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 Posted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 9:06 am
rashnaroth Im bi, but the only people i have told are two of my best friends (who are girls) as i know i can trust them. I'd tell my parents if i didn't think they'd freak and ignore me for the rest of my life or summit stupid like that cry . But two of my best friends know, and i'll work it outwards from there. smile That's probably the best way to do it as well. 3nodding Telling your best friend seems to be much easier than telling family...especially if said friend is female. heart The first two people that I told were my sisters, then my parents, and then the world. Just take it one step at a time. You'll be ready when you're ready...there's no need to rush anything at all. Good luck cutie. xd
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 3:47 pm
Wow, So much is wrong in the world....Why can't everyone just accept each other...? sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 2:22 am
i have a most likely overplayed but interesting story or two.
1-A few years back i didn't believe in being bisexual and definately didn't believe in being gay/lesbian. In the recent years i've become best friends with a girl and we've done everything-absolutely everything-together. I believe she does it just to make the boys happy, she has a boyfriend of over a year and i have a boyfriend of the same and they don't mind us fooling around or 'experimenting' but i enjoy physically and emotionally her company and attention. I have tried explaining to her how i felt but she sees it as me joking around with her...it's frustrating...
2-I am still best friends with the girl in my first story but i have given up hope on her understanding my situation, i accept her and everything for it because after all i've only explained myself so much...but anyway there has been something going on inside me that is just difficult to explain...I have a crush on someone...a girl...she has a boyfriend of course and i believe is straight...we are in painting class together and we always sit by eachother, she has no idea i like her the way i do and i almost feel ashamed, or bad for not telling her...we've been in the same 'art' classes for the past four years now and i love every minute of it. About a week ago, i asked her about the colors i was using since we were doing the same still life, she was making some suggestions when i had the craziest urge to kiss her, right then and there...but i didn't and kind of wishi did, but i know she would be completely shocked and suprised...why is this all so frustrating?
3-NO i am not whoring myself around but i have just these few small innocent crushes-There is a girl i've known for a WHILE now, her and i have gotten deep down and on a complete personal level-i've told her a secret which i've never told anyone before and she told one to me on the same level. I know she has kissed someone of the same sex before and i absolutely adore this girl, but she has so many morals and i don't want to upset her! She has such a beautiful mind...
Yes i am happy with my boyfriend and he finds nothing wrong with any of this but i just need to get that other side of me satisfied...i miss the innocence of a girl to girl kiss...
someone please pm me with SOME type of suggestion!!!!
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Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 2:25 am
Im surprised at myself, cause normally I post to my journal about problems like this, but I figured that I'm up and board, plus id give this a shot. Recently I've been talking with this guy I meet at work on myspace. I tend to be very pervy online and flirty. We have been talking about random stuff and I have been getting mixed messages from him about what is ok and what is not ok. However, tonight I got one of the most mixed of them all. I was told that we were just friends and then we're back to a similar song and dance number as if that line never happened. I like being the way I am online, but I'm not sure how this is affecting us. Any thoughts.
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Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 7:59 am
Never change yourself, love, that's all I'm saying
*sigh*
People should learn to understand each other and stop assuming so much
They always think they're right
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*is being slightly hypocritical, but hey, I'll live*
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Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2005 5:24 am
[ Message temporarily off-line ]
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Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2005 2:33 am
Im tired and this is really shitty of me, but its my last post in my journal . . . . . . sweatdrop so, please tell me what cha think.
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Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2005 10:43 pm
Hello I am 95% sure I'm gay and the remaining % is left open for bisexuality but I doubt it. I am male (and no the avatar does not refelct a desire to be female)*shivers at the though of having it chopped off*. I am quite young ,14. I found out when I was 12 after 6-9 months of struggling with idea I accepted it. Now I have moved and have no female friends unlike at last place I lived(I am quite strange even for a gay person rolleyes xd people avoid me in general). The question I ask is do I come out now or wait until I'm older to avoid many years of awkwardness? If I go for it who should I tell (I do have male friends and they are unfortunatly 100% straight not attracted to them either)? How do I stand school kids no one is gay it's a very small town.
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Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 3:25 pm
sorry this comment was rude but i changed it
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Posted: Fri Dec 16, 2005 12:32 am
Ashmerna stare .......[awkward scilence] HELP WOULD BE NICE scream scream scream scream stressed sweatdrop
Could you first calm down, please?
