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 Posted: Mon Dec 26, 2005 10:08 pm
i was just wondering if i should come out to my brother who muight i add has threatened to kill me and kick me out of my house if i am gay(which i am) what should i do??
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Posted: Tue Dec 27, 2005 12:13 am
Elfman990 i was just wondering if i should come out to my brother who muight i add has threatened to kill me and kick me out of my house if i am gay(which i am) what should i do?? I know you may want to tell him but it just doesn't sound like a good idea. Perhaps someday when you are more financially stable and no longer living with him.
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Posted: Tue Dec 27, 2005 4:06 am
Angelsofdawn Elfman990 i was just wondering if i should come out to my brother who muight i add has threatened to kill me and kick me out of my house if i am gay(which i am) what should i do?? I know you may want to tell him but it just doesn't sound like a good idea. Perhaps someday when you are more financially stable and no longer living with him.
Yeah, exactly. Not yet.. I don't know how old you are, but it doesn't sound ''save'' if you tell him now... ^^;
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Posted: Wed Jan 04, 2006 3:27 pm
I couldn't agree more. By the looks of things i'd say you would have to at least move out and have a life of your own before you should think about telling him. Although that's my opinon.
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Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2006 9:44 pm
Elfman990 i was just wondering if i should come out to my brother who muight i add has threatened to kill me and kick me out of my house if i am gay(which i am) what should i do?? Ummm................gee..........no. Dont do it.
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Posted: Sun Jan 08, 2006 7:35 am
No. but tell me more about this brother. Maybe he can be changed *cough* Maybe? By the way, love the siggy, Elfman990.
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Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2006 4:50 am
I have a little problem:
I'm gay and (of course) I like other guys BUT I only like straigt guys! I think gay guys are too feminine. What's wrong with me?
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Posted: Fri Jan 13, 2006 10:35 am
SirLund I have a little problem: I'm gay and (of course) I like other guys BUT I only like straigt guys! I think gay guys are too feminine. What's wrong with me? nothing. you just need to meet some more "masculine" gay guys. believe me, there are plenty. you just haven't met one yet.
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Posted: Fri Jan 13, 2006 11:10 am
SirLund I have a little problem: I'm gay and (of course) I like other guys BUT I only like straigt guys! I think gay guys are too feminine. What's wrong with me?
Oh trust me there are masculine gays guys, I know a few myself.
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Posted: Fri Jan 13, 2006 12:27 pm
Hmmm... But if a gay is masculine how do you tell the difference? Usually you can see when a man is gay, because he's acting so feminine...
Oh I have another issue!
The thing is I haven't come out yet, but I think some people around me suspect that I'm gay. My best friend have expressed several times that he don't like gays, but he always smiles when he says that so I'm not sure wether he's joking or not. He have asked me a couple of times before if I'm gay and I always say "no".
I don't think he hate gays, but I'm afraid that he would think I want him to be my boyfriend and that he don't want to be near me anymore. crying
What do I do? I can't keep it secret forever and I can't live without him.
(I should point out that I don't love him as I would love a boyfriend)
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Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 1:13 am
Hmmm
That's a tough one. I was afraid of that too, before I came out.. Most of my friends are girls and I had to tell them I was bisexual. It was scary and sometimes I am afraid that they feel I'm in love with them, JUST because I'm bisexual. I don't think they think I'm in love with them, however.
And if your best friend smiles when he says he doesn't like gays, it is most likely that he's just joking.
Perhaps you could ask him first about what he REALLY thinks of gays and you should tell him (afterwards, I think)
If he doesnt like you anymore as soon as he knows your gay, he isn't your best friend at all.
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Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 2:12 am
I guess you're right. Thanks for the advice everyone! biggrin
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Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2006 8:29 am
Hey guys hows it going? I just joined Gaia. Im 19 from macedonia btw domokun Hope ill have some quality time in this place! biggrin
Anyways...I have a question. How can you tell if a person is gay/bi without asking him? Theres this friend of mine and I reaaaaaally like him but im afraid to ask him cuz macedonia is the country of homophobes. Btw, lol im supposed to meet him in a few hours and if something interesting happens ill keep you updated wink
~Cheers!
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Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2006 9:23 am
XD Good luck.
Personally, I don't know. I'm experiencing the same issues myself. Have you came out to him yet? (Does he know you're gay?)
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Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2006 9:30 am
Well lol...
NEWS UPDATE! (bare with moi stressed )
I just talked to him via YIM and told him absolutely EVERYTHING i feel for him. I told him of the days when i was sitting in the corner crying over the notebook and the words ive just written, i told him about me going out for a walk in 3 am in the morning to sort my mind out, I told him of the short stories in poems I wrote dedicated for him (all of them written in one move!). He could not belive it. He said that this is the 1st time in his life someone expressed love towards him in this way. He salutes my courage and bravery to step out and tell him all these stuff but.....he said he was str8....
then i asked him...
"if the circumstances were diffrent, would you have accpeted me?"
he said
"Yes."
woah people....it was an entire scenario...ill open a topic on the board one day for experiences such as these if you have had anything similar...
heart
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