you're in a bad mood, but maybe next month you'll be fine and somebody else will be feeling that way, and you'll be able to help them out. That's how I look at it.
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 7:21 am
you've always been wanted here chris, and yea sometimes we come in in a depressed mood or a sad mood, but you do it so often and all the time that its to the point that we can't help you anymore, and to sit around in a place where people come to get away from life and moap, if not cool. we try so hard chris to show you that you are wanted and to show that you are loved here but its never quite enough for you and i'm sorry that you feel the way that you do, if your going to be constantly depressed, you should see outside help, and yea school sucks, but we all go through it and some of us actally find something that gets us through the day, with a pesemistic veiw of school, yea its gunna suck but thats becuase thats how other people veiw you and how you make your own life a little hell. Seriously chris, we love you but you need to figure it out.
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 8:24 am
Dude, Chris... I know you're going through rough times mate, but you gotta tough it out. It can't be hell all the time ya know. Things change with time, and as time passes you'll grow to understand why we're friends. Friends help each other out mate, they're there for each other when need be, and they're always willing to go that extra mile to make everything worth while. We're all friends here..heck..we're all family here, and you're one of us. ^_^
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 9:59 am
~toddles in for a few moments~
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 10:15 am
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 10:20 am
Chris, We love you and we DO want you to be here. We want to help you, but as we need to be patient, you also need to do so. Friends are the best support you can have and you have many here... You need to know that we want to help but we can only help you if you accept the help and want to be helped through lifes events...
If you take the positive and make it greater than the negative , even if the positive is only one tiny little thing.... it can over shadow the negative, this takes effort ( alot of effort )
for instance ( School = Hell ) yes I agree! BUT you will live through this hell and make the best of it it teaches you very important lessons both book smarts and social smarts. try to remember that for EVERY action there is an equal opposite REACTION. it may help you look at things in a different way
but yes that does mean that for everything good there is bad and for everything bad there is good.... its just a matter of how you take it ....
We love you Chris and we really dont want you to leave...!
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 11:10 am
*Pouts* Chris no go he like my big brofa...
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 11:50 am
Chris,
You are always wanted here. heart
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