amarzyciel
Juubi-Kira no Ryuu
I think that might be okay tho. One of the good things about rp-ing with other adults is they understand life gets in the way sometimes.
3nodding If it lasts more than a month I'll be done with one of my classes and I'll have that much time to rp properly. I don't mind waiting for people.
Still, i can't help to be anxious when it is so quiet
Look at how most matches are empty and i have to wonder "where's everybody? Are they still around?"
My experience with gaia rp in general, lack of activity is a warning bells.
It is an odd feeling of i can wait, but i want to know if anyone is still sticking around or not.
It happens way too many time that people vanish when things get too idle.
-shrug- I've had that happen to me a couple of times too but honestly...
I'm usually the person that gets idle so I get anxiety when a guild moves too fast
In my experience that means people are going to rush me and spam me with PMs and hound me for replies, usually with a lack of understanding that I have a family and a job and a school that require my attention from time to time.
I've gotten kicked out of guilds for that, and the captains were usually passive aggressive about it. As though I chose to have an emergency or a life outside of Gaia. They were pretty mean about it.
Again Adult life is filled with college and jobs and other such fun stuff I can't really put on hold, and I have a chronic illness so sometimes I just can't post for a while.
So I never really get that feeling. I have an understanding of what makes things slow down ( plus this guild's been really good about staying active) and resting between things helps me stay creative ( too many posts can drain me) I usually use the time to plot or work on my characters' posting format instead. ( like I'm making plans for what's gonna happen after the tournament and after winter break is over....which would be harder if I was constantly posting tbh. )
If the hurricane had hit at cat-4 earlier this month
I would have probably been idle for this long anyways. The last time a cat-4 hit I was off the grid for weeks, then for a few moths after I almost failed a class once. So....a month isn't that long to me.