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 Posted: Sun May 22, 2005 9:04 pm
Well the ugly fact of the matter is that the "nice guys"... meaning the ones who are kind and sweet and supportive and accommadating and comprimising... they're desperate for affection and approval. they are those things because they expect it to make the girl appretiate them and love them. In reality all they do is look weak willed. a*****e get more girls than "nice guys" because they come across as more independant. The girl understands that between a nice guy and an a*****e if they both want her the nice guys is more likely to want her to fill a space in his life where the a*****e wants her because she's wantable. There's a middle ground that gets overlooked though. There are some very well mannered good natured guys who don't seek approval and who don't give a s**t about what other people think but hold to being "nice" because it's right. This guy would be the ideal but most guys (if any) don't achieve such a balance until around 20 - 30 years old and most girls by then have already been jaded by so many of the first two groups that they've either settled for one of those "types" or become so sceptical that they are untrusting of anyone who looks like they could be a threat. And this middle ground guy confuses them because they can't predict his mindset the way most guys can be predicted. This makes them a threat. I'm rambling again... you get the point.
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2005 5:40 pm
Indeeeeeed. Sounds good to me. Hm. I'm not that really a desperate loser type that needs affection. That's for sure. But. I sadly enough am not independant. Funny thing is... I'm not all that good looking or charming. Not being low-selfesteemish here, it's true. What I lack with looks and charms, I make up for I guess in being a "I don't give a s**t nice guy". I guess charm and looks are a major component. 3nodding
Eh.
Atleast I'm not sad... XD
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2005 9:02 pm
I'm here to "un-b***h".
I'll first admit that I was in a really low-self-esteem moment when I said I was leaving. I'm still feeling kind of like that, but I think I'm learning to cope with it better.
Anywhore, I also read the replies that people bothered to make. I guess I really don't have to post much, or post my pictures that often to be part of this guild.
So, I think maybe I'll try to make a more honest effort to do both (or at least the first) more often. And this is all part of my: No More Gothy Angst Plan. Brilliance, yes?
I don't know. sweatdrop
But, in other words, I'm back... already. ^^; <3
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2005 9:15 pm
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2005 9:19 pm
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2005 9:31 pm
No problemo. xp
And from what I can recall.. er.. your pics were very pretty. 3nodding
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2005 11:37 pm
lol, good to see you back Gothy <33~!
Ah, the ol' 'why do the nice guys always come last' dilema ^^ I know that one all too well. Hime, my g/f, is always worrying that now that I am getting back in shape(for me, not that I was that 'out of shape' by 'normal' standards) that I will leave her for a prettier girl. I have reminded her several times now that because of my rather... eccentric hobies, few "pretty" girls can tolerate being around me irl. Heck, few people can handle large doses of me at the best of times. xd
Oh, and I'm one of those guys that shadow described last, usually xd
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2005 11:45 pm
XxxLa Rose NoirexxX I'm here to "un-b***h".
I'll first admit that I was in a really low-self-esteem moment when I said I was leaving. I'm still feeling kind of like that, but I think I'm learning to cope with it better.
Anywhore, I also read the replies that people bothered to make. I guess I really don't have to post much, or post my pictures that often to be part of this guild.
So, I think maybe I'll try to make a more honest effort to do both (or at least the first) more often. And this is all part of my: No More Gothy Angst Plan. Brilliance, yes?
I don't know. sweatdrop
But, in other words, I'm back... already. ^^; <3
GLEE~ Bean is both A and B in shadow's rant~ im quiet and shy as all hell.. for about 2 hours. and then.. well.. if your' lucky. i'll shut up. but one can expect me to be EXACTLY like i am on here.. IRL. after you get to know me anyways. and you'll have to get over the whole sodomy talk. it's just fun to talk about. and it's for the conversational qualities i bring it up. not to be a perv. i do that all on my own. I bring it up because EVERYONE has something to say about it. EVERYONE! seriously. try it. u'll understand. i mean try talking about it. not doing it. unless thats your thing. ninja BUTTSEX. ninja
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2005 11:52 pm
lmao xd Beany, Alyson wants to know when we are going for drinks. Seriously. xd And I would be disappointed if you were any other way irl xd
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2005 11:55 pm
Impresarioz lmao xd Beany, Alyson wants to know when we are going for drinks. Seriously. xd And I would be disappointed if you were any other way irl xd um.. when i can afford to be crazy with my money again? in other words. bean needs a job. lol but that shouldn't take too long. and then we shall party like it's 01 B.C.. man. i hear those Romans really knew how to party. Augustus was apparently quite the party animal~ lol
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Posted: Tue May 24, 2005 7:02 am
Impresarioz lol, good to see you back Gothy <33~! Ah, the ol' 'why do the nice guys always come last' dilema ^^ I know that one all too well. Hime, my g/f, is always worrying that now that I am getting back in shape(for me, not that I was that 'out of shape' by 'normal' standards) that I will leave her for a prettier girl. I have reminded her several times now that because of my rather... eccentric hobies, few "pretty" girls can tolerate being around me irl. Heck, few people can handle large doses of me at the best of times. xd Oh, and I'm one of those guys that shadow described last, usually xd so does this mean we aren't getting together to go chick huntin?
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Posted: Tue May 24, 2005 11:41 am
Another one of those 'life is over because school sucks' things.
Took my AP Econ. final today. I should have gotten out of Ap while I had the chance. I could have saved myself a world off all nigth studying and worrying. But because I considered myself stupid if I took the regular class.
The final sucked, didn't understand a thing and I'm most likely gonig to fail it and probably lower my grade. Causing me to fail the whole class and then not graduate this year over a dumb desicion.
Yay, I make great choices. stare
EDIT Nm, I passed. sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue May 24, 2005 11:47 am
gonk don't say that...you'll graduate.
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Posted: Tue May 24, 2005 11:50 am
shadowlaw Well the ugly fact of the matter is that the "nice guys"... meaning the ones who are kind and sweet and supportive and accommadating and comprimising... they're desperate for affection and approval. they are those things because they expect it to make the girl appretiate them and love them. In reality all they do is look weak willed. a*****e get more girls than "nice guys" because they come across as more independant. The girl understands that between a nice guy and an a*****e if they both want her the nice guys is more likely to want her to fill a space in his life where the a*****e wants her because she's wantable. There's a middle ground that gets overlooked though. There are some very well mannered good natured guys who don't seek approval and who don't give a s**t about what other people think but hold to being "nice" because it's right. This guy would be the ideal but most guys (if any) don't achieve such a balance until around 20 - 30 years old and most girls by then have already been jaded by so many of the first two groups that they've either settled for one of those "types" or become so sceptical that they are untrusting of anyone who looks like they could be a threat. And this middle ground guy confuses them because they can't predict his mindset the way most guys can be predicted. This makes them a threat. I'm rambling again... you get the point. I think I'm one of the middle ground guys...I'm nice because its right...even to people who are complete buttwads to me
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Posted: Tue May 24, 2005 12:07 pm
XxxLa Rose NoirexxX I'm here to "un-b***h".
I'll first admit that I was in a really low-self-esteem moment when I said I was leaving. I'm still feeling kind of like that, but I think I'm learning to cope with it better.
Anywhore, I also read the replies that people bothered to make. I guess I really don't have to post much, or post my pictures that often to be part of this guild.
So, I think maybe I'll try to make a more honest effort to do both (or at least the first) more often. And this is all part of my: No More Gothy Angst Plan. Brilliance, yes?
I don't know. sweatdrop
But, in other words, I'm back... already. ^^; <3
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