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Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 2:02 pm
Thanks. *hugs ananda and sundae*
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Posted: Fri Feb 23, 2007 8:12 pm
AAWWWWW!
Poor Sryne I sorry! cry
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Posted: Fri Feb 23, 2007 8:15 pm
sweatdrop I talked to her again, and she finally talked to me instead of shutting me out. I think we're going to try to work it out first and then see what happens.
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Posted: Sat Feb 24, 2007 3:00 pm
that's not so bad then, even if things end up not working out being about to talk to each other is always best.
it's horrible when 2 people end up hating each other after a split.
hope everything works out for the best for you Sryne 3nodding heart
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Posted: Sat Feb 24, 2007 3:25 pm
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Posted: Sun Feb 25, 2007 5:03 am
I'm sorry Sryne!
Poppetta is right, talking is the best thing! It is better to be able to talk to each other than not speaking at all. And if anything u still have a friend after all this time together!
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Posted: Wed Jul 11, 2007 10:51 pm
About a week ago, my mom tells me I need to lose weight. That alone I could've dealt with. However, she decided to tell me this in the most indelicate way possible: cornering me while I was using the bathroom. Later on, she admitted that she had told me that in hopes that we could both bond through tandem sessions at Weight Watchers; in what she probably hoped would be a situation straight out of an old Shirley Maclaine movie.
While I'm still reeling from that, my best friend Snowflake calls me up, hoping she could come over for a chat. I let her. Foolish me. I find out that she's been inflicting 50 hour or more work weeks on herself in a near-suicidal attempt to prove her unselfishness and charity, and obsessing over a guy she briefly met two months ago, and couldn't have spoken to for more than ten minutes, because she honestly, truly thinks that this guy wants to sexually and psychically abuse her. And then the coup de grace: Snowflake tells me reason that she converted to Wicca in the first place. After first telling me that her "guides" have only recently begun talking to her, Snowflake amended her story without even realizing it, telling me that she has heard "voices in her head" since high school, and that that's the reason she got into Wicca. She talked about all sorts of things in between, mainly that she could "see evil spirits" and things like that. Now, I've read the Wicca Bible, and one of things that always seemed sensible about Wicca was it's assertion that there were no evil spirits; that man was the only creature capable of evil deeds. My friend's lost it completely, and is using her religion as a defense mechanism. What do I do?
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Posted: Thu Jul 12, 2007 3:05 pm
Wuyabi,
As crazy as it sounds about that guy it could be true, if your attuned into knowing people, and some people are able to see other's people intents. Or who they are no matter the mask they put up.
I study the Pagan religion, and Wicca which is a branch from Pagan. As the religion says, we don't harbor bad spirits in are religion. Which means, that we don't use them, we don't want anything to do with them. But, we are not saying that they do not exist, and honestly some people do create that bad energy. Often it could be the excess energy from anger that people can't get over, remorse, sadness, depression.
The ability to see ghostly beings, or evil spirits is real. Honestly I have seen some pretty dark energies. Not often though. the religion of wicca also do not have bibles. But we do use books called The Book of Shadows, and as ominous as the title sounds. Its not bad at all, a long time ago, when there was Witch Burnings and Hunts, people of the Witch religion had to hide in the shadows, meaning. They couldn't verbal their religion, they couldn't be open about it. In fear they would be burned, hanged, or drowned.
Oh yes, and on Spirit Guides. These things they are not the crazy voices in your head. Often some pagans say that its more like your consciousness, the part that supposed to lead you to do good things. Others will say that its the goddess or gods, or other deity that the person has found works for them best.. The best way to describe it is..
You know how some people say that angels or 'god' has spoken to them? Well A spirit guide is like that. But its something that helps you, in your time of need, or when you need advice.
Instead of fearing your friend, I suggest being supportive, and you need to make sure she doesn't learn the wrong info. Pagan and Wicca is commonly mistaken for worshiping Satan, but is not. That is a misconception, a lie, fraud information. Blasphemy, and its a insult to Pagans and Wiccans.