This guild is slow
Deal with it
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And the problem is beyond me
I'm sorry
I wish I could've helped you there
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Posted: Fri Dec 23, 2005 10:47 pm
TaroPsyche Im surprised at myself, cause normally I post to my journal about problems like this, but I figured that I'm up and board, plus id give this a shot. Recently I've been talking with this guy I meet at work on myspace. I tend to be very pervy online and flirty. We have been talking about random stuff and I have been getting mixed messages from him about what is ok and what is not ok. However, tonight I got one of the most mixed of them all. I was told that we were just friends and then we're back to a similar song and dance number as if that line never happened. I like being the way I am online, but I'm not sure how this is affecting us. Any thoughts. It's hard I think cause you can't actuallly be physical. Most of the time the words that come out of our mouth isn't what we are really saying. You need to be able to see their eyes, body movement and general body vibes they are sending out to see what they are really thinking. All you can do is be the way you are comfortable online if he doesn't like that then there are others and if he does the more power to you. smile
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Posted: Fri Dec 23, 2005 10:53 pm
[ Message temporarily off-line ]
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Posted: Fri Dec 23, 2005 10:55 pm
Ashmerna Hello I am 95% sure I'm gay and the remaining % is left open for bisexuality but I doubt it. I am male (and no the avatar does not refelct a desire to be female)*shivers at the though of having it chopped off*. I am quite young ,14. I found out when I was 12 after 6-9 months of struggling with idea I accepted it. Now I have moved and have no female friends unlike at last place I lived(I am quite strange even for a gay person rolleyes xd people avoid me in general). The question I ask is do I come out now or wait until I'm older to avoid many years of awkwardness? If I go for it who should I tell (I do have male friends and they are unfortunatly 100% straight not attracted to them either)? How do I stand school kids no one is gay it's a very small town. Well I understand the need to come out to people you want to be able to feel as though you can tell people important stuff in your life. However unfortunately society in general has not fully accepted gay people. Just stay true to yourself in time you will find people that will stay your good friends even after you tell them. I have found a great way to find out if people are really true or fake by telling them i am a Lez. I just let myself get to know people for awhile and them to know me after awhile I tell them. Most friends understand cause they know me by then but there are those that don't. Just trust your judgement on people it won't always be right but 99% of the time it will be. biggrin
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Posted: Sat Dec 24, 2005 7:01 am
YAY ADVICE well welll needed advice!
Ok it works this way...
There is this guy i really really like But he says hes straight BUT he has flirted with me loads and has said he is very sexually curious. So far he has grabbed my crotch and my a** randomly and anytime he has spoken to me he Moves closer!
Then yesterday he wantd to go to a gay cafe with me and my buds so we brought him and he brought his friend, and for the whole time ew were there he was looking around at the pics of men and he picked up a magazine with HAWT men in it and he was flicking through and then he Stopped on a page for about 50 seconds then moved on!
also he was saying gay comments and stuff. But then it got bad for me cas i told my best friend that i liked him and she started saying I AM GOING TO PUT UP A FIGHT and stuff like that! So now i dont know what to do??
HELP ME I REALlY REALLY LIKE THIS GUY AND HE MADE MOVES ON ME FIRST BUT i dont know what to do!!!!
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Posted: Sat Dec 24, 2005 8:40 pm
Mitral YAY ADVICE well welll needed advice! Ok it works this way... There is this guy i really really like But he says hes straight BUT he has flirted with me loads and has said he is very sexually curious. So far he has grabbed my crotch and my a** randomly and anytime he has spoken to me he Moves closer! Then yesterday he wantd to go to a gay cafe with me and my buds so we brought him and he brought his friend, and for the whole time ew were there he was looking around at the pics of men and he picked up a magazine with HAWT men in it and he was flicking through and then he Stopped on a page for about 50 seconds then moved on! also he was saying gay comments and stuff. But then it got bad for me cas i told my best friend that i liked him and she started saying I AM GOING TO PUT UP A FIGHT and stuff like that! So now i dont know what to do?? HELP ME I REALlY REALLY LIKE THIS GUY AND HE MADE MOVES ON ME FIRST BUT i dont know what to do!!!! Well it's possible he has not admited to himself that he is attracted to men. Especially since society is very anti gay most people will not admit it to themselves for fear of it being true. However he could be straight with Bi tendencies or even just curious. Your best bet is to talk to him see how open he is about discussing it. Mention you saw his reaction at the cafe and wondered if he might have any urges to be with men. If he throws up his defenses then he just isn't ready to deal with that reality. If all goes well you two will be able to talk out the situtation and you can make more sense of where you want your friendship to go. Just be careful and take your time no need to rush into anything if he really likes you and you him then it will work itself out. biggrin
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