Honestly your friend is NOT going insane, but finding a religion that works for her. Something that she feels is real, and can protect her. Like Christians and Catholics. Its a real religion, and its a good one.
All you can do, is you can either accept her, which a real friend does.. And be honest, let her know your worried for her, and about the religion. But if you do accept her, let her know that you'll accept her other wise.
Trust me, she wont be casting curses at people, and if she gets the idea she can. Then she is abusing the religion she has found. I do say, that she wont turn bad or evil.
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Posted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 9:48 am
Why is it kids don't want to work?
I've been on her for about two and a half months now. been through three sets of MCs, but that doesn't matter.
I have this one kid I was nice to once who keeps coming back and begging me, over and over for money, items, to guy him something and on and on and on.
I'm rather proud of the fact that I managed to buy everything I have fairly, without doing the Gaia Cash or the Monthly Collectables routine much (only to the tune of about 100K in gold), but I've got a worth of nearly 600K in trading.
I've told him multiple times how to do this, how to get his own money, and he won't do it, he just comes to me and begs every freakign time.
I'll tell ya something, I'm sick of this. Just last night he begged me for 600 in gold so he could enter the arena....
Anyhow, I'm just tired of him. He's 11 and won't do a little work to get the cash.
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Posted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 5:27 am
Because now a days kids think everything should be handed everything to them on silver platter, earning things is beyond their concept, and once you start giving to them they feel you are a free ticket. My only advise is to sat NO but you have probably have all ready done that.
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 4:34 pm
HOLY eek I just got off the phone with the collage my daughter wants to go to and they .... the 3 yrs thats she is going to be there is going to cost ....
crying crying $60,000.00 dollars.....yes US money, and their rent per person is $750.00 a month stressed my house payment that i have is only $350.33
gonk help meh.....
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 12:13 pm
wow.... I didn't see your post before... she can get credit somehow?
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Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 5:16 am
crying i dont know sweatdrop we still have to actually get her registered and they want $150 just to do that.
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Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 9:50 am
crying I hate this deployment
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Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2009 10:21 am
Ok here we go...
Here is how my February started... Two weeks ago this Sunday will be the anniversary of finding my daughters cat floating in the pool, raced out and jumped into the water to retrieve the cat, I think it was 30 degrees that day, but we were too late the cat was gone, I was only in the pool for less than 3 mins and the cold water was starting to affect me, my daughter was trying to pull me out of the pool 4 ft straight up, she some how did it eek , while yelling at the neighbor to help me, then a few days later (like 2) I get an email from the IRS stating that i wasn't going to get the amount i thought i was going to but only receive $185, I lost it, i went to work an hour early completely out of my mind, yelled at my boss ninja (sorta) Ok actually i just broke down in tears crying and told him i didn't want to be there nor did i want to be at home ( I was being asked stupid questions that i couldn't answer by some one in the house which really didn't help my temper tantrum) i calmed down and told my boss that i was gonna go back home pull my self together and be back in a bit when my shift was to actually start... THEEENNN like 4 days after we buried the kitty and the IRS crap, my sister came over in hysteric's turns out my husband committed suicide, by hanging himself (note to all I was suppose to been divorced from him 20 years ago, but neither of us showed up to court so the judge threw it out ((oops redface )) so I had to call my boss up and ask him to call the assistant admin and to request her to call me, he asked why and i had to tell him about my husband's death, he asked why i didn't call her my self, i didn't have her number, my daughter and i were suppose to paint her house last Sunday, which didn't happen, I felt my daughter needed time to come to grips with the fact her dad was gone. well things are starting to look up, i did get the IRS mess fixed and i will be getting the rest of my refund, unfortunately I can't fix the other two tragic things that happened. Thank you for reading I know it was a lot to lay on you all at once sweatdrop
